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Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents
- How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents
- By: Lindsay C. Gibson PsyD
- Narrated by: Marguerite Gavin
- Length: 6 hrs and 50 mins
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In this breakthrough book, clinical psychologist Lindsay Gibson exposes the destructive nature of parents who are emotionally immature or unavailable. You will see how these parents create a sense of neglect and discover ways to heal from the pain and confusion caused by your childhood. By freeing yourself from your parents' emotional immaturity, you can recover your true nature, control how you react to them, and avoid disappointment. Finally, you'll learn how to create positive new relationships so you can build a better life.
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great and informative, but disregards one thing
- By Lz on 21-08-2018
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Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents
- How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents
- Narrated by: Marguerite Gavin
- Length: 6 hrs and 50 mins
- Release date: 10-05-2016
- Language: English
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The Emotionally Absent Mother
- How to Recognize and Heal the Invisible Effects of Childhood Emotional Neglect, Second Edition
- By: Jasmin Lee Cori MS LPC
- Narrated by: Emily Durante
- Length: 8 hrs and 49 mins
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Was your mother preoccupied, distant, or even demeaning? Have you struggled with relationships - or with your own self-worth? Often, the grown children of emotionally absent mothers can't quite put a finger on what's missing from their lives. The children of abusive mothers, by contrast, may recognize the abuse - but overlook its lasting, harmful effects. Psychotherapist Jasmin Lee Cori has helped thousands of men and women heal the hidden wounds left by every kind of undermothering.
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Definate must read if you are trying to heal from emotional neglect
- By Penny on 24-01-2018
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The Emotionally Absent Mother
- How to Recognize and Heal the Invisible Effects of Childhood Emotional Neglect, Second Edition
- Narrated by: Emily Durante
- Length: 8 hrs and 49 mins
- Release date: 25-04-2017
- Language: English
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Done with the Crying
- Help and Healing for Mothers of Estranged Adult Children
- By: Sheri McGregor
- Narrated by: Randye Kaye
- Length: 12 hrs and 6 mins
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In Done with the Crying: Help and Healing for Mothers of Estranged Adult Children, Sheri McGregor, MA, helps parents break free from emotional pain - and move forward in their own lives. As a loving mother to whom the unthinkable happened, McGregor knows the horrible shock that wrings a parent dry, triggers denial, blame, anger, and shame. With empathy and understanding, as well as tools, the latest research, and insight from more than 9,000 parents of estranged adult children, McGregor helps parents of estranged adults plan, prepare for emotional triggers, and prevail over pain.
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Saving grace!
- By Anonymous User on 27-04-2019
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Done with the Crying
- Help and Healing for Mothers of Estranged Adult Children
- Narrated by: Randye Kaye
- Length: 12 hrs and 6 mins
- Release date: 06-02-2018
- Language: English
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Children of the Self-Absorbed
- A Grown-Up's Guide to Getting Over Narcissistic Parents
- By: Nina W. Brown
- Narrated by: Lisa Reneé Pitts
- Length: 7 hrs and 3 mins
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Being a parent is usually all about giving of yourself to foster your child's growth and development. But what happens when this isn't the case? Some parents dismiss the needs of their children, asserting their own instead, demanding attention and reassurance from even very young children. This may especially be the case when a parent has narcissistic tendencies or narcissistic personality disorder.
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Children of the Self-Absorbed
- A Grown-Up's Guide to Getting Over Narcissistic Parents
- Narrated by: Lisa Reneé Pitts
- Length: 7 hrs and 3 mins
- Release date: 29-09-2011
- Language: English
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Reconnecting with Your Estranged Adult Child
- Practical Tips and Tools to Heal Your Relationship
- By: Tina Gilbertson
- Narrated by: Coleen Marlo
- Length: 7 hrs and 47 mins
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Parents whose adult children have cut off contact wonder: How did this happen? Where did I go wrong? What happened to my loving child? Over time, holidays, birthdays, and even the birth of grandchildren may pass in silence. Anguish may turn into anger. While time, in and of itself, does not necessarily heal, actions do, and while every estrangement includes situation-specific variables, there are practical, effective, and universal techniques for understanding and healing these not-uncommon breaches.
