[01:30:12] What makes me go WOO? The moon, croissants, and learning from others

[01:31:30] How learning about others' experiences shapes understanding of connection

[01:33:37] The reality of projections in new relationships and meeting expectations

[01:35:14] My obsession with "lining things up"

[01:37:41] How “lining things up” applies to photography, podcasting, and all creative work

[01:40:19] How I woo me: the importance of alone time

[01:45:06] How to woo me: food, touch, and engagement with creative work

[01:48:55] Building safety and trust in relationships

[01:50:44] Requirements for physical intimacy and love of clear containers

[01:54:22] Evolution from early podcast days to embracing all erotic arts

[01:56:56] Dreams of creating edurotic content and spaces

[02:00:13] Ongoing learnings navigating personal relationships

[02:01:29] Health, safety, and communication practices

[02:05:02] Patterns of boundaries in vanilla vs kinky connections

[02:15:52] Ongoing project: organizing my ultimate bucket list of pleasure exploration

[02:21:56] Vision for Explicit Negotiation edurotic series

[02:32:15] Future goals: redefining sex education and creating safe spaces for deep connection

[02:35:12] Dreams of co-creating a more connected, loving world together

🔗 PEOPLE & RESOURCES MENTIONED

Marc Brackett (Yale researcher, creator of RULER emotional intelligence program) - marcbrackett.com

Lisa Feldman Barrett (Neuroscientist, emotions researcher) - lisafeldmanbarrett.com

Esther Perel (Psychotherapist, relationships expert) - estherperel.com

Brené Brown (Researcher focusing on vulnerability and shame) - brenebrown.com

Andrew Huberman (Stanford neuroscientist, host of Huberman Lab podcast) - hubermanlab.com

Emily Nagoski (Sex educator and researcher, writer on sexuality and stress) - emilynagoski.com

Amelia Nagoski (Choral conductor, co-author on burnout research)

Cherie DeVille (Adult performer, former pod guest) - cheriedeville.com

Ophelia Kaan (Adult performer) - x.com/OpheliaKaan

Tyler Poelle (Acting teacher at Lesly Kahn) - tylerpoelle.com

RESOURCES / BOOKS:

"Come As You Are" by Emily Nagoski

"Come Together" by Emily Nagoski

"Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle" by Emily & Amelia Nagoski

FreeSTDCheck.org

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Inspirations of MeToo and sex ed gaps

Reflections on oversharing, shame, friendship and parasocial relationships

Updates on sexuality labels, erotic artistry and sex work

Formative experiences, masturbation discovery

Understanding rejection and communication

First blowjob experiences, deep throat learning

Evolution of oral sex skills and preferences

BDSM discovery and communication growth

Safety protocols and boundary setting

Protection discussions and body hair preferences

Updated views on hygiene and consent

Relationship styles and touch needs

Professional boundaries and parasocial dynamics

Double penetration hopes and gangbang fantasy sharing

Evolution of fantasies and connection needs

📚 | BOOKS MENTIONED

Show Me by Will McBride and Dr. Helga Fleischhauer-Hardt

Atlas of the Heart by Brené Brown

Hot Sex: How to Do It by Tracey Cox

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A mailbag episode of questions and celebrations, plus Kimberly joins Wyoh for reflections on six years of sex podcast learnings.

00:00 What we’ve learned about human connection

10:04 How we’ve noticed people relate to sex

17:08 What Kimberly has learned about herself

23:48 What Wyoh has learned about herself

31:18 What we’re most excited about for this podcast going forward!

41:30 Q: How do you prepare for anal play?

53:11 Q: How can I invite my boyfriend to initiate sex more?

1:01:39 Q: How do we keep the honeymoon phase?

1:11:08 Q: I am exploring BDSM and power exchange relationships with my partner for the first time—where do I start?

1:19:54 Q: How do I support my wife in feeling empowered and comfortable with her sexuality?

1:24:53 A noodle on three types of love

1:31:02 Vacuum fetish follow-up

1:35:08 A celebration of cum shots and facials

1:38:38 The email that saved the podcast and sweet messages

📚 BOOKS MENTIONED |

Range by David Epstein

Existential Kink by Carolyn Elliott

Anal Pleasure & Health by Jack Morin

Nina Hartley’s Guide to Total Sex by Nina Hartley

Come Together by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

Come As Your Are by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

Sex Talks by Vanessa and Xander Marin

The Men on My Couch by Dr Brandy Engler and David Rensin

The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

Playing Well With by Others by Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams

The Ultimate Guide to Kink by Tristan Taormino

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I tried to get AI to help me organize the 800ish things on my erotic bucket list…it tried. The work in progress continues

