This week we tackle the often-overlooked topic of gender disappointment. This emotional and candid episode unpacks the feelings of sadness some parents experience when the sex of their baby is not what they had hoped for. In today's episode, we clarify the distinction between sex and gender, and then through listener stories, we reveal the diverse reasons behind these feelings and acknowledge the sensitivity of this subject for those struggling with infertility. By examining these emotional landscapes, we aim to normalize these feelings and offer support to listeners, reassuring them that they are not alone in their experiences. Sponsors: Hiya: Go to hiyahealth.com/REALSTUFF for 50% off your first order. Magnetic Me: New customers will get 15% off their first order at Magneticme.com today! Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink Website: https://luciefink.com/ Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices