In this episode, the hosts discuss the privileges that attractive women have and the way society treats them differently. They also explore the idea that men often overlook the qualities of a good woman if she is not conventionally attractive. The hosts share personal experiences and observations about how beauty affects people's interactions and relationships. They question whether there will ever be a point where looks are not the most important factor in choosing a partner. The conversation explores the concept of attractiveness and how it can be subjective. The speakers share personal stories about dating individuals who may not fit societal beauty standards but have other qualities that make them attractive. They discuss the importance of vibe, personality, and how attraction can be influenced by various factors. The conversation also touches on encounters with transgender individuals and the complexities of navigating attraction in those situations. The conversation explores the idea of how past relationships can impact future ones. The participants discuss the importance of learning from past mistakes and how it can shape their behavior in future relationships. They also touch on the concept of accountability and taking responsibility for one's actions. The conversation highlights the growth and self-reflection that comes from past experiences and how it can lead to healthier relationships in the future. In this final part of the conversation, the hosts discuss the topic of cheating and whether they would take back a partner who cheated. They share their personal experiences and perspectives on forgiveness and the importance of open communication in relationships. The hosts conclude the episode by highlighting the IG of the Week and expressing their gratitude to the listeners.

In this episode, the hosts discuss various topics, including Ron going viral regarding his views on double standards, a viral video involving Jonathan Majors, and embarrassing moments. they analyze the body language and reactions in the viral video, expressing their opinions on how they would have handled the situation. The conversation is filled with humor and lively banter. The conversation revolves around situations where individuals make others feel uncomfortable in front of their partners. The hosts share personal stories and discuss the dynamics of such situations. They explore topics like territoriality, disrespect, and confrontations. They touch on topics such as walking away from fights, pride, and the importance of personal safety. They discuss embarrassing moments, including one where Troy had a bathroom emergency while on a date. They close out by shouting out two individuals: IG Of The Week :Dreezy Bae, a recruiter for the United States Navy, and Jerome Elmore, the host of the Deep Dish Podcast and creator of the GoFundMe campaign 'Explore Social Change to Life.' The hosts express their support for Houston and its surrounding areas, which are currently facing hardships.

On this episode of Dear Black Men, the hosts discuss their experiences of being hit on by men. Troy shares a story about a man who approached him in college and asked if he could perform oral sex on him. The hosts reflect on their reactions and feelings in these situations. The conversation revolves around the question of whether trying something once makes a person permanently labeled as that thing. The example used is if a person steals once, are they forever a thief? The same question is applied to homosexuality, with the question of whether trying something once makes a person gay. The discussion touches on double standards between men and women and the idea of experimenting and exploring one's sexuality. The conclusion is that trying something once does not define a person's identity. The conversation in this segment revolves around the topic of experimentation and the different perspectives on it. Ron and DMVTONE have a heated exchange about the purpose and implications of experimenting, particularly in relation to sexuality. Troy shares a personal story about his own experience and expresses his understanding of both sides of the argument. The conversation touches on themes of judgment, acceptance, and personal boundaries. They share their thoughts on receiving anal stimulation and the stigma surrounding it. Troy calls his brother Fats Da Barber and they discuss a personal story that had everyone dying of laughter. Trust me this episode you dont want to miss. Sit back, relax, hit play, and enjoy the show.

On this episode of Dear Black Men, they discuss how men handle breakups and the emotions that come with them. They share personal experiences and insights into the topic, highlighting the misconception that men don't feel the same pain and sadness as women after a breakup. They emphasize the importance of processing emotions and seeking support from friends during these difficult times. The conversation also touches on the challenges of starting over and rebuilding oneself after a breakup. The conversation explores the topics of mental health and fatherhood. Troy shares his experiences of not knowing his father and the anxiety he feels around Father's Day. He reflects on the importance of being a good father and the fear of repeating the mistakes of the men in his family. DMVTONE and Rondeaux commend Troy for his dedication to fatherhood and offer support. They discuss how to approach conversations with friends about sensitive topics, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability and creating a safe space. The conversation explores the importance of open communication, vulnerability, and appreciation in friendships and relationships. The speakers discuss the value of taking a step back and breathing before having difficult conversations, as well as the need for mutual understanding and patience. They emphasize the significance of genuine friendships and the impact they can have on one's life. The conversation also touches on the importance of cutting off toxic relationships and setting boundaries. Overall, the speakers encourage listeners to reflect on their own friendships and relationships and prioritize open communication and appreciation. In this final part of the conversation, the principal theme revolves around toxic relationships and the importance of appreciation and value. The speakers discuss how toxic behavior has become normalized and how it is detrimental to both friendships and romantic relationships. They emphasize the need for appreciation and demand less toxicity in all relationships. They also highlight the importance of recognizing toxic behavior early on and ending relationships that do not provide appreciation and value. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the impact of friendships on mental health and the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive and positive friends.