00:00 Bucket list overview and embracing the spirit of play

10:42 Intimacy, sluttiness, and kissing

18:48 The hotness of specificity and building tension

20:53 Thigh sex, grinding, and condom masturbation

27:04 Light scratching and discovering how partners pleasure themselves

32:06 Playing with anal, nipples, and fluids

37:53 Oral sex and nonverbal communication

46:10 Rimming and 69ing

48:28 Learnings about mobility and partnered play

51:35 Creating caring sexual spaces

55:09 The configurations of group play

58:21 Bathing and body explorations

1:03:03 Playing with ice cubes, hot stones, silk, and more

1:07:39 Massages, foot worship, and hair care

1:12:37 Tantric breathing, reading erotica, and mirror play

1:18:55 Organizing, AI inaccuracies, and edurotic creation dreams

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BDSM, female Domination and non-monogamy—Miss Butter shares her evolution from Lifestyle Dominant lover to ProDomme while navigating family life.

00:00 Discovering the joys of sex and how she became a virgin again

06:46 Dissolving her own shame parenting a teenage daughter

10:54 Selective penetration and boundaries for different partners

15:03 New partner negotiations and playing safely with toys

22:22 How she loves making client’s dreams come true

24:07 A life-changing strip club make-out session

28:47 What it’s like to be a Domme married to a Dom in a Female-Led Relationship (FLR)

34:55 Finding fellow lifestyle FemmeDommes and creating safety for male submissives

39:44 Priorities in polyamory, community, and playing without her husband

48:40 Studying BDSM formally and expanding play into work as a ProDomme

55:40 Building Lifestyle relationships with clients

59:56 Creating physical fantasy spaces, meeting desires in surprising ways, and intentional healing

1:07:05 Aftercare, favorite toys, and synchronized heartbeats

1:11:06 Parenting while kinky and the positive effect of openness to questions

1:18:00 Coming out as a ProDomme to her kids

1:23:51 How she aspires to create community and spread ethical Dominance

1:29:15 Staying curious and how to find your “real true Domme”

🔗 MISS BUTTER LINKS | supersweetbutter.com

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Wyoh had a super kinky threesome with her super hot girlfriend and her booty call guy and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the juicy details including the nurturing that led up to all the hot sex and crazy orgasms that she wound up having, the couple massage she had with her guy and how and why it turned her on, why she loves and can get off on a soft c***, how her hot girlfriend wound up at the hotel and exactly what went down with her, how she was turned on watching her friend f*** her guy, how and why she loves ass play and all the ass play that went down including their anal 69 and the prostate orgasm she gave her guy, the “infinity orgasm” she had and how long it lasted, what she loves her interest in transactional sex and the transactional scenarios that are on her bucket list as well as the transactional sex she is planning on having with one of my caller (?!,) and exactly what she wants to go down, how she is able to detach from her weekend long romp with her booty call guy and not get attached plus a whole lot more.

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Camming, pornography, and indulgent edging—Mia shares how she went from repressed Catholic schoolgirl to sexually liberated professional girlfriend.

00:00 Practicing safer sex and why she always carries a wide range of condom sizes

06:44 Hands-free masturbation and sex beyond genitals

09:00 What Mia loves about sex

10:55 Shooting porn and risk aware play

14:18 How Catholic private school made her a “repressed slut”

18:15 Discovering partnered pleasure through a double-ended dildo

20:59 Cam girl origins

24:23 Fostering relationships and intimacy with clients

29:53 How sex work influences her personal life

33:28 JOIs, immersive cum denial, and how to edge your partner

40:14 What Mia’s pussy loves and communicating what she needs to lovers

46:07 The realities of camming and making joke porn

50:13 Competitive squirting and specialty dildos

54:07 Anal and orgies in a party hostel

58:43 Dreams of church threesomes and a world without stigma

🔗 MIA LINKS | miafiorelli.com / OF / @realmiaxo / @miafiorellixo

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Orgasms, exhibitionism, and understanding evolving desires—Miss Tori’s stories continue!

00:00 Poly communication wins

04:07 Navigating marriage, a new girlfriend, and shifting desires

08:29 Experiences with women and new levels of sex

12:02 Changing attractions, attachment struggles, and living for herself

19:33 Exploring kink and learning to squirt

23:14 Jealousy, the hotness of meeting needs, and how Bebe’s experiences mirror her mum’s

31:09 How orgasms are different with other women

36:30 Exhibitionism and threesome strapping dreams

40:26 Miss Tori’s Unicorn Cuck Room

47:48 Why she surrounds herself with artists

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