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A Must Read for Parents
- By Amazon Customer on 27-09-2020
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Reconnecting with Your Estranged Adult Child
- Practical Tips and Tools to Heal Your Relationship
- Narrated by: Coleen Marlo
- Length: 7 hrs and 47 mins
- Release date: 26-05-2020
- Language: English
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Surviving a Borderline Parent
- How to Heal Your Childhood Wounds and Build Trust, Boundaries, and Self-Esteem
- By: Kimberlee Roth, Freda B. Friedman
- Narrated by: Pam Ward
- Length: 7 hrs and 17 mins
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Although relatively common, borderline personality disorder (BPD) is often overlooked or misdiagnosed by therapists and clinicians and denied by those who suffer from it. If you were raised by a BPD parent, your childhood was a volatile and painful time. This book, the first written specifically for children of borderline parents, offers step-by-step guidance to understanding and overcoming the lasting effects of being raised by a person suffering from this disorder.
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Bad narration
- By Anonymous User on 07-11-2020
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Surviving a Borderline Parent
- How to Heal Your Childhood Wounds and Build Trust, Boundaries, and Self-Esteem
- Narrated by: Pam Ward
- Length: 7 hrs and 17 mins
- Release date: 27-12-2015
- Language: English
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Fierce Attachments
- A Memoir
- By: Vivian Gornick
- Narrated by: Vivian Gornick
- Length: 6 hrs and 16 mins
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In this deeply etched and haunting memoir, Vivian Gornick tells the story of her lifelong battle with her mother for independence. Gornick's groundbreaking book confronts what Edna O'Brien has called "the principal crux of female despair": the unacknowledged Oedipal nature of the mother-daughter bond. Born and raised in the Bronx, the daughter of "urban peasants," Gornick grows up in a household dominated by her intelligent but uneducated mother's romantic depression over the early death of her husband.
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Fierce Attachments
- A Memoir
- Narrated by: Vivian Gornick
- Length: 6 hrs and 16 mins
- Release date: 15-03-2022
- Language: English
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The Classic Fifty Poems
- By: John Keats, Samuel Taylor Coleridge, Christopher Marlowe
- Narrated by: Philip Levine, Paul Muldoon
- Length: 3 hrs and 2 mins
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Adopting the methodology of the music charts, The Classic Fifty Poems presents the "top 50" poems of all time. Newly revised, and read by an ensemble of contemporary poets, The Classic Fifty Poems is a feast for poetry lovers.
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- By Kindle Customer on 27-05-2020
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The Classic Fifty Poems
- Narrated by: Philip Levine, Paul Muldoon
- Length: 3 hrs and 2 mins
- Release date: 05-04-2001
- Language: English
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Children of the Aging Self-Absorbed
- A Guide to Coping with Difficult, Narcissistic Parents and Grandparents
- By: Nina W. Brown EdD LPC
- Narrated by: Diana Blue
- Length: 8 hrs and 34 mins
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As your self-absorbed parent grows older and becomes more dependent on you, hurtful relationships may resurface and become further strained. In the tradition of Children of the Self-Absorbed, author Nina Brown offers the first book for adult children of aging narcissistic or self-absorbed parents. You will learn practical, powerful strategies for navigating the intense negative feelings that your parents can incite as well as tips to protect your children from the criticism, blame, or hostility that may exist between you and their grandparent.
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Children of the Aging Self-Absorbed
- A Guide to Coping with Difficult, Narcissistic Parents and Grandparents
- Narrated by: Diana Blue
- Length: 8 hrs and 34 mins
- Release date: 27-04-2021
- Language: English
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Smart but Scattered - and Stalled
- 10 Steps to Help Young Adults Use Their Executive Skills to Set Goals, Make a Plan, and Successfully Leave the Nest
- By: Richard Guare PhD, Colin Guare, Peg Dawson EdD
- Narrated by: Matthew Boston
- Length: 10 hrs and 2 mins
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Whether you're a young adult who is stalled on the journey to independence or a concerned parent still sharing the family nest, this compassionate book is for you. Providing a fresh perspective on the causes of failure to launch, the expert authors present a 10-step plan that helps grown kids and parents work together to achieve liftoff.
