Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

The DTF Spectrum: Are Down to F*ck Couples Just More Fun?

In this solo episode, Cate dives into a hot debate among swingers today: the phenomenon of “DTF” couples. Inspired by a lively discussion on Reddit, Cate unpacks the various interpretations of being “down to fuck” and how it impacts connections in the lifestyle. From couples who prefer a straight-to-the-fun approach to those with a selective DTF style, Cate explores why some embrace the label while others feel it’s misunderstood.

Episode Highlights:

What Does It Mean to Be “DTF” in the Lifestyle? Cate explores what it truly means to be a DTF couple, sharing both her thoughts and feedback from the lifestyle community on why this term is more complex than it sounds.

The Red & Green Flags of DTF Couples Cate breaks down red flags that DTF couples should watch for, along with green flags that suggest this style may be the perfect fit. She shares insights into keeping experiences positive and aligned with personal values.

How to Avoid Common Pitfalls & Clarify What You Want Clear communication is key in the swinger lifestyle. Cate provides tips on avoiding common DTF pitfalls, explaining how to openly define what you’re looking for to save time and find the right connections.

Lessons Learned: Whether you're new to the concept or an experienced DTF couple, Cate highlights how to find your sweet spot on the DTF spectrum. This episode offers a fresh, judgment-free look at spontaneity, selectiveness, and the power of clear intentions.

Upcoming Lifestyle Events & Links:

Want to connect with like-minded couples? Check out upcoming Libertine Events in the USA, UK, and Canada! Learn more at: www.libertineevents.com

Join us in Miami from May 16-19, 2025: https://libertineevents.com/miami/

Wanderlust Swingers Podcast: Keep up with more sexy stories and lifestyle tips! www.wanderlustswingers.com

Join us at Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism Resort from March 29 - April 5, 2025: http://www.casualswingerweek.com/

Tags: Swinger Lifestyle, DTF Couples, Spontaneous Swingers, Lifestyle Pitfalls, Navigating Non-Monogamy, Red Flags in Swinging, Swingers Boundaries, Open Communication, Sex-Positive Lifestyle, Wanderlust Swingers

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Having Sex In A Maze, Swingers Café + Kama Sutra Beurs

In this adventurous episode, Cate and Darrell finally attend the sex-positive Kama Sutra Beurs in their hometown of Utrecht, diving into an experience that’s both eye-opening and outrageous! After years of planning to attend, they explore every part of the convention, from a bustling Swingers Café to a surprise maze encounter that gets steamy. Cate and Darrell share each hilarious and unexpected moment as they navigate this European sex convention and its anything-goes vibe.

Episode Highlights:

• The Swingers Café and Convention Scene Cate and Darrell give their impressions of the event, including shopping for unique finds (costumes made from used tires, anyone?) and an intriguing encounter at the café where anything goes.

• Exploring the Maze They step into a maze filled with dark corners, hidden rooms, and unexpected surprises. Things heat up as Cate and Darrell put the secluded spaces to good use, and D shares his thoughts on the curious onlookers.

• Sex Conventions in Different Countries They compare the Netherlands' open atmosphere to conventions in Australia and the USA, reflecting on the unique setup and freedom found at European sex-positive events.

Lessons Learned:

Whether it’s surprising moments in a sex maze or learning about different swinger cultures, this episode is packed with laughs, honest observations, and real-life stories from the world of sex-positive gatherings. Cate and Darrell share what it’s really like to explore a European sex convention and enjoy the freedom to be themselves.

Conclusion:

Tune in to join Cate and Darrell on their latest adventure, filled with humor, a little public play, and their favorite highlights from Kama Sutra Beurs. And stay tuned for the next episode for more lifestyle tips and stories from your Wanderlust Swingers team!

Upcoming Lifestyle Events & Links:

Ready to join the action? Check out upcoming Libertine Events in the USA, UK, and Canada! Learn more at: www.libertineevents.com

Join us in Miami from May 16-19, 2025: https://libertineevents.com/miami/

Wanderlust Swingers Podcast: Keep up with more sexy stories and lifestyle tips! www.wanderlustswingers.com

Join us at Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism Resort from March 29 - April 5, 2025: http://www.casualswingerweek.com/

Tags: Swinger Lifestyle, Sex Convention, Sex Maze Adventure, Swingers Café, European Sex Positive Events, Kama Sutra Beurs, Exploring Swinger Culture, Public Play, Netherlands Sex Convention, Non-Monogamy, Lifestyle Stories

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Episode Title: Failures at Being a Swinger; Failed Pool Parties, Ghosting, and More

In this playful yet candid episode, Cate and Darrell tackle the less-than-glamorous side of the swinger lifestyle, where best-laid plans don’t always work out! From a last-minute pool party flop to a local single who ghosted us on a date, we’re digging into what happens when expectations don’t match reality. Join us as we explore how swinging can sometimes go sideways, and how to handle those “swinger fails” with humor and grace.

