Episodes

  • The Fink Siblings Episode: family dynamics, our significant others, and who's most likely to (with Allie & Rob Fink)

    The Fink Siblings Episode: family dynamics, our significant others, and who's most likely to (with Allie & Rob Fink)
    Jun 25 2024
    Today we have an unforgettable episode of the show as we sit down with two of my favorite people in the world — my brother Robbie and my twin sister Allie, to explore the unique dynamics of our sibling bond. I took to my Instagram stories to gather questions that you wanted answered and we even snuck in a game of "who's most likely to" before signing off. In this episode, we reflect on our special individual connections, highlighting the mutual admiration, creativity, and shared experiences that have shaped our closeness. From heartfelt compliments to nostalgic anecdotes, we explore the balance of intelligence, kindness, and normalcy within our family. We touch on sibling rivalry, the influence of our parents in fostering our strong connection, and the importance of maintaining these relationships while aiming to cultivate similar bonds in our future families. As we navigate significant life changes, we discuss the complex emotions and dynamics that arise when siblings reach major events at different times. We also address the idea of comparison between siblings, especially in relationships and personal milestones, and the invaluable support we provide each other during difficult times. Tune in for a heartfelt and engaging conversation that beautifully captures the essence of our sibling connection along with some unforgettable stories from our childhood. Follow Robbie here: https://www.instagram.com/robjfink Follow East Love here: https://www.instagram.com/eastlovemusic Sponsors: LMNT: Get your free Sample Pack with any LMNT drink mix purchase at: DrinkLMNT.com/RealStuff Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink Website: https://luciefink.com/ Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 34 mins
  • “I’m child-free by choice at age 43.” (Nitika Chopra)

    “I’m child-free by choice at age 43.” (Nitika Chopra)
    Jun 18 2024
    Living life child-free by choice in her 40s. Join us as we sit down with the remarkable Nitika Chopra—an advocate for those living with chronic illnesses, a podcast host, and the founder of Chronicon. In today’s episode, Nitika and I have an engaging and heartfelt discussion about her chronic illnesses and her decision to live a child-free lifestyle. Nitika shares the personal impact of her chronic illnesses on this choice and not only do we unpack the challenges of living with severe skin issues, arthritis, and myasthenia gravis triggered by COVID-19, but we also address the societal expectations and pressures surrounding a person’s decision not to have children. Nitika's decision to remain child-free is not only influenced by her health but also by her evolving perspectives on motherhood. We explore her thoughts on freezing eggs, the cultural expectations she navigates, and the reactions she got from her friends and family when she shared this decision. Nitika's longing for connection, her recent re-entry into the dating world, and her vision for the future add depth to this rich narrative. Finally, she introduces us to Chronicon's community membership—a supportive space for individuals with chronic illnesses—highlighting the importance of connection and understanding. Join us for an episode that celebrates diverse paths to a fulfilling life and emphasizes the value of self-awareness and respect for personal choices. Follow Nitika: https://www.instagram.com/nitikachopra Sponsors: Dreamland Baby: New and existing customers can go to dreamlandbabyco.com and enter code REALSTUFF at checkout to receive 30% off pajamas + free shipping. Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink Website: https://luciefink.com/ Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 10 mins
  • What's harder: going from 0-1 or 1-2 kids? (Audience callers)

