In this episode of Dear Black Men, Troy Parish and DMVTONE discuss the recent controversy surrounding Diddy and allegations of abuse. They explore the topic from various angles, including personal experiences with domestic violence, forgiveness, and the impact on Diddy's reputation. The conversation also touches on the importance of size and physical strength in relationships, as well as the dynamics of disrespect between men and women. Overall, the hosts provide a candid and thought-provoking discussion on a sensitive subject. The conversation explores the dynamics of disrespect and boundaries in relationships. DMVTONE expresses his belief that once someone uses personal information against him or disrespects him, there is no need for further conversation. He emphasizes the importance of expressing hurt feelings and setting boundaries, especially for black men. Troy shares his perspective on expressing emotions and the challenges faced by black men in doing so. They also discuss the concept of dating in silence and the need to date people through different seasons. The conversation concludes with DMVTONE sharing a personal story about living with an ex and the boundaries they established. In this final part of the conversation, DMVTONE and Troy Parish discuss the importance of establishing boundaries and effective communication in relationships. They emphasize the need to hold each other accountable and have a clear understanding of expectations. They also touch on the topic of living with an ex and the challenges it can bring. The conversation takes a lighthearted turn as they discuss their celebrity crushes and share their IG of the Week. They end the episode by announcing the possibility of having a female guest on the next episode. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/troyparishltm/support