[01:30:12] What makes me go WOO? The moon, croissants, and learning from others

[01:31:30] How learning about others' experiences shapes understanding of connection

[01:33:37] The reality of projections in new relationships and meeting expectations

[01:35:14] My obsession with "lining things up"

[01:37:41] How “lining things up” applies to photography, podcasting, and all creative work

[01:40:19] How I woo me: the importance of alone time

[01:45:06] How to woo me: food, touch, and engagement with creative work

[01:48:55] Building safety and trust in relationships

[01:50:44] Requirements for physical intimacy and love of clear containers

[01:54:22] Evolution from early podcast days to embracing all erotic arts

[01:56:56] Dreams of creating edurotic content and spaces

[02:00:13] Ongoing learnings navigating personal relationships

[02:01:29] Health, safety, and communication practices

[02:05:02] Patterns of boundaries in vanilla vs kinky connections

[02:15:52] Ongoing project: organizing my ultimate bucket list of pleasure exploration

[02:21:56] Vision for Explicit Negotiation edurotic series

[02:32:15] Future goals: redefining sex education and creating safe spaces for deep connection

[02:35:12] Dreams of co-creating a more connected, loving world together

🔗 PEOPLE & RESOURCES MENTIONED

Marc Brackett (Yale researcher, creator of RULER emotional intelligence program) - marcbrackett.com

Lisa Feldman Barrett (Neuroscientist, emotions researcher) - lisafeldmanbarrett.com

Esther Perel (Psychotherapist, relationships expert) - estherperel.com

Brené Brown (Researcher focusing on vulnerability and shame) - brenebrown.com

Andrew Huberman (Stanford neuroscientist, host of Huberman Lab podcast) - hubermanlab.com

Emily Nagoski (Sex educator and researcher, writer on sexuality and stress) - emilynagoski.com

Amelia Nagoski (Choral conductor, co-author on burnout research)

Cherie DeVille (Adult performer, former pod guest) - cheriedeville.com

Ophelia Kaan (Adult performer) - x.com/OpheliaKaan

Tyler Poelle (Acting teacher at Lesly Kahn) - tylerpoelle.com

RESOURCES / BOOKS:

"Come As You Are" by Emily Nagoski

"Come Together" by Emily Nagoski

"Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle" by Emily & Amelia Nagoski

FreeSTDCheck.org

🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!

SDC: A place for swingers to connect

FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off

BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex

BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off

⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/links

One-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support

🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee

💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh

🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com

🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES

🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.

🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.

💦 Spread ripples of love.

Inspirations of MeToo and sex ed gaps

Reflections on oversharing, shame, friendship and parasocial relationships

Updates on sexuality labels, erotic artistry and sex work

Formative experiences, masturbation discovery

Understanding rejection and communication

First blowjob experiences, deep throat learning

Evolution of oral sex skills and preferences

BDSM discovery and communication growth

Safety protocols and boundary setting

Protection discussions and body hair preferences

Updated views on hygiene and consent

Relationship styles and touch needs

Professional boundaries and parasocial dynamics

Double penetration hopes and gangbang fantasy sharing

Evolution of fantasies and connection needs

📚 | BOOKS MENTIONED

Show Me by Will McBride and Dr. Helga Fleischhauer-Hardt

Atlas of the Heart by Brené Brown

Hot Sex: How to Do It by Tracey Cox

🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!

SDC: A place for swingers to connect

FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off

BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex

BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off

⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/links

One-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support

🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee

💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh

🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com

🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES

🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.

🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.

💦 Spread ripples of love.

A mailbag episode of questions and celebrations, plus Kimberly joins Wyoh for reflections on six years of sex podcast learnings.

00:00 What we’ve learned about human connection

10:04 How we’ve noticed people relate to sex

17:08 What Kimberly has learned about herself

23:48 What Wyoh has learned about herself

31:18 What we’re most excited about for this podcast going forward!

41:30 Q: How do you prepare for anal play?

53:11 Q: How can I invite my boyfriend to initiate sex more?

1:01:39 Q: How do we keep the honeymoon phase?

1:11:08 Q: I am exploring BDSM and power exchange relationships with my partner for the first time—where do I start?

1:19:54 Q: How do I support my wife in feeling empowered and comfortable with her sexuality?

1:24:53 A noodle on three types of love

1:31:02 Vacuum fetish follow-up

1:35:08 A celebration of cum shots and facials

1:38:38 The email that saved the podcast and sweet messages

📚 BOOKS MENTIONED |

Range by David Epstein

Existential Kink by Carolyn Elliott

Anal Pleasure & Health by Jack Morin

Nina Hartley’s Guide to Total Sex by Nina Hartley

Come Together by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

Come As Your Are by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

Sex Talks by Vanessa and Xander Marin

The Men on My Couch by Dr Brandy Engler and David Rensin

The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

Playing Well With by Others by Lee Harrington and Mollena Williams

The Ultimate Guide to Kink by Tristan Taormino

🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!

SDC: A place for swingers to connect

FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off

BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex

BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off

⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/links

One-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support

🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee

💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh

🎙️ BE A GUEST, SHARE A STORY, ASK A QUESTION | Leave a voice memo at sexstoriespodcast.com

🙌 SHARE SEX STORIES

🌈 Explore (y)our curiosity.

🤑 Offer irresistible invitations.

💦 Spread ripples of love.