    What's harder: going from 0-1 or 1-2 kids? (Audience callers)
    Jun 11 2024
    As I prepare to bring my second child into the world, I can't help but ask everyone I know who has more than one kid what their experience was like and how it compares to the journey of becoming first-time parents. I put a call out to my audience about their experiences navigating this transition and in today's episode, you'll hear intimate stories and insights from six listeners who reveal their personal journeys navigating these significant life changes. Just about half of our listeners found the leap from zero to one child to be easier, while the other half believed that welcoming a second child was less daunting. In today's episode, we'll hear from 3 people with each opinion. We also shed light on the day-to-day realities faced by parents, particularly stay-at-home moms who juggle childcare with minimal support from partners working long hours. The emotional toll on relationships is profound, as parents often find themselves wrestling with identity shifts, increased exhaustion, and evolving trust in their parental instincts. I have a personal theory about the type of people who find the transition from 0-1 to be harder than 1-2...so tune into the episode to see if my theory holds true! Let's dive into today's segment filled with heartfelt stories, practical advice, and a supportive community for parents at every stage of their journey. Sponsors: StoryWorth: Save $10 on your first purchase when you go to StoryWorth.com/REALSTUFF! Omaha Steaks: Order mouthwatering gift packages starting at just $99 and as a bonus use promo code LUCIE to get $10 off your order. 00:00:00 - 00:04:51 intro 00:04:51 - 00:16:17 Sam (0-1 was easier) 00:16:17 - 00:18:11 StoryWorth 00:18:11 - 00:30:00 Lindsay (0-1 was easier) 00:30:00 - 00:44:40 Laura (0-1 was easier) 00:44:40 - 00:57:23 Camila (1-2 was easier) 00:57:23 - 00:58:28 Omaha Steaks 00:58:28 - 01:14:48 Tash (1-2 was easier) 01:14:48 - 01:26:45 Ashley (1-2 was easier) 01:26:45 - 01:28:42 closing thoughts + outro Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink Website: https://luciefink.com/ Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 32 mins
  • “I no longer need to ask my husband for money.” (Alexia Delarosa)

    “I no longer need to ask my husband for money.” (Alexia Delarosa)
    Jun 4 2024
    I'm so excited to be joined by social media star, Alexia Delarosa (@lex.delarosa), on this week's episode of the podcast. Lex considers herself a full-time stay-at-home mom but she has also found incredible success cultivating a following online as she shares glimpses into the beauty of motherhood and homemaking. Her journey from a simple bread-making video to becoming a viral sensation is a testament to the power of authenticity and humor in the content creation space. This isn't your average tale of a "trad wife" – it's an insightful look at how personal choices carve out unique family dynamics, with Alexia’s warm narrative leading the way. While Alexia and I bonded over the discomfort of being asked about our salaries on live television, she didn't shy away from discussing the often taboo topic of money, sharing her business’s revenue and how much she charges for brand partnerships. Finally, we waded through the evolving perceptions of gender roles and financial independence as she detailed the shift within her own marriage. She spoke candidly about the challenges of being a stay-at-home mom and a full-time content creator, juggling parenting and her professional life without losing sight of her needs and aspirations. Her story is a wonderful example for those balancing family and Internet fame, illustrating the changing landscape of digital media and gender expectations. Sponsors: Omaha Steaks - go to omahasteaks.com and use promo code LUCIE at checkout for exclusive savings on Father’s Day gift packages. Storyworth - save $10 on your first purchase when you go to storyworth.com/REALSTUFF 00:00:00 - 00:04:52 intro 00:04:52 - 00:07:05 growing up 00:07:05 - 00:08:25 being categorized as a “trad wife” 00:08:25 - 00:11:22 the rise to social media fame 00:11:22 - 00:13:50 Lex’s signature head tilt 00:13:50 - 00:20:56 the negativity that comes with viral videos 00:20:56 - 00:21:58 Omaha Steaks 00:21:58 - 00:25:01 TikTok vs. Instagram 00:25:01 - 00:31:56 compensation as a content creator 00:31:56 - 00:36:35 discomfort with talking about money 00:36:35 - 00:38:05 gross revenue in the past year 00:38:05 - 00:39:30 StoryWorth 00:39:30 - 00:43:12 being a SAHM, childcare, and homeschooling 00:43:12 - 00:53:51 division of labor and financial responsibilities 00:53:51 - 01:01:05 experience on The Tamron Hall Show 01:01:05 - 01:01:46 future goals 01:01:46 - 01:02:44 outro Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink Website: https://luciefink.com/ Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • “I have a 5% chance of living past 5 years.” (Audience caller)