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Smart but Scattered - and Stalled
- 10 Steps to Help Young Adults Use Their Executive Skills to Set Goals, Make a Plan, and Successfully Leave the Nest
- Narrated by: Matthew Boston
- Length: 10 hrs and 2 mins
- Release date: 12-02-2019
- Language: English
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Father Loss
- Daughters Discuss Life, Love, and Why Losing a Dad Means So Much
- By: Elyce Wakerman
- Narrated by: Gabra Zackman
- Length: 9 hrs and 49 mins
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Based partly on the author's experience, partly on her in-depth interviews, and partly on a questionnaire she developed with psychologist Holly Barrett to which almost 600 women responded, Father Loss provides the clearest portrait yet of a very special group of women. As a group, they express their insecurities ("Sometimes I wonder if I'll ever be able to love a man totally...because that would mean I didn't love my father anymore." - Leslie).
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Father Loss
- Daughters Discuss Life, Love, and Why Losing a Dad Means So Much
- Narrated by: Gabra Zackman
- Length: 9 hrs and 49 mins
- Release date: 04-11-2015
- Language: English
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Beyond Done with the Crying
- More Answers and Advice for Parents of Estranged Adult Children
- By: Sheri McGregor MA
- Narrated by: Ann Marie Lee
- Length: 13 hrs and 59 mins
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For any parent of estranged adult children, reconciling may be a solo sport. Even when reconciliations do occur, their success requires wisdom and strength. That's why it's so important to empower yourself, make positive changes, and reclaim your life, even while waiting and continuing to reach out (if you choose to). Beyond Done with the Crying: More Answers and Advice for Parents of Estranged Adult Children is filled with information and solutions to the complex, real-life problems that plague parents of estranged adult children and their families.
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Beyond Done with the Crying
- More Answers and Advice for Parents of Estranged Adult Children
- Narrated by: Ann Marie Lee
- Length: 13 hrs and 59 mins
- Release date: 06-09-2022
- Language: English
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When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us
- Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting on with Our Lives
- By: Jane Adams
- Narrated by: Jane Adams
- Length: 4 hrs and 29 mins
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How do today's parents cope when the dreams we had for our children clash with reality? What can we do for our 20- and even 30-somethings who can't seem to grow up? Who can we turn to when the kids aren't all right and we, their parents, are frightened, frustrated, resentful, embarrassed, and especially, disappointed? In this groundbreaking book, a social psychologist who's been chronicling the lives of American families for over two decades confronts our deepest concerns when our grown kids have failed to thrive.
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When Our Grown Kids Disappoint Us
- Letting Go of Their Problems, Loving Them Anyway, and Getting on with Our Lives
- Narrated by: Jane Adams
- Length: 4 hrs and 29 mins
- Release date: 26-04-2016
- Language: English
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Going Gypsy
- One Couple's Adventure from Empty Nest to No Nest at All
- By: David James, Veronica James
- Narrated by: Carolyn Cook, Steve Coulter
- Length: 6 hrs and 21 mins
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Almost every couple faces a "now what?" moment as their last kid moves out of the house. There's a big empty nest looming over this new and uncertain stage in their lives. David and Veronica James chose to look at this next phase of life as a beginning instead of an ending. Rather than staying put and facing the constant reminders of empty bedrooms and backseats, a plan began to develop to sell the nest and hit the highway.
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Thoroughly Wonderful!
- By FocusOnSimple on 26-11-2021
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Going Gypsy
- One Couple's Adventure from Empty Nest to No Nest at All
- Narrated by: Carolyn Cook, Steve Coulter
- Length: 6 hrs and 21 mins
- Release date: 03-02-2015
- Language: English
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Home Will Never Be the Same Again
- A Guide for Adult Children of Gray Divorce
- By: Carol R. Hughes, Bruce R. Fredenburg
- Narrated by: Coleen Marlo
- Length: 7 hrs and 37 mins
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Overlooked in the issues that affect couples divorcing later in in life are the adult children of divorcing parents. Their voices open this book, and they are the voices of men and women, 18 to 50 years old. Some of them are single; some are married. All of them are in different stages of shock, fear, and sudden, dramatic change. In Home Will Never Be the Same: A Guide for Adult Children of Gray Divorce, Carol Hughes and Bruce Fredenburg share their deep understanding gained during the innumerable hours they have spent with these women and men in their clinical practices.
