New year, new us? Nah - new year, same freaky us... but turned ALL the way up! What better way to ring in the new year than with a sizzling double helix of threesomes? That’s right—MFF, MFM, MFF, MFM—back and forth, back and forth—like a perfectly balanced sexual seesaw. In this episode, we spill all the steamy details on how we kicked off our year with an alternating lineup of mind-blowing trios. We’re talking the thrill of inviting a single person into your coupledom—the spark, the heat, the pure fire it ignites in your relationship.

Whether it’s her, him, her—or him, her, him—each dynamic brings its own flavor, tension, and delicious chaos. We break down why threesomes truly are the GOAT and how bringing in another woman for soft, sensual bliss or a hot guy to ramp up the intensity, can unlock new levels of connection, passion, and straight-up fun with your partner.

Curious about how ménage life fuels the fire? Wondering if threesomes could be your GOAT move this year? Buckle up. This episode is your playbook for pleasure. Press play—because three really is the MAGIC number.

Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!

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Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):

Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

*BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Le Mask Paris Review – Our Naughty Paris Origin Story

CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Swinger Dictionary⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!

*NEW* Spotify Playlist - Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!

*NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.

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Oh la la, baby! This is THE ONE—the club that started it all, the aha moment, the night we dipped our toes (and maybe more) into the world of swinging! In this episode, we take you straight to Le Mask in Paris, where the energy was electric, the mystery was intoxicating, and French consent had us absolutely weak in the knees (touch first, ask later? Oui, oui!🔥).

But we don’t stop there—because Paris isn’t just about the playrooms. We spill ALL the sexy details on our steamy escapades at Chochotte burlesque theater, a place where tease is an art form, and the Love Hotel (yes, rent-by-the-hour themed hotel rooms... because Paris just gets it).

This is our origin story—the night we realized vanilla was officially off the menu. So grab a glass of French wine, settle in, and relive our first club experience with us. Vive la liberté, lovers!

Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!

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Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):

Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

*BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Le Mask Paris Review – Our Naughty Paris Origin Story

CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Swinger Dictionary⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!

*NEW* Spotify Playlist - Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!

*NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.

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Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)

Email Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠hello@vanillaswingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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Ever caught yourself giggling at a foursome joke on the golf course? Does your closet have more theme outfits than regular clothes? If so… you just might be a swinger! Join Kat & Leo for a hilarious, no-holds-barred deep dive into the funniest, most outrageous signs you’re in the lifestyle—Jeff Foxworthy style! From wristband collections to tequila shots taken off very questionable places, this episode will have you laughing, nodding, and maybe blushing. Ready to find out just how deep you’ve gone? Tune in!

Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!

*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*

Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):

Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

*BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! You Might Be a Swinger If... Top Signs You Swing

CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Swinger Dictionary⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!

*NEW* Spotify Playlist - Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!

*NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.

*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*

Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)

Email Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠hello@vanillaswingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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New Relationship Energy? It’s one helluva drug and probably why we are all swinging! One hit and you’re obsessed - texting like a lunatic, floating on dopamine, and barely keeping your pants on. But here’s the kicker what goes up must come down like a rollercoaster! Join Kat & Leo as they spill all the sizzling, scandalous, and downright chaotic details of NRE—how it makes you giddy, feral, and completely unhinged… and why you’ll keep chasing the high anyway. Just don’t let it burn you alive. 🔥🔥🔥

Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!

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Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):

Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

*BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Hooked on Swinging, High on NRE (New Relationship Energy)

CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Swinger Dictionary⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!

*NEW* Spotify Playlist - Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!

*NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan.

*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*

Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)

Email Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠hello@vanillaswingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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Join Kat & Leo as we dive into some of the most frustrating (and hilariously relatable) challenges in the lifestyle. First up: the fit, the fabulous, and the insufferably picky—those who seem to treat swinging like an exclusive VIP club, leaving everyone else rolling their eyes. Then, we tackle the notorious 9-to-5 dilemma, where finding a well-matched couple feels like a treasure hunt, only to discover the wife’s a total 9 and the husband’s… well, a solid 5. We’ll also dish on why swinging isn’t just about taking—it’s about leaving a little happiness behind for everyone involved. And let’s not forget: the lifestyle’s about being welcoming and accepting, so come on—let’s all do a little better. Be kind, be nice, and for heaven’s sake, be humble. Let’s talk chemistry, kindness, and avoiding the drama queens of the lifestyle.

Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!

*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*

Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):

Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

*BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Hot Wives, Meh Husbands: The 9 to 5 Swinger Paradox

CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Swinger Dictionary⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!

*NEW* Spotify Playlist - Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!

*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*

Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)

Email Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠hello@vanillaswingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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Ready to hear why Colorado's Scarlet Ranch is hands-down one of the BEST swingers clubs in the U.S.? We’re dishing all the steamy details—from its upscale lodge vibes, sexy crowd, and luxurious playrooms to that giant teepee, flirty Sexy Jenga, and even those voyeur-friendly glass-walled showers - and why we plan to visit often in the next year! Gotta dollar cost average our membership fee!!

PLUS, we’re spilling on our debauched New Year's Eve at the Ranch, then partying ‘til sunrise at Mon Chalet (which is seriously growing on us). With our rookie training wheels off, we’re kicking off Year Two in the lifestyle—and this new relationship energy? Wildly addictive. Let’s dive into the next chapter of our sexy new addiction!

Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!

*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*

Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):

Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

*BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Scarlet Ranch Review: Mile-High Mischief in Denver

CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Swinger Dictionary⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!

*NEW* Spotify Playlist - Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!

*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*

Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)

Email Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠hello@vanillaswingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

One FULL year of consistent play in the lifestyle, and we’re thriving like never before. Sure, the sexy fun is amazing (hello, fantasies coming true!), but swinging is so much more than just steamy nights. From communication that’s next level (no secrets, no BS) to confidence that has us glowing, and even a fitness glow-up that’ll make your vanilla friends jealous—swinging is the ultimate life upgrade. Throw in laugh-until-you-cry moments, wild adventures, and a newfound appreciation for each other, and you’ve got the recipe for why we’re DELIRIOUSLY HAPPY. Tune in for the top benefits that make the lifestyle totally worth it!

Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!

*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*

Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):

Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

*BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Why I Love Swinging: Top 10 Benefits

CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Swinger Dictionary⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!

Spotify Playlist - Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!

*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*

Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)

Email Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠hello@vanillaswingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

HAPPY NEW YEAR!! It’s the end of our first full year in the lifestyle—2024 is closing out, and we’re already wondering: what will 2025 have in store for us? This week, we’re spilling the tea on red flags that scream, run, don’t walk! From pushy players to couples who act like they’re auditioning for drama club, we’re calling it like we see it. PLUS, how to dodge an awkward vibe check at a meet and greet when you’re just not into them—because “thanks, but no thanks” can be an art form. Tune in for all this and more!

Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!

*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*

Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs and cruises!):

Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

*BRAND NEW* blog page ---> check out fun links & more! Swipe Left: Red Flags in the Lifestyle That Scream 'Run!

CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Swinger Dictionary⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!

*NEW* Spotify Playlist - Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble!

*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*

Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-)

Email Us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠hello@vanillaswingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