    “I have a 5% chance of living past 5 years.” (Audience caller)
    May 28 2024
    In this week’s episode, I sit down with Jordy Glassner, a 31-year-old wife and mother who is living with terminal brain cancer. When Jordy first decided that she wanted to share her story publicly on social media, a mutual friend put us in touch so that I could show her the ropes. I’m so honored to have her joining me on our show to share her story with all of you. In this conversation, Jordy courageously opens up about her unexpected battle with glioblastoma. Her story begins with a chilling numbness and evolves into a fight for her life. Jordy’s recount of the disbelief, the emergency surgery, and the pain of not being able to see her son before the operation is a powerful testament to a mother's love and resilience in the face of harrowing odds. The narrative doesn't stop at survival; it's a relentless journey of adaptation to a new reality. Jordy eloquently speaks to how her diagnosis has permeated every aspect of her life, from the loss of a career to the redefinition of her self-identity and personal relationships. Through her eyes, we witness the grief for a past life and the transformation of relationships, yet we also discover the potential for deeper bonds and new perspectives. Jordy’s experience, punctuated by the ebbs and flows of treatment and waiting periods, offers listeners an intimate window into the emotional complexity that accompanies a life-altering diagnosis and the unwavering hope that can emerge from its depths. Sponsors: DrinkLMNT.com/RealStuff - Get your free Sample Pack with any LMNT drink mix. Also try the new LMNT Sparkling — a bold, 16-ounce can of sparkling electrolyte water. OmahaSteaks.com and use promo code LUCIE at checkout for an additional discount when you shop Gourmet gift packages for Fathers Day. Follow Jordy on Instagram: @jordyglassner Listen to Jordy's podcast, Grief Street: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/grief-street/id1742465491 The gala is sold out, but here’s a link to donate to UCLA's fund for brain cancer research: https://giving.ucla.edu/Campaign/Donate.aspx?SiteNum=4010&AutoFN=Y&Trib=Y&TribT=M&TribFN=Stanford&TribLN=Kurland Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink Website: https://luciefink.com/ Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 17 mins
  • Solo Q&A: getting ready for baby girl, family finances and 2nd trimester updates

    Solo Q&A: getting ready for baby girl, family finances and 2nd trimester updates
    May 21 2024
    Now that I’m in my second trimester, it's time for another audience Q&A episode! I'm answering all of the questions that you sent through my IG stories box recently. Join me as I discuss the rollercoaster of our 20-week anatomy scan which unveiled that my baby's umbilical cord has one artery instead of two. Single umbilical artery (SUA) is, as I've learned, not as uncommon as they made it sound. While this discovery was scary at first, I offer comfort and insights for those facing similar prenatal concerns, highlighting how every pregnancy can bring its own set of unexpected turns. On a lighter topic, I share the creative process behind naming our baby, touching on why some beloved names didn't make the cut and the anticipation of a different postpartum experience in our suburban home. Balancing professional and family life with two children is a theme that resonates deeply in this episode. From deciding when to announce the pregnancy to contemplating a step back from work to prioritize family needs, I open up about the complexities and joys of transitioning from one child to two. Join me for a conversation that's as real as it gets, where we celebrate the joyous complexity of adding another heart to the family's beat! Sponsor: Songfinch: Go to songfinch.com/REALSTUFF and start your song – after you purchase, you’ll be prompted to add Spotify Streaming for your original song for FREE - a $50 value! 00:00:00 - 00:08:12 intro + 20-week anatomy scan 00:08:12 - 00:10:49 choosing a name 00:10:49 - 00:14:30 things I hope to do differently with baby #2 00:14:30 - 00:17:35 differences between my two pregnancies 00:17:35 - 00:19:34 does Milo know what's going on? 00:19:34 - 00:21:31 Songfinch 00:21:31 - 00:24:30 having enough time with Milo 00:24:30 - 00:25:55 hiring a baby nurse 00:25:55 - 00:30:09 breastfeeding tips & feeding plan for baby #2 00:30:09 - 00:31:22 when I started feeling baby moving 00:31:22 - 00:32:31 my energy level compared to first pregnancy 00:32:31 - 00:34:52 how I feel about giving birth 00:34:52 - 00:35:50 diet changes for high blood sugar 00:35:50 - 00:36:36 introducing Milo to his baby sister 00:36:36 - 00:38:58 cost of raising a child in the city 00:38:58 - 00:41:33 sibling age gaps 00:41:33 - 00:42:56 did this pregnancy affect how many children we want? 00:42:56 - 00:44:05 sciatica pain 00:44:05 - 00:45:32 announcing my pregnancy 00:45:32 - 00:49:53 fears about going from 1 to 2 kids 00:49:53 - 00:50:55 outro Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink Website: https://luciefink.com/ Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    55 mins
  • "My life no longer feels desperately uncomfortable.” (Liz Moody)

