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The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read (and Your Children Will Be Glad That You Did)

By: Philippa Perry
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THE #1 SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER

From the UK's favourite therapist, as seen on Channel 4's Grayson's Art Club.

How can we have better relationships?

In this Sunday Times bestseller, leading psychotherapist Philippa Perry reveals the vital do's and don'ts of relationships. This is a book for us all. Whether you are interested in understanding how your upbringing has shaped you, looking to handle your child's feelings or wishing to support your partner, you will find indispensable information and realistic tips in these pages. Philippa Perry's sane, sage and judgement-free advice is an essential resource on how to have the best possible relationships with the people who matter to you most.

©2019 Philippa Perry (P)2019 Penguin Audio
Child Psychology Conflict Resolution Infants & Toddlers Parents & Adult Children Teenagers Young Adult Inspiring Mental Health

Critic Reviews

"A wonderful book." (Richard Osman)

"So clear and true.... Helpful for all relationships in life, not just parent-child." (Nigella Lawson)

"A fascinating read on the emotional baggage we all carry." (Elizabeth Day)

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Amazing parenting book

I wish I had read this book while I was pregnant. So much useful parenting information. I have young children so hopefully I can use my new skills from the book to build the strongest, loving parent child relationship for life. Thank you for writing this book.

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Fantastic

Really great read on a number of topics, would have been great to have an accompanying PDF on the main points

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thought provoking, good summary

I liked how this parenting book is written in a direct, yet compassionate way, and the suggestions and case example were enlightening. I would recommend bringing an open mind to the ideas, and taking what resonates for you. It's mostly a collated summary of other people's work, accessibly presented.

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More focused on younger children

Very good book. Probably more focused on parents of younger children but can be helpful for all.

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Never too late

Absolutely brilliant,
Never too late to reset.
Has changed my thoughts and actions on Parenting.
Philippa’s a dream to listen to.
Thank you.
(please can you read your other book, so disappointing it wasn’t you..can’t finish!)

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Transformational book!

I really do wish my mom had read this book and I am glad I found it. It's transformational.

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Great listen for new parents!

Helped me tackle parenting in a more gentle way, a way I wanted to do but didn’t fully understand if it was okay.

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Fantastic book

Lovely book. Great insight into mindfulness and self reflection and bringing awareness to projection on the parents part of patenting due to one's own insecurities. Enabling a genuine relationship between parent and child.

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great book

very well titled. a must read! sent wait to implement the advice and techniques.

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Useful and really funny book

I loved this book and highly recommend it. I enjoyed how it got me thinking more deeply about relationships. it’s starts by getting you to think more about yourself and what your triggers are, then how to have more empathy for your child. Full of case studies and humorous stories. I know I will be a more compassionate and thoughtful parent for listening to this.

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