On this episode of Dear Black Men, the conversation revolves around the concept of dirty macking, which is when someone speaks negatively about another person to gain the interest of someone else. The hosts discuss different levels of dirty macking and share examples from their own experiences. They also touch on the importance of communication and trust in relationships. Overall, the conversation is lively and filled with humor. In this part of the conversation, the hosts discuss the topic of lying. They debate whether men or women are better liars, with Troy and Ron arguing that women are better liars due to their calculated and strategic approach, while Tone argues that men are better liars because they can sustain a lie for longer. They share personal stories of lies they have told and discuss the differences in how men and women handle lying. The conversation ends with Troy calling someone to confess a recent lie and ask for forgiveness. The conversation explores the concept of loyalty and how friends navigate difficult situations. The speakers discuss the importance of remaining solid and true to one's character when faced with challenges. They share personal experiences of testing friendships and the value of trust and respect. They also touch on the consequences of public disagreements and the need for accountability. In this part of the conversation, Troy Parish and Tone discuss the their friends 2kDre and Late Night rap beef and the role of their loyalty in rap battle. They touch on Tone responsibility as the producer and engineer in the controversial songs. Ron joins the conversation and expresses his opinion that the battle should have never happened. They debate whether Tone should would have mixed the diss tracks if he had the same relationship with both artists. They also discuss the intensity of the diss tracks and the impact they had on their perception of the artists. In the final part of the conversation, Troy, Ron, and Tone reflect on the battle tracks and express their regret for the disrespectful lyrics. They discuss the importance of maintaining respect and friendship even in a rap battle. They also attempt to patch things up with Late Night and 2kDre, by calling them both to discuss different point of views. Despite the comedic undertone of both tracks, the guys express respect for Late Night and 2kDre and hope that they can reconcile. The conversation ends with a IG Of The Week and Song Of The Week finishing up yet another great podcast episode.

On this episode of DEAR BLACK MEN , the hosts discuss the topic of being 'for the streets' and what leads men to that mindset. They explore the idea that men may turn to the streets when they feel unappreciated or when they believe that doing the right thing doesn't yield the desired results. They also touch on the idea of experiencing the streets as a form of learning and self-discovery. The hosts share their personal experiences and perspectives on the topic. The conversation explores the idea of men transitioning from being players to wanting a committed relationship. The hosts discuss whether men expect instant gratification when they decide to be good partners. They also touch on the benefits and drawbacks of being in the streets and the importance of finding the right woman. The conversation takes a humorous turn when they debate the attractiveness of dark-skinned men and the significance of a woman's relationship with God. The hosts also discuss the importance of communication, stability, and ambition in a potential partner. The third theme of the conversation is about having fun in a relationship. The participants discuss the importance of being with someone who is fun and can make them laugh. They emphasize that fun should be natural and not forced. They also share personal experiences of ending relationships or losing interest in someone because they didn't find the same things funny. The conversation then transitions to discussing the use of Instagram's Close Friends feature. They debate whether it's appropriate for someone in a relationship to have close friends and whether adding someone to the close friends list indicates attraction or trust. In this final part of the conversation, the hosts discuss the topic of going through a partner's phone. They share personal experiences and opinions on the matter, with Troy admitting to going through a girl's phone once and regretting it. They also express their appreciation for their listeners and announce the IG of the Week and Song of the Week.

In this episode of Dear Black Men, the hosts discuss the topic of domestic violence and forgiveness. They start by introducing a new addition to the podcast and then dive into the Diddy and Cassie situation, where a video was released showing Diddy assaulting Cassie. The hosts express their opinions on domestic violence and whether they would continue to be friends with someone who commits such acts. Troy shares his personal experience of growing up in a household with domestic violence and emphasizes the importance of forgiveness and second chances. DMVTONE and Ron have different perspectives, with DMVTONE stating that he would not associate with someone who commits domestic violence, while Ron takes a firm stance against it. The conversation highlights the complexity of the issue and the different perspectives on forgiveness and personal boundaries. The conversation in this segment covers two main themes: forgiveness and the controversy surrounding how to.. The speakers discuss their personal views on forgiveness and what it would take for them to forgive someone who has wronged them or others while emphasizing the importance of actions and personal growth in the process. The conversation then shifts to the topic of Drake and the release of reference tracks. The speakers have differing opinions on the impact of reference tracks on Drake's credibility as an artist. They debate whether it diminishes his talent as a songwriter or if it is a common practice in the music industry. Overall, the segment explores the complexities of forgiveness and the ongoing debate surrounding artistic integrity. In the next conversation, Troy and DMVTONE discuss how men should approach dating and spending money on women. Troy advises men to not spend money on women within the first year of dating and instead focus on building a connection. He emphasizes the importance of being appreciated and valued in a relationship. DMVTONE argues that spending money can be a way to curate a vibe and show appreciation, but it should be reciprocated. They also discuss the role of instant gratification and the challenges of dating in the modern world. While flawless ending todays show with IG of the week and Song of the week. As always sit back, relax, hit play, and enjoy the show.