    "My life no longer feels desperately uncomfortable.” (Liz Moody)
    May 14 2024
    Join me for an intimate conversation with Liz Moody: best-selling author, host of The Liz Moody podcast, and my long-time friend. In today's episode, we explore all things family dynamics, mental health, and the personal battles that shape our emotional landscape. When Liz told me she didn't want to discuss money or sex on the show, I instantly knew why...she doesn't feel those topics contribute to her business's mission. Mental health, however, is a different story. On her own platforms, Liz has opened up for years about her past struggles with anxiety, agoraphobia, disordered eating, and more. In this episode, we go deeper into each of those topics. Liz opens up about her unique experience growing up with parents who are therapists, challenging the myth that such a household is a sanctuary of emotional wisdom. She reflects on how her upbringing influenced her perspective on mental health and discusses the common misconception that therapists lead flawlessly balanced lives. We also venture into the complexities of navigating life's unexpected twists, from childhood trauma to the thrills and perils of living a nomadic lifestyle, and the courage it takes to confront deep-seated fears like intense agoraphobia and a lifelong struggle with anxiety. Note: this episode contains references to many mental health challenges, including anxiety and depression. Follow Liz on Instagram: @lizmoody Liz's book - 100 Ways to Change Your Life: https://amzn.to/3ydsCQ2 Sponsors: Lume: Control Body Odor ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code REALSTUFF at LumeDeodorant.com! #lumepod Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink Website: https://luciefink.com/ Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 14 mins
  • Surrogacy: the good, the bad, and the money (with Sam Mathews)

    Surrogacy: the good, the bad, and the money (with Sam Mathews)
    May 7 2024
    ALL of your surrogate/gestation carrier questions will be answered in today's fascinating episode with Sam Mathews, a woman sharing her journey with the world on social media. Sam opens up about all of the challenges, joys, and intimate details of carrying a baby for another family. From navigating contractual obligations to managing public perceptions, Sam offers a refreshingly honest portrayal of her experience (which she's been through twice so far). We get into all the financial aspects of surrogacy (plus a shocking revelation about the compensation structure for her current journey), plus the impact this role can have on personal relationships as well as her own marriage. We dive deep and I ask ALL of your pressing questions in today's episode. Join us to discover the unspoken trials and tribulations of this selfless contribution, as Sam provides a raw and unfiltered perspective on her extraordinary journey. Follow Sam & Dan on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wearedanandsam Sponsors: Armoire: Go to armoire.style/realstuff to get up to 50% off your first month. Just Thrive: Justthrivehealth.com and use promo code REALSTUFF for 20% off a 90-day bottle of Just Thrive Probiotic and Just Calm: https://justthrivehealth.com/discount/REALSTUFF Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink Website: https://luciefink.com/ Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 20 mins