• 116. People Pleasing or Kindness?
    Nov 21 2024
    In today's episode, we're diving deep into the world of people pleasing—what it is, why we do it, and how it affects our relationships and well-being. I'll unravel the differences between genuine kindness and people pleasing, especially after challenging relationships or divorces. We'll explore the fears driving these behaviors and how people pleasing strips away our authenticity. I'll also share practical insights on recognizing these patterns in yourself and others, the importance of self-love and boundary-setting, and how to cultivate empathy and respect without seeking validation. Tune in to reclaim your sense of self-worth and foster genuine relationships 01:10 Understanding People Pleasing 02:12 People Pleasing vs. Kindness 04:11 The Impact of People Pleasing 08:33 Healing and Moving Forward 15:09 Identifying Motives and Boundaries 17:54 Identifying People Pleasing vs. Kindness 19:18 Dependency on Approval 20:23 Recognizing People Pleasing in Others 22:03 Observing Stress and Reciprocity 25:27 Overcommitment and Relationship Dynamics 29:08 Practicing Self-Awareness and Boundaries 30:19 Cultivating Self-Compassion 30:47 Workshop Invitation and Conclusion Women Supporting Women Facebook Group ⁠⁠⁠⁠Join The Facebook Page Here ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.facebook.com/groups/theempowereddivorce ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DATING FROM WITHIN WORKSHOP⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : Next one January 23rd- 25th 2025 Missed it? no worries, find the next Workshop ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠MONTHLY DIVORCE Q&A⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join myself and others who are navigating the complexities of divorce and the aftermath that you may not have expected. Come with questions and learn from others as well. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠BELIEVING IN YOU COACHING MEMBERSHIP⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Increasing your awareness and turning the healing focus towards you takes your healing up a level or two. Group coaching, individual coaching, worksheets, new tools taught each week, support, live sessions recorded, all you need to heal. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INTIMACY WITHIN SELF-PACED COURSE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Walking your through the 7 levels of intimacy were you learn to intimately connect back towards you. Trauma disconnect you, reconnecting can be a beautiful experience and with this self paced course you can take it at your own pace. Workbook included. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DIVORCE 101 SELF PACED GUIDE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Not sure where to even start? The 'D' word can feel overwhelming to say the least. But lets slow this down a bit as I will help you take the next right step for you, just right now from a place of empowerment. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SHOULD I STAY OR GO GUIDE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ I specifically designed this to guide you through one of the most challenging questions you might face in your life. This course isn't just about finding an answer; it's about discovering what that answer means for you and your well-being. RELATIONSHIP DYNAMIC ASSESSMENT Book Your Consultation ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn More About Assessment ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Book you Brainspotting session with me ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ ⁠⁠SWAG SHOP- Trigger Kits & More⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ____________________________________________ Musicbed -January 8, 2024 The Music Bed, LLC ("MB") approves the use of "Today Will Be The Day - Instrumental" (Composition(s) and Master(s)) for intro "intro" (the "Production") pursuant to your request date January 8, 2024 as follows: SECTION I Composition/Master: Today Will Be The Day - Instrumental Artist(s): Summer Kennedy #divorce #divorcesupport #betrayal #abuse #narcissism #divorcehelp #lifesavingdivorce #empowereddivorce #lifeafterdivorce #peoplepleasing
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    32 mins
  • 115. Radical Acceptance
    Nov 14 2024
    I'm diving deep into the transformative concept of radical acceptance. We'll explore how fully accepting situations and people as they are, without trying to change or approve of them, can liberate you from unnecessary suffering and emotional turmoil. We'll discuss how resisting reality creates internal strife, clouds judgment, and drains mental resources, and how detaching yourself from the need to change others can enhance your problem-solving and emotional wellbeing. I'll provide actionable steps like cultivating awareness and practicing powerful mantras that reinforce your powerlessness over others. Get ready to drop the rope tied to destructive influences in your life and invest your energy where it can genuinely improve your life. 00:53 Introduction to Radical Acceptance 01:43 Understanding Radical Acceptance 03:27 Applying Radical Acceptance in Relationships 04:16 Personal Experiences with Radical Acceptance 05:33 Challenges and Benefits of Radical Acceptance 07:51 Letting Go of Control 08:19 Embracing Radical Acceptance 08:46 The Impact of Fighting Reality 09:15 Freeing Up Mental Space 09:51 Channeling Energy Effectively 11:16 Detaching from the Need to Convince 12:35 Living Your Life on Your Terms 13:52 Recognizing Your Power ______________________________________________ Women Supporting Women Facebook Group ⁠⁠⁠Join The Facebook Page Here ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.facebook.com/groups/theempowereddivorce ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DATING FROM WITHIN WORKSHOP⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : Next one January 23rd- 25th 2025 Missed it? no worries, find the next Workshop ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠MONTHLY DIVORCE Q&A⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join myself and others who are navigating the complexities of divorce and the aftermath that you may not have expected. Come with questions and learn from others as well. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠BELIEVING IN YOU COACHING MEMBERSHIP⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Increasing your awareness and turning the healing focus towards you takes your healing up a level or two. Group coaching, individual coaching, worksheets, new tools taught each week, support, live sessions recorded, all you need to heal. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INTIMACY WITHIN SELF-PACED COURSE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Walking your through the 7 levels of intimacy were you learn to intimately connect back towards you. Trauma disconnect you, reconnecting can be a beautiful experience and with this self paced course you can take it at your own pace. Workbook included. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DIVORCE 101 SELF PACED GUIDE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Not sure where to even start? The 'D' word can feel overwhelming to say the least. But lets slow this down a bit as I will help you take the next right step for you, just right now from a place of empowerment. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SHOULD I STAY OR GO GUIDE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ I specifically designed this to guide you through one of the most challenging questions you might face in your life. This course isn't just about finding an answer; it's about discovering what that answer means for you and your well-being. RELATIONSHIP DYNAMIC ASSESSMENT Book Your Consultation ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn More About Assessment ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Book you Brainspotting session with me ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠ ⁠SWAG SHOP- Trigger Kits & More⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ____________________________________________ Musicbed -January 8, 2024 The Music Bed, LLC ("MB") approves the use of "Today Will Be The Day - Instrumental" (Composition(s) and Master(s)) for intro "intro" (the "Production") pursuant to your request date January 8, 2024 as follows: SECTION I Composition/Master: Today Will Be The Day - Instrumental Artist(s): Summer Kennedy
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    16 mins
  • 114. Understanding & Overcoming Jealousy
    Nov 7 2024
    Today I'm diving deep into the often misunderstood emotion of jealousy and how to process it, especially in the aftermath of betrayal trauma and divorce. I'll explain jealousy in the context of internal family systems, seeing it as a protective 'manager' that signals vulnerabilities and unmet needs. Radical acceptance and healthy anger release are key strategies we'll discuss, alongside the healing power of gratitude to shift focus from lack to abundance. I'll also guide you through practical ways to incorporate gratitude in your daily life and delve into the seven levels of intimacy to reconnect with yourself and build resilience. Tune in to learn how to manage jealousy, practice self-awareness, and prepare to embrace healthy relationships once again. Don't forget to check out my self-paced program 'Intimacy Within' and the upcoming 'Dating Within' workshop for further support on your healing journey. 00:00 Introduction and Checking In 01:24 Understanding and Naming Emotions 03:35 The Impact of Trauma on Emotions 04:43 Exploring the Emotion of Jealousy 06:32 Jealousy in the Context of Relationships 09:43 Jealousy and Self-Reflection 12:22 Unpacking the Roots of Jealousy 13:19 Processing Grief and Emotions 13:38 Embracing Radical Acceptance 14:48 Channeling Anger Constructively 16:41 Letting Go of Obsessive Thoughts 19:19 Practicing Gratitude 21:49 Building Healthy Intimacy _________________________________________________ Women Supporting Women Facebook Group ⁠⁠Join The Facebook Page Here ⁠⁠⁠ https://www.facebook.com/groups/theempowereddivorce ⁠⁠⁠⁠DATING FROM WITHIN WORKSHOP⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : Next one January 23rd- 25th 2025 Missed it? no worries, find the next Workshop ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠MONTHLY DIVORCE Q&A⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join myself and others who are navigating the complexities of divorce and the aftermath that you may not have expected. Come with questions and learn from others as well. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠BELIEVING IN YOU COACHING MEMBERSHIP⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Increasing your awareness and turning the healing focus towards you takes your healing up a level or two. Group coaching, individual coaching, worksheets, new tools taught each week, support, live sessions recorded, all you need to heal. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INTIMACY WITHIN SELF-PACED COURSE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Walking your through the 7 levels of intimacy were you learn to intimately connect back towards you. Trauma disconnect you, reconnecting can be a beautiful experience and with this self paced course you can take it at your own pace. Workbook included. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DIVORCE 101 SELF PACED GUIDE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Not sure where to even start? The 'D' word can feel overwhelming to say the least. But lets slow this down a bit as I will help you take the next right step for you, just right now from a place of empowerment. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SHOULD I STAY OR GO GUIDE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ I specifically designed this to guide you through one of the most challenging questions you might face in your life. This course isn't just about finding an answer; it's about discovering what that answer means for you and your well-being. RELATIONSHIP DYNAMIC ASSESSMENT Book Your Consultation ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn More About Assessment ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Book you Brainspotting session with me ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE SWAG SHOP- Trigger Kits & More⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ____________________________________________ Musicbed -January 8, 2024 The Music Bed, LLC ("MB") approves the use of "Today Will Be The Day - Instrumental" (Composition(s) and Master(s)) for intro "intro" (the "Production") pursuant to your request date January 8, 2024 as follows: SECTION I Composition/Master: Today Will Be The Day - Instrumental Artist(s): Summer Kennedy
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    23 mins
  • 113. Knowing Your Body w/ Darcy Haas
    Oct 31 2024
    In this insightful and empowering episode, I welcome Darcy Haas, a functional nutritionist and former nurse, to talk with me about the intricate connections between emotional trauma, chronic stress, and physical health in women. 02:39 Darcy's Journey and Transformation 04:28 Understanding Functional Medicine 06:56 Stress and Hormonal Health 11:41 Impact of Trauma on Health 22:04 Connecting Symptoms to Hormones 25:02 Understanding the Cyclical Nature of Our Bodies 25:30 The Importance of Tracking Your Cycle 25:52 Apps vs. Pen and Paper for Tracking 27:15 The Beauty of Our Menstrual Cycle 28:06 Energy and Creativity Through the Seasons 28:58 Navigating PMS and Emotional Clarity 32:48 Embracing Intuition During Menstruation 37:58 Practical Tips for Self-Care and Healing 41:10 Affordable Health Solutions for Women Website: sitwithmefn.comInstagram: @swmfunctionalnutrition After years of being underwhelmed by the conventional medical system, Darcy found her place in the functional space where she discovered a beautiful, new medicine, functional nutrition. She focuses her work on finding the “why” for women’s chronic health issues. Darcy sees clients in her 1:1 virtual practice and also in her group membership built to support women through their perimenopausal years. Her nutrition practice is called Sit With Me Functional Nutrition because she knows first hand the importance of women being seen and having their story heard, and that takes time. Be seen, be heard, be well! Women Supporting Women Facebook Group ⁠Join The Facebook Page Here ⁠⁠ https://www.facebook.com/groups/theempowereddivorce ⁠⁠⁠DATING FROM WITHIN WORKSHOP⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : Next one January 23rd- 25th 2025 Missed it? no worries, find the next Workshop ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠MONTHLY DIVORCE Q&A⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join myself and others who are navigating the complexities of divorce and the aftermath that you may not have expected. Come with questions and learn from others as well. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠BELIEVING IN YOU COACHING MEMBERSHIP⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Increasing your awareness and turning the healing focus towards you takes your healing up a level or two. Group coaching, individual coaching, worksheets, new tools taught each week, support, live sessions recorded, all you need to heal. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INTIMACY WITHIN SELF-PACED COURSE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Walking your through the 7 levels of intimacy were you learn to intimately connect back towards you. Trauma disconnect you, reconnecting can be a beautiful experience and with this self paced course you can take it at your own pace. Workbook included. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DIVORCE 101 SELF PACED GUIDE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Not sure where to even start? The 'D' word can feel overwhelming to say the least. But lets slow this down a bit as I will help you take the next right step for you, just right now from a place of empowerment. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SHOULD I STAY OR GO GUIDE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ I specifically designed this to guide you through one of the most challenging questions you might face in your life. This course isn't just about finding an answer; it's about discovering what that answer means for you and your well-being. Book Your Consultation ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn More About Assessment ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Book your Brainspotting session with me ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE SWAG SHOP- Trigger Kits & More⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ____________________________________________ Musicbed -January 8, 2024 The Music Bed, LLC ("MB") approves the use of "Today Will Be The Day - Instrumental" (Composition(s) and Master(s)) for intro "intro" (the "Production") pursuant to your request date January 8, 2024 as follows: SECTION I Composition/Master: Today Will Be The Day - Instrumental Artist(s): Summer Kennedy
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    53 mins
  • 112. When Kids Hear Different Stories From Parents
    Oct 24 2024