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Home Will Never Be the Same Again
- A Guide for Adult Children of Gray Divorce
- Narrated by: Coleen Marlo
- Length: 7 hrs and 37 mins
- Release date: 06-05-2020
- Language: English
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Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children
- Six Steps to Hope and Healing for Struggling Parents
- By: Allison Bottke
- Narrated by: Margaret Strom
- Length: 7 hrs and 42 mins
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A tough-love guide to coping with dysfunctional adult children, Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children will empower families by offering hope and healing through S.A.N.I.T.Y. - a six-step program to help parents regain control in their homes and in their lives.
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Primarily for conservative Christians
- By Jeneva on 23-01-2020
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Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children
- Six Steps to Hope and Healing for Struggling Parents
- Narrated by: Margaret Strom
- Length: 7 hrs and 42 mins
- Release date: 27-12-2015
- Language: English
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The Balkans [Modern Library Chronicles]
- By: Mark Mazower
- Narrated by: Robert O'Keefe
- Length: 6 hrs and 24 mins
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In this fascinating work, winner of the Wolfson Prize for History Mark Mazower uncovers the history of the Balkans with detail and clarity. He explores the reasons for current conflicts and examines the Balkans as a religious, cultural, and economic melting pot for Europe and Asia. Through Robert O'Keefe's articulate narration, listeners will be absorbed by this rich world.
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The Balkans [Modern Library Chronicles]
- Narrated by: Robert O'Keefe
- Length: 6 hrs and 24 mins
- Release date: 15-07-2005
- Language: English
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The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read (and Your Children Will Be Glad That You Did)
- By: Philippa Perry
- Narrated by: Philippa Perry
- Length: 8 hrs and 52 mins
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Every parent wants their child to be happy and every parent wants to avoid screwing them up. But how do you achieve that? In this absorbing, clever and funny book, renowned psychotherapist Philippa Perry tells us what really matters and what behaviour it is important to avoid - the vital dos and don'ts of parenting.
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A life changing book
- By Kindle Customer on 20-10-2021
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The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read (and Your Children Will Be Glad That You Did)
- Narrated by: Philippa Perry
- Length: 8 hrs and 52 mins
- Release date: 07-03-2019
- Language: English
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Toxic In-Laws
- Loving Strategies for Protecting Your Marriage
- By: Susan Forward PhD, Donna Frazier - contributor
- Narrated by: Randye Kaye
- Length: 8 hrs and 2 mins
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Susan Forward draws on real-life voices and stories of both women and men struggling to free themselves from the frustrating, hurtful, and infuriating relationships with their toxic in-laws. Dr. Forward offers you highly effective communication and behavioral techniques for getting through to partners who won't or can't stand up to their parents. Next, she lays out accessible and practical ways to reclaim you marriage from your in-laws. She shows you what to say, what to do, and what limits to set. If you follow these strategies, you will find some peace in your relationship with them.
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Toxic In-Laws
- Loving Strategies for Protecting Your Marriage
- Narrated by: Randye Kaye
- Length: 8 hrs and 2 mins
- Release date: 15-10-2019
- Language: English
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Difficult
- Mothering Challenging Adult Children Through Conflict and Change
- By: Judith R. Smith
- Narrated by: Suzie Althens
- Length: 8 hrs and 27 mins
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Difficult brings to life the conflicts that arise for mothers who are confronted with the unexpected and burdensome dependencies of their adult children associated with mental illness, substance use, or chronic unemployment. Through real stories of mothers and their challenging adult children, this book offers accessible, provocative, and, at times, shocking illustrations of the excruciating maternal dilemma: Which takes precedence—the needs of the mother or of the distressed adult child? Difficult addresses a family situation which too many keep secret.
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Difficult
- Mothering Challenging Adult Children Through Conflict and Change
- Narrated by: Suzie Althens
- Length: 8 hrs and 27 mins
- Release date: 28-06-2022
- Language: English
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