WTF Was She Thinking?

By: WTF Was She Thinking?
  • Summary

  • We are Mel from Its Not Me Its Booze and Clare author of Musings, two women that were fucked over by alcohol but discovered upon becoming friends that we have a lot more in common than the decision to live an alcohol-free life. This is our podcast, a space that rebels against girl boss culture and dives deep into the messy reality that is living sober, diagnosed and attempting to survive and contour. Just like life, this will be an unpredictable journey but we really hope you are as excited as we are to be along for the ride!
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Episodes
  • Ep 8 - Another F***ing Journey, the Diagnosis One
    May 31 2023

    In today's ep:

    • What we've been up to
    • Ordering non alcoholic cocktails
    • Mel fills us in on Scandoval and we unpack cheating in relationships and Mel's take on love addiction briefly
    • When a person is an autistic special interest
    • It's official, Mel is funny!
    • What's involved in getting diagnosed
    • The process is different for everyone
    • Clare's experience getting diagnoses
    • Mel's experience getting a diagnosis
    • The consequences of a late diagnosis
    • Our brief take on mental health and neurodivergent labels

    Resources discussed in this ep:

    • ⁠Clare's favourite diagnosis meme
    • The Its Not Me Its Booze Brunch Event; find all the details and buy your tix here


    Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@wtfwasshethinking ⁠⁠⁠

    Follow Mel on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@⁠itsnotmeitsbooze⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠@melwatkinstherapy⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Mel is now offering therapy sessions at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.melwatkinstherapy.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Read more of Clare's story here: ⁠⁠⁠Musings⁠⁠⁠

    Clare marries the lovers ⁠⁠@celebrant_clarewest⁠⁠ and ⁠clarewest.com.au

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    59 mins
  • Ep 7 - WTAF, Do I Have Social Anxiety?
    May 16 2023

    In today's ep:

    • What we've been up to
    • The importance of comfort. You are worth it! Buy the sheets!
    • Clare apologises
    • Our thoughts on Disney's "Single Drunk Female" tv show
    • The moment we each realised we had social anxiety
    • Having to face social anxiety without booze to help
    • Mel talks about hosting her very first INMIB (Its Not Me Its Booze) sober event
    • Socialising sober, it does get better!
    • Reminders not to drink
    • Overachievers learning to be mere mortals

    Resources discussed in this ep:

    • Clare's fave new bedding brand
    • Clare's other sober group; Self Made
    • Vanderpump Rules on Reddit
    • Watch Single Drunk Female
    • Mel's Sober Support Program and 1:1 Therapy offerings
    • "How to Quit Like a Woman" by Holly Whitaker


    Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠@wtfwasshethinking ⁠⁠

    Follow Mel on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@⁠itsnotmeitsbooze⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠@melwatkinstherapy⁠⁠⁠

    Mel is now offering therapy sessions at ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.melwatkinstherapy.com⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Read more of Clare's story here: ⁠⁠Musings⁠⁠

    Clare marries the lovers ⁠@celebrant_clarewest⁠ and clarewest.com.au

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    47 mins
  • Ep 6 - Our Take on Habits
    May 2 2023

    In today's ep:

    • What we’ve been up to
    • JLo has started her own alcohol company, WTF was she thinking?!
    • Our habits this morn
    • The habits you never expect to be habbits
    • Feeling like we are failing at habits
    • Relearning your previous booze fueled habits, without booze
    • Our nighttime habits


    Resources discussed in this ep:

    • J.Lo Has an Alcohol Company Now?
    • Meet Merlin the Pig


    Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@wtfwasshethinking ⁠

    Mel is now offering therapy sessions at ⁠⁠www.melwatkinstherapy.com⁠⁠

    Follow Mel on Instagram: ⁠⁠@⁠itsnotmeitsbooze⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠@melwatkinstherapy⁠⁠

    Read more of Clare's story here: ⁠Musings⁠


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    58 mins

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