    What do you do when your kids hear a different story from the other parent? n this episode, I discusses the complexities of navigating high-conflict divorces and the critical importance of protecting children's emotional wellbeing. I talk about the challenges of managing conflicting narratives from ex-partners, how leaning into radical acceptance, emotional stability, and living with integrity can help counter these contradictory narratives. I offer Practical steps for empowering you as their parent and how to guide children towards independence and emotional regulation. 00:00 Welcome and Community Updates 00:47 Supporting Women Entrepreneurs 01:53 Navigating Divorce and Support 03:16 Upcoming Workshops and Events 04:45 Challenges in High Conflict Divorces 06:13 Dealing with False Narratives 09:22 Radical Acceptance and Long-Term Focus 13:50 Living with Integrity and Patience 16:41 Communicating with Your Children 18:41 Empowering Moms to Trust Their Instincts 20:29 Understanding Each Child's Unique Needs 22:20 Maintaining Stability and Open Communication 24:39 Navigating Contradictions and Encouraging Critical Thinking 31:03 Modeling Emotional Intelligence and Healthy Relationships 37:26 Empowering Children with Choices and Independence 38:09 Concluding Thoughts on Long-Term Parenting _____________________________________________ Women Supporting Women Facebook Group Join The Facebook Page Here ⁠ https://www.facebook.com/groups/theempowereddivorce ⁠⁠DATING FROM WITHIN WORKSHOP⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : Next one January 23rd- 25th 2025 Missed it? no worries, find the next Workshop ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠MONTHLY DIVORCE Q&A⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join myself and others who are navigating the complexities of divorce and the aftermath that you may not have expected. Come with questions and learn from others as well. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠BELIEVING IN YOU COACHING MEMBERSHIP⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Increasing your awareness and turning the healing focus towards you takes your healing up a level or two. Group coaching, individual coaching, worksheets, new tools taught each week, support, live sessions recorded, all you need to heal. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INTIMACY WITHIN SELF-PACED COURSE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Walking your through the 7 levels of intimacy were you learn to intimately connect back towards you. Trauma disconnect you, reconnecting can be a beautiful experience and with this self paced course you can take it at your own pace. Workbook included. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DIVORCE 101 SELF PACED GUIDE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Not sure where to even start? The 'D' word can feel overwhelming to say the least. But lets slow this down a bit as I will help you take the next right step for you, just right now from a place of empowerment. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SHOULD I STAY OR GO GUIDE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ I specifically designed this to guide you through one of the most challenging questions you might face in your life. This course isn't just about finding an answer; it's about discovering what that answer means for you and your well-being. Through my own journey and deeply personal decision around should I stay or go, I realized that there is no 'right' choice- but that I make the choice right, by being the chooser of it. RELATIONSHIP DYNAMIC ASSESSMENT Book Your Consultation ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn More About Assessment ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Book you Brainspotting session with me ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ____________________________________________ Musicbed -January 8, 2024 The Music Bed, LLC ("MB") approves the use of "Today Will Be The Day - Instrumental" (Composition(s) and Master(s)) for intro "intro" (the "Production") pursuant to your request date January 8, 2024 as follows: SECTION I Composition/Master: Today Will Be The Day - Instrumental Artist(s): Summer Kennedy #divorce #betrayal #abuse #divorcesupport #lifeafterdivorce #empowereddivorce #whenkidsheardifferentstories #coparenting #narcissism #divorcehelp
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    42 mins
  • 111. " I Should Have Known Better"
    Oct 17 2024
    Today I validate the emotional turmoil following divorce and betrayal, focusing on the pervasive tendency to self-blame and shame our past self for "Not knowing what we should have known". By exploring the cognitive and psychological reasons behind such reactions, including the brain's mechanisms for dealing with trauma, I share a compassionate perspective. The episode offers practical steps for healing and making a shift towards having an EMPOWERED DIVORCE. 00:00 Welcome and Introduction 00:20 The Journey of Ups and Downs 01:17 Feeling Alone in the Divorce Aisle 02:03 Self-Doubt and Blame 02:41 Understanding Trauma and Control 06:01 Cognitive Dissonance and Betrayal 09:37 Impact on Future Relationships 10:12 Acceptance and Healing 11:13 Understanding Emotional Responses to Betrayal 12:02 Shifting Your Mindset: Awareness and Reframing 14:49 Embracing Self-Compassion and Healing 16:08 Empowerment Through Present Choices 17:09 The Gift of a New Day 18:53 Invitation to Brainspotting ________________________________________________ WOMEN SUPPORTING WOMEN FACEBOOK GROUP facebook.com/groups/theempowereddivorce ⁠BELIEVING IN YOU COACHING MEMBERSHIP⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Increasing your awareness and turning the healing focus towards you takes your healing up a level or two. Group coaching, individual coaching, worksheets, new tools taught each week, support, live sessions recorded, all you need to heal. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INTIMACY WITHIN SELF-PACED COURSE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Walking your through the 7 levels of intimacy were you learn to intimately connect back towards you. Trauma disconnect you, reconnecting can be a beautiful experience and with this self paced course you can take it at your own pace. Workbook included. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠MONTHLY DIVORCE Q&A⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join myself and others who are navigating the complexities of divorce and the aftermath that you may not have expected. Come with questions and learn from others as well. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DIVORCE 101 SELF PACED GUIDE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Not sure where to even start? The 'D' word can feel overwhelming to say the least. But lets slow this down a bit as I will help you take the next right step for you, just right now from a place of empowerment. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SHOULD I STAY OR GO GUIDE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ I specifically designed this to guide you through one of the most challenging questions you might face in your life. This course isn't just about finding an answer; it's about discovering what that answer means for you and your well-being. Through my own journey and deeply personal decision around should I stay or go, I realized that there is no 'right' choice- but that I make the choice right, by being the chooser of it. RELATIONSHIP DYNAMIC ASSESSMENT Book Your Consultation ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn More About Assessment ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠DATING FROM WITHIN WORKSHOP⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : Next one AUGUST 29th Missed it? no worries, find the next Workshop ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Book you Brainspotting session with me ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ____________________________________________ Musicbed -January 8, 2024 The Music Bed, LLC ("MB") approves the use of "Today Will Be The Day - Instrumental" (Composition(s) and Master(s)) for intro "intro" (the "Production") pursuant to your request date January 8, 2024 as follows: SECTION I Composition/Master: Today Will Be The Day - Instrumental Artist(s): Summer Kennedy Duration: 3:05 Licenses: Individual / Podcaster / No Client Work / #divorce #betrayal #abuse #divorcesupport #lifeafterdivorce #empowereddivorce #ishouldhaveknownbetter #coparenting #narcissism #divorcehelp
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    20 mins
  • 110. Will I Ever Feel Normal Again?
    Oct 10 2024
    Join me for a deep dive into the journey of redefining 'normal' after experiencing trauma, particularly in relationships. This episode explores the struggle of overcoming the past's chaos and creating a healthier, peaceful life. Learn about the significance of self-compassion, trusting your body and intuition, and setting new personal boundaries. Discover practical steps to break old patterns, rebuild your sense of self, and embrace a new normal that's tailored just for you. Empower yourself to choose happiness and stability in your solo journey towards healing. In this transformative episode I unpack the challenges of feeling normal after experiencing betrayal trauma. Key Highlights: Explore the emotional landscape of life after betrayal and trauma recovery. Learn practical strategies for recognizing and trusting your body's intuition.Tips for establishing healthy boundaries and creating a peaceful, stable life. 00:00 Welcome and Announcements 01:45 Question of the Day: Will I Ever Feel Normal Again? 03:31 Understanding the Feeling of Normalcy 07:10 The Impact of Trauma on Perception 14:12 Rebuilding Trust and Creating a New Normal 19:13 Practical Steps to Embrace a New Normal 28:24 Conclusion and Encouragement ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠BELIEVING IN YOU COACHING MEMBERSHIP⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Increasing your awareness and turning the healing focus towards you takes your healing up a level or two. Group coaching, individual coaching, worksheets, new tools taught each week, support, live sessions recorded, all you need to heal. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INTIMACY WITHIN SELF-PACED COURSE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Walking your through the 7 levels of intimacy were you learn to intimately connect back towards you. Trauma disconnect you, reconnecting can be a beautiful experience and with this self paced course you can take it at your own pace. Workbook included. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠MONTHLY DIVORCE Q&A⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join myself and others who are navigating the complexities of divorce and the aftermath that you may not have expected. Come with questions and learn from others as well. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DIVORCE 101 SELF PACED GUIDE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Not sure where to even start? The 'D' word can feel overwhelming to say the least. But lets slow this down a bit as I will help you take the next right step for you, just right now from a place of empowerment. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SHOULD I STAY OR GO GUIDE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ I specifically designed this to guide you through one of the most challenging questions you might face in your life. This course isn't just about finding an answer; it's about discovering what that answer means for you and your well-being. Through my own journey and deeply personal decision around should I stay or go, I realized that there is no 'right' choice- but that I make the choice right, by being the chooser of it. RELATIONSHIP DYNAMIC ASSESSMENT Book Your Consultation ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn More About Assessment ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠DATING FROM WITHIN WORKSHOP⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : Next one AUGUST 29th Missed it? no worries, find the next Workshop ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Book you Brainspotting session with me ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ____________________________________________ Musicbed -January 8, 2024 The Music Bed, LLC ("MB") approves the use of "Today Will Be The Day - Instrumental" (Composition(s) and Master(s)) for intro "intro" (the "Production") pursuant to your request date January 8, 2024 as follows: SECTION I Composition/Master: Today Will Be The Day - Instrumental Artist(s): Summer Kennedy Duration: 3:05 Licenses: Individual / Podcaster #divorce #betrayal #abuse #divorcesupport #lifeafterdivorce #empowereddivorce #willieverfeelnormalagain #coparenting #narcissism #divorcehelp
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    34 mins
  • 109. The Second Divorce; Being Honest With Yourself w/ Kimberly Day, LMFT
    Oct 3 2024
    I sit down with Kimberly Day, LMFT, to delve into the complexities of navigating second divorces—a topic many of you have expressed interest in, especially as you confront the stigmas and shame often associated with multiple marital endings. Kimberly brings a refreshingly empowered perspective to the discussion, challenging the societal narratives that frame second divorces as failures. Her insights are not just about personal experiences but about the broader implications of how we perceive and internalize these significant life changes. Episode Highlights: Addressing Shame and StigmasLearning from Each Marriage Empowerment Through DivorceMoving Forward Self-Reflecting Questions: How have your relationships shaped your understanding of yourself?In what ways can you transform feelings of shame or failure into empowerment?What does a healthy relationship look like for you, and how can you foster those qualities in your interactions? 01:35 Addressing Shame and Stigmas of Multiple Divorces 05:41 Kim's First Marriage and Divorce 08:09 Kim's Second Marriage and Divorce 16:38 Empowerment Through Divorce 27:30 Lessons Learned and Moving Forward 36:54 The Importance of Healthy Relationships _________________________________________ WOMEN SUPPORTING WOMEN FACEBOOK GROUP facebook.com/groups/theempowereddivorce BELIEVING IN YOU COACHING MEMBERSHIP⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Increasing your awareness and turning the healing focus towards you takes your healing up a level or two. Group coaching, individual coaching, worksheets, new tools taught each week, support, live sessions recorded, all you need to heal. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠INTIMACY WITHIN SELF-PACED COURSE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Walking your through the 7 levels of intimacy were you learn to intimately connect back towards you. Trauma disconnect you, reconnecting can be a beautiful experience and with this self paced course you can take it at your own pace. Workbook included. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠MONTHLY DIVORCE Q&A⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join myself and others who are navigating the complexities of divorce and the aftermath that you may not have expected. Come with questions and learn from others as well. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DIVORCE 101 SELF PACED GUIDE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Not sure where to even start? The 'D' word can feel overwhelming to say the least. But lets slow this down a bit as I will help you take the next right step for you, just right now from a place of empowerment. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SHOULD I STAY OR GO GUIDE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ I specifically designed this to guide you through one of the most challenging questions you might face in your life. This course isn't just about finding an answer; it's about discovering what that answer means for you and your well-being. Through my own journey and deeply personal decision around should I stay or go, I realized that there is no 'right' choice- but that I make the choice right, by being the chooser of it. RELATIONSHIP DYNAMIC ASSESSMENT Book Your Consultation ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn More About Assessment ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠DATING FROM WITHIN WORKSHOP⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ : Next one AUGUST 29th Missed it? no worries, find the next Workshop ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Book you Brainspotting session with me ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ____________________________________________ Musicbed -January 8, 2024 The Music Bed, LLC ("MB") approves the use of "Today Will Be The Day - Instrumental" (Composition(s) and Master(s)) for intro "intro" (the "Production") pursuant to your request date January 8, 2024 as follows: SECTION I Composition/Master: Today Will Be The Day - Instrumental Artist(s): Summer Kennedy Duration: 3:05 Licenses: Individual / Podcaster / No Client #divorce #betrayal #abuse #divorcesupport #lifeafterdivorce #empowereddivorce #seconddivorce #coparenting #narcissism #divorcehelp
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    40 mins