Episode Highlights:

• The Pool Party That Wasn’t: We recount our experience at the last Naked Pool Party of the season at Fata Morgana in the Netherlands. Spoiler alert: the vibes and crowd were a bit different from what we’re used to!

• Ghosted and Let Down: We were stood up by a local single Darrell arranged a date with, and we’ll share our take on handling lifestyle no-shows, plus a few laughs about Cate betting Darrell that he’d still try to message afterward.

• Finding Our Place in the Lifestyle: How meeting a new, young couple reminded us of our early days and the highs and lows of finding your footing in the scene.

Handling Swinger Fails:

Not every event will be perfect, and that’s okay! We’re here to help you embrace the unpredictability of the lifestyle with some real-life lessons, stories, and tips for bouncing back. Whether you’ve been ghosted, found yourself at a dud event, or just need a reminder to laugh at the unexpected, this episode is all about learning to go with the flow and keep things fun.

Conclusion:

Tune in for the good, the awkward, and the downright hilarious moments that make the lifestyle unforgettable. And, as always, stay tuned for more stories, tips, and adventures from your Wanderlust Swingers team!

Upcoming Lifestyle Events & Links:

Ready to join the action? Check out upcoming Libertine Events in the USA, UK, and Canada! Learn more at: www.libertineevents.com

Join us in Miami from May 16-19, 2025: https://libertineevents.com/miami/

Wanderlust Swingers Podcast: Keep up with more sexy stories and lifestyle tips! www.wanderlustswingers.com

Join us at Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism Resort from March 29 - April 5, 2025: http://www.casualswingerweek.com/

Tags: Swinger Lifestyle, Pool Party Fails, Ghosting in the Lifestyle, Swinger Date Etiquette, Finding Your Tribe, Swingers Community, Lifestyle Realities, Humor in Swinging, Handling Disappointment, Swinger Podcast, Non-Monogamy, Events in the Lifestyle

Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Guilty By Association In The Swingers Lifestyle

In this eye-opening episode, Cate teams up with Mickey and Mallory from Casual Swinger to dive deep into the lesser-known pitfalls of the swinger lifestyle. Ever wondered how social media connections or your choice of friends could impact your reputation in the community? This episode covers it all. From unknowingly outing yourself on Facebook to navigating the fine line between finding your tribe and being guilty by association, we explore how your social circle can shape your swinger journey—both positively and negatively. Get ready for practical tips, wild stories, and some hard truths about protecting your privacy and reputation in the lifestyle!

Episode Highlights:

• Outing Yourself on Social Media: Cate, Mickey, and Mallory discuss how social media algorithms can expose your swinger connections to your vanilla friends, and what you can do to protect yourself from accidentally outing your lifestyle choices online.

• Staying Safe Online: Tips on managing privacy settings, using separate profiles for the lifestyle, and avoiding the common mistakes that can get you “outed” on Facebook and other platforms.

• Your Tribe IS Your Vibe: Finding your tribe in the lifestyle can be empowering, but what happens when your tribe’s reputation is less than stellar? The trio dives into how being associated with the wrong group can tarnish your image and limit your opportunities at events.

• Event Etiquette & Rule-Breakers: If your friends break event rules, you might face the fallout, even if you did nothing wrong. Cate, Mickey, and Mallory discuss how to navigate tricky situations and distance yourself from bad behavior, ensuring your reputation stays intact.

Guilty by Association – Lessons Learned:

Whether it’s online privacy, social group dynamics, or event drama, this episode is packed with tips and insights on how to steer clear of being guilty by association in the swinger lifestyle. Cate and the Casual Swinger duo share their best advice for maintaining your individuality and protecting your standing in the community.

Conclusion:

Don’t let your connections define your reputation. Tune in to hear real-life stories and strategies for thriving in the swinger lifestyle while keeping your privacy and reputation intact. Be sure to check out upcoming episodes and events for more tips and sexy stories from the Wanderlust Swingers team!

Upcoming Lifestyle Events & Links:

• Ready to join the action? Check out upcoming Libertine Events in the USA, UK, and Canada! Learn more at: www.libertineevents.com
• Join us in Miami from May 16-19, 2025: https://libertineevents.com/miami/
• Wanderlust Swingers Podcast: Keep up with more sexy stories and lifestyle tips! www.wanderlustswingers.com
• Join us at Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism Resort March 29-April, 2025: http://www.casualswingerweek.com/

Tags: Swinger Lifestyle, Social Media Risks, Swinger Drama, Event Etiquette, Finding Your Tribe, Swingers Reputation, Rule-Breaking, Privacy Tips, Guilty by Association, Swinger Podcast, Non-Monogamy, Friends in the Lifestyle

Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Cocksucking Train, Electrical Play & More with Jason and Sarah

Cate sits down with Jason and Sarah, a couple from the Upper Midwest, who share their bold journey into the swinging lifestyle after ten years of monogamy. From a surprising encounter with a stripper in Las Vegas to getting yanked into their first threesome, this episode covers all the bases of a wild and memorable adventure. Jason and Sarah get candid about how they embrace sensory play, including electrical stimulation, and why Jason calls himself an overthinker, but still manages to dive headfirst into all the excitement. Get ready for foam pits, sexy trains, and a few life lessons along the way!

Episode Highlights:

• Their First Threesome: Hear the details of how Jason and Sarah were suddenly pulled into a threesome for their first lifestyle experience, and how it all went down.

• Foam Pit Fun: A line-up of men, a foam pit, and a cock-sucking train—Jason and Sarah spill the details on this unforgettable experience.

• Sensory Play Exploration: They open up about their love for sensory play, including using violet wands, flogging, and spanking, sharing how these experiences have deepened their connection.

• Lifestyle Events in the Upper Midwest: How do lifestyle events in their region differ from others across the country? Jason and Sarah talk about hotel takeovers and their favorite sexy travels.

Sexy Stories & Sensory Play:

• From steamy playrooms to sensory explorations, Jason and Sarah give listeners a peek into their bold and daring experiences at lifestyle events, along with a few sexy mishaps that taught them valuable lessons.

Lessons Learned:

• Overthinking in the lifestyle? Jason, the self-proclaimed A+ overthinker, talks about how to quiet those thoughts and dive into bold new experiences. Plus, the couple shares the importance of learning from your "oops" moments and how it has shaped their approach to the lifestyle.

Conclusion:

Would they recommend taking the plunge into swinging for other couples? Jason and Sarah offer advice for newcomers, and Cate wraps up with some great tips for those interested in sensory play. Join us for this wild ride and don’t forget to check out more upcoming episodes and events!

See more of Sarah and Jason here on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder

Upcoming Lifestyle Events & Links:

• Looking to experience a hotel takeover? Join Libertine Events for upcoming takeovers in the USA, UK, and Canada! Learn more at: www.libertineevents.com
• Join us in Miami 16-19th May, 2025 https://libertineevents.com/miami/
• Join us in France 8-13th July, 2025 https://libertineevents.com/france/
• Follow the Wanderlust Swingers podcast for more sexy stories and event news! www.wanderlustswingers.com

Tags: Sensory Play, Cocksucking Train, Swingers Lifestyle, Threesome Experiences, Foam Pit Fun, Violet Wand, Electrical Play, Overthinking in the Lifestyle, Swinger Adventures, Upper Midwest Lifestyle, Hotel Takeover Events, Non-Monogamy, Swinger Podcast

Unicorn Hall Pass Spicy Island

In this episode, Cate takes us on a wild adventure as she heads to Spicy Island for a full island takeover in Croatia, embracing her role as a unicorn with a hall pass. From cheeky playroom encounters to naked swims under the stars, this episode is packed with fun stories, poolside masturbation, and flirty moments. But was Cate as slutty as she and Darrell had hoped? Let’s find out!

Episode Event Highlights:

• Poolside Fun: Masturbation, cheeky playroom kisses, and a magical naked swim under the stars.
• Steamy Encounters: Kissing a guy in the playroom...
• Unicorn Vibes: Cate danced solo during Steampunk Night before friends joined in, and she enjoyed playing games like motorboating and card games.

Two days of sun-soaked fun on VIP beds, with Cate kissing multiple partners and even using a communal vibrator poolside.

Sensual touch games, including ice and kisses, plus the frustrations of people not participating in a fun conga line.

Conclusion:

• Would Cate Go Back? Hear her thoughts on whether she’d return to Spicy Island and who she would recommend it to.
• Is It Worth the Money? Cate breaks down the value of the event and offers tips for future attendees.

