In this episode of Dear Black Men, the hosts discuss the topic of domestic violence and forgiveness. They start by introducing a new addition to the podcast and then dive into the Diddy and Cassie situation, where a video was released showing Diddy assaulting Cassie. The hosts express their opinions on domestic violence and whether they would continue to be friends with someone who commits such acts. Troy shares his personal experience of growing up in a household with domestic violence and emphasizes the importance of forgiveness and second chances. DMVTONE and Ron have different perspectives, with DMVTONE stating that he would not associate with someone who commits domestic violence, while Ron takes a firm stance against it. The conversation highlights the complexity of the issue and the different perspectives on forgiveness and personal boundaries. The conversation in this segment covers two main themes: forgiveness and the controversy surrounding how to.. The speakers discuss their personal views on forgiveness and what it would take for them to forgive someone who has wronged them or others while emphasizing the importance of actions and personal growth in the process. The conversation then shifts to the topic of Drake and the release of reference tracks. The speakers have differing opinions on the impact of reference tracks on Drake's credibility as an artist. They debate whether it diminishes his talent as a songwriter or if it is a common practice in the music industry. Overall, the segment explores the complexities of forgiveness and the ongoing debate surrounding artistic integrity. In the next conversation, Troy and DMVTONE discuss how men should approach dating and spending money on women. Troy advises men to not spend money on women within the first year of dating and instead focus on building a connection. He emphasizes the importance of being appreciated and valued in a relationship. DMVTONE argues that spending money can be a way to curate a vibe and show appreciation, but it should be reciprocated. They also discuss the role of instant gratification and the challenges of dating in the modern world. While flawless ending todays show with IG of the week and Song of the week. As always sit back, relax, hit play, and enjoy the show.