This week we welcome back the fabulous Sally Jane Douglas! Sally shares her journey into relationships and intimacy. Sally shares her personal experiences of cultivating self-connection and vulnerability, and how that has laid the foundation for her current intimate relationship. The chat delves into understanding feminine and masculine energies, practical steps for building emotional and sexual intimacy, and Sally's new program "Her Renaissance" focused on these topics.

Sally also shares insights into her role as a step-parent. The episode is filled with wisdom, vulnerability, and practical advice for nurturing fulfilling relationships.

Key Points Discussed:

• The importance of self-connection, vulnerability, and embracing both feminine and masculine energies
• Practical steps for cultivating emotional and sexual intimacy in relationships
• Sally's new program "Her Renaissance" focused on feminine embodiment, intimacy, and pleasure
• The value of conscious check-ins and co-creating relationship visions with a partner
• Insights into navigating step-parenting with intention and flexibility

We hope you love this chat as much as we did.

Connect with Sally: @sallyjanedouglas

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In this episode of The Selfish Podcast" with Chloe and Steph, the gals deep dive into the Year of the Wood Snake in the Chinese zodiac for 2025. They cover the key themes and predictions for each of the 12 zodiac animals, highlighting the opportunities and challenges they may face in the coming year.

Chloe & Steph also run through the general themes of the snake year for us all and finish with some Feng Shui tips to maximise the flow of energy in your home.

Zodiac forecast timestamps

10:43 Snake (1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001, 2013, 2025)

12:33 Horse (1954, 1966, 1978, 1990, 2002, 2014)

13:51 Goat (1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003, 2015)

15:00 Monkey (1944, 1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004, 2016)

16:20 Rooster (1945, 1957, 1969, 1981, 1993, 2005, 2017)

17:37 Dog (1946, 1958, 1970, 1982, 1994, 2006, 2018)

19:17 Pig (1947, 1959, 1971, 1983, 1995, 2007, 2019)

20:53 Rat (1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008, 2020)

22:41 Ox (1949, 1961, 1973, 1985, 1997, 2009, 2021)

23:47 Tiger (1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010, 2022)

24:55 Rabbit (1951, 1963, 1975, 1987, 1999, 2011, 2023)

26:11 Dragon (1952, 1964, 1976, 1988, 2000, 2012, 2024)

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In this episode Chloe & Steph talk through the highs and lows of their respective Christmases and time spent in January plus back to school.

This was recorded on 31 Jan. Hope you enjoy x

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Hello, we are back! So happy to be back with you in 2025.

In today's episode we talk through the days of the week and the planets that rule each day. This is a must listen as we look to the year ahead, getting out shit together and working with the flow instead of against it.

We hope you enjoy x

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I got really techy and recorded the Instagram live I did over at @the.selfishpodcast. Here it is x


Just had a little chat about grief & missing someone you love over the holidays 🤍. A few thoughts from me:

- it’s ok to set boundaries. This is strongly encouraged!
It’s also ok to opt out of Christmas and other festive events.
I like to have a pre planned “script/template” of what I will say if it all gets too much.


- introduce your own traditions that include your loved one. This might be making a donation in their name or something else that is meaningful to you. No pressure to do this, or work this out straight away, in your own time and when it makes sense 🤍


- incorporate them into the day/ your celebrations. For us this is an ornament on the tree, lighting a candle for our boy, and making a toast before we eat.
It could also include playing their favourite song or watching a movie you enjoyed together. Drinking “their” drink, or saving a seat for them at the table.

You may want to reach out to the host of the event and let them know how you want to honor your loved one ahead of time.


- make space for your emotions: feel the feelings, cry the tears. Things are so busy this time of year it is easy to hurry yourself along and not have a moment to reflect. You could do this by going on a walk in nature or on the beach. For me it is star gazing.


- prioritise your wellbeing and self care. What do YOU need to recharge, replenish, restore.


If you have any other things that have helped you at this time of year please let us know in the comments.

Be gentle to yourself this time of year and sending you much love
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This week Chloe and Steph interview Bridget Bennett, a holistic health and body image coach, who shares her journey from being a professional bodybuilder to advocating for body positivity. Bridget emphasizes the importance of inner work, self-talk, and mindful consumption of social media.

She introduces the "catch, challenge, change" method for improving self-talk and suggests creating lists for nourishing and nurturing activities.

Bridget's course, the Powerful Woman Project, aims to help women love their bodies without dieting. She also discusses the impact of social media and the need to follow accounts that promote body diversity.

Action Items

• Catch the negative self-talk and challenge the validity of the statements.
• Be mindful of what is being consumed on social media and unfollow accounts that make you feel bad about yourself.
• Create a list of nourishing and nurturing activities to refer to when feeling the urge to emotionally eat.

Follow Bridget on Instagram @bridget__bennett
Join The Powerful Woman Project

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It's December (!) and in this episode Steph shares some Feng Shui tips and tricks so we can create a calmer home this festive season.

Before we dive into this, we have a chat about our general energy levels at the start of the silly season and Chlo gives us a download on the December astro activities.

Tips to keep the energy in your home calm:

• Consider the colors and placement of Christmas decorations to balance the energy in the home
• Open the back door first to let out negative energy, then open the front door and windows to allow in fresh energy in
• Clear the energy again after guests leave by opening all the doors and windows.
• Declutter and dust the home to remove stagnant energy.
• Use soothing scents like essential oils or incense to create a calming atmosphere.

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In this episode, we dive into the unique challenges of December stress and explore practical strategies to navigate the holiday season pressure. From managing endless to-do lists to finding moments of calm, we share real experiences and actionable tips to help you through this busy period.

Key Topics Discussed:

• Understanding the "December Pressure Cooker" phenomenon
  • Why December feels different from other busy months
  • The physical manifestations of holiday stress
  • Managing multiple commitments during the festive season

Practical Strategies We Explored:

1. Brain Dumping Technique
   • Getting everything out of your head onto paper
   • Reducing mental load through external organization
   • How to effectively categorize your thoughts
2. Grounding Practices for Stress Management
   • Quick techniques to reset when feeling overwhelmed
   • Incorporating mindfulness into busy days
   • Simple breathing exercises for instant calm
3. Leveraging AI as a Support Tool
   • Using AI for planning and organization
   • How AI can help break down complex tasks
   • Making technology work for you during busy periods
4. The 4D Method: Delete, Delegate, Defer, Do
   • Questioning what really needs to be done
   • Identifying tasks that others can handle
   • Permission to postpone non-urgent items
   • Focusing on true priorities

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