Exclusive Bonus Content - Hear what Darrell had to say to Cate before she left for Spicy Island, join our Patreon here https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder

2025 European Events

• Spicy Island Week 1 https://www.spicymatch.com/events/50000/?edc=Libertine
• Spicy Island Week 2 https://www.spicymatch.com/events/50001/?edc=libertine
• Join Cate and Libertine as they takeover France and Cap D'Agde https://libertineevents.com/france/

New Website: www.wanderlustswingers.com

Tags: Unicorn Hall Pass, Spicy Island, Swingers Island Takeover, Swingers Lifestyle, Poolside Masturbation, Naked Swimming, Steampunk Party, Spicy Match, Swingers Tips, Hotwife Lifestyle, Island Takeover Review, Swingers Adventure, Swingers Event in Croatia, Hall Pass Experience.

UK Swingers Takeover Vanilla Alternative

In this electrifying episode, Cate takes you inside the unforgettable UK Swingers Takeover at the Vanilla Alternative, a night bursting with neon vibes, sultry playrooms, and a dance floor that didn't quit until the early hours. Cate recounts every detail of the weekend, sharing the highs, the laughs, and the tips to make the most out of such a thrilling event.

Event Highlights:

• Neon Dreams: From a packed dance floor to playful antics in the UV-lit playrooms, the night was a non-stop party.
• Mingle Games: Ice-breaking moments with games like the Sock Game and Table Hockey kept the energy high and guests engaged.
• Photographic Memories: Cate, alongside Kitten and Wolf from Spicy Match, hosted a photography session capturing the vibrant energy of the event.

Before the Club:

• Pre-Event Setup: Cate’s behind-the-scenes look at setting up the event, from organizing a breakfast mingle to coordinating a dance lesson with Keri Gold.
• Mingle Sessions: A mix of games and social interactions on Friday set the tone for a weekend of fun and connection.

The Takeover at Vanilla Alternative:

• The Journey: A fun-filled bus ride to VA set the stage for a night of adventure.
• Lux Lounge & Fire Pit: Cate shares her experiences at these popular hangout spots, plus the challenges of catching Keri Gold’s performance.
• Glow Fashion: Cate’s thoughts on the 80s-inspired Neon UV outfits, Mrs. H's take on the glow outfits, and a special mention of the infamous "Neon Dick" that became a party highlight.
• Playroom Adventures: With the playrooms heaving with excitement, Cate describes the steamy encounters that unfolded.

Mentioned:

• Vanilla Alternative UK Swingers Club: https://va2.co.uk
• Spicy Match: https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=WanderlustSwingers
• Our New Website: www.wanderlustswingers.com

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In this episode, we dive deep into the experience of attending the exclusive Killing Kittens Mansion Party in April 2024, a highly anticipated event known for its luxury, sophistication, and sensual ambiance. Did it live up to the hype?

We're spilling all the tea, from the venue's opulence to the social dynamics, costs, and whether we think it was worth the money. Plus, we'll share Darrell's solo play experience and offer tips for those considering attending such events in the future.

• Venue & Atmosphere + Attendees & Social Dynamics: Explore the diverse crowd, the black-tie dress code, and how the theme created a classy and sexy environment. We break down the demographics, including the prevalence of newbies and those with experience in the lifestyle.
• Planned Events: Overview of the meet-and-mingle activities, ice-breaking events, and the overall flow of the evening.
• Bar & Food Services: Insights into the bar offerings, including drink prices and the unfortunate long wait times, plus a note on the absence of food options.
• Playrooms: A look at the well-maintained, sensual play spaces
• Personal Experiences / Memorable Interactions: Highlights of our interactions with other attendees, sharing some of the most interesting and engaging moments of the night.
• Costs & Value for Money: We break down the costs involved, from tickets to accommodation, and assess whether the event offers good value for money. Spoiler: It’s not cheap!
• Tips for Future Attendees: Practical advice for those considering attending a Killing Kittens event or similar parties. We cover everything from pre-event preparation and setting boundaries to navigating the night with respect and consent.

Pros & Cons:

• Pros: The luxurious setting, sexy ambiance, and high-quality interactions.
• Cons: Issues with mask comfort, a DJ playlist that missed the mark

Would We Go Back?

Our honest take on whether we would return to another Killing Kittens event and who we think would benefit most from attending.

• Killing Kittens https://www.killingkittens.com/
• Killing Kittens Mansion Party Review BLOG https://wanderlustswingers.com/killing-kittens-review-mansion-party/
• New Website https://wanderlustswingers.com/

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Love, Peace, and Respect, C&D

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