Ever feel like you’re almost satisfied with where you are… until you see what someone else is doing? Yep, we’re talking about that all-too-familiar “compare and despair” spiral. It sneaks up fast, doesn’t it? One minute you’re fine, and the next, you’re questioning your entire life because someone else posted yet another picture-perfect vacation or landed another promotion. Sound familiar?

In this episode, Pamela digs deep into that relentless comparison game that leaves so many of us feeling like we’re forever falling short. But here’s the twist: what if everything you’re feeling is just a trick your mind is playing on you? Today, Pamela shares an unexpected insight that flips the script on comparison and reveals why chasing someone else’s version of “success” keeps you stuck in self-doubt.

Here’s what we’re unpacking:

• Why Comparison is a Trap – Find out why measuring your behind-the-scenes against someone else’s highlight reel will always leave you feeling less-than.

• An Unexpected Insight – Pamela shares a surprising mindset shift that can instantly pull you out of that comparison spiral and put the focus back on your journey.

• A Powerful Question – Next time you catch yourself comparing, ask this one question to ground yourself in what’s actually going right in your life.

• A Practical Exercise – A simple but impactful exercise to remind you of your progress and help you break free from that constant need to measure up.

  
  

Ready to stop chasing someone else’s path and start owning yours? Hit play to discover how to leave comparison behind and finally feel like you’re enough.

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Hi, friend! My name is Pamela Hughes and I’m a former talk show host turned life coach. After 20 years in the news business, I walked away from what people thought I should do and I did what I wanted to do … coach people who are stuck like I was and help them find relief, awareness and control within themselves.

This was no easy task and I’m not here telling you it was. I had to take full responsibility for where my life was and then decide where I wanted it to go. It was time to stop complaining about my situation and do something about it. I had to stop looking for others to validate me and start having my own back. This required looking inside myself for the answers instead of looking outside myself.

I told you it wasn’t easy … but I wouldn’t change one thing about my journey because it led me right here to you reading about it, maybe identifying with aspects of it and hopefully being inspired to get UNSTUCK.

Ever find yourself collapsed on the couch at 11 PM, completely exhausted, with a to-do list that somehow got longer during the day? Yeah, we need to talk about that. In this game-changing episode, former talk show host turned life coach Pamela Hughes gets real about why running faster on life's treadmill isn't getting you where you want to go.

You know that voice in your head saying "If I just work a little harder..." or "I can't slow down or everything will fall apart"? Pamela's been there (spoiler alert: her own wake-up call came after leaving her broadcasting career), and she's got some seriously refreshing insights about why "rise and grind" might be keeping you stuck.

Here's the thing: what if the solution isn't about doing more, but about getting crystal clear on what actually matters? Pamela shares a brilliant car analogy that will completely change how you think about your daily hustle (hint: flooring the gas pedal isn't always the answer 😉).

Plus, you'll discover:

• A dead-simple way to cut through your overwhelming to-do list (it starts with the number 3)
• Why saying "no" might be your new superpower
• The surprisingly common belief that's keeping you trapped in hustle mode
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If you've ever felt like you're sprinting through life but somehow standing still, this episode is your permission slip to pause, breathe, and find a better way forward.

🎯 Ready to stop spinning your wheels? Hit play to learn how to trade exhausting hustle for authentic progress. Trust me, your future self will thank you for this one.

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About the host:

Hi, friend! My name is Pamela Hughes and I’m a former talk show host turned life coach. After 20 years in the news business, I walked away from what people thought I should do and I did what I wanted to do … coach people who are stuck like I was and help them find relief, awareness and control within themselves.

This was no easy task and I’m not here telling you it was. I had to take full responsibility for where my life was and then decide where I wanted it to go. It was time to stop complaining about my situation and do something about it. I had to stop looking for others to validate me and start having my own back. This required looking inside myself for the answers instead of looking outside myself.

I told you it wasn’t easy … but I wouldn’t change one thing about my journey because it led me right here to you reading about it, maybe identifying with aspects of it and hopefully being inspired to get UNSTUCK.

Ever feel like you're constantly swimming against the current, trying to change things (or people) that just won't budge? Like you're stuck in a never-ending battle with the universe? Well, buckle up, because this episode is about to blow your mind and potentially change your life.

In this game-changing episode, I'm diving deep into the "Let Them Theory" - a powerful mindset shift that'll revolutionize how you approach, well, everything. It's all about recognizing what you can control (hint: it's you) and letting go of what you can't (spoiler: it's pretty much everything else).

Here's a sneak peek at what you'll discover:

• The liberating truth about why trying to change others is a losing battle (and what to do instead)

• The sneaky way you might be giving away your power without even realizing it
• A practical guide to setting boundaries that actually stick (no more people-pleasing!)
• The unexpected ripple effect this theory can have on every aspect of your life

This episode is for you if you're tired of feeling drained, frustrated, and stuck in the same old patterns. It's time to let go of what you can't control and focus on what you can - being your amazing self.

So grab your headphones, find a comfy spot, and get ready for some real talk that'll leave you feeling empowered and ready to tackle life head-on.

Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share with a friend who needs to hear this!

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About the host:

Hi, friend! My name is Pamela Hughes and I’m a former talk show host turned life coach. After 20 years in the news business, I walked away from what people thought I should do and I did what I wanted to do … coach people who are stuck like I was and help them find relief, awareness and control within themselves.

This was no easy task and I’m not here telling you it was. I had to take full responsibility for where my life was and then decide where I wanted it to go. It was time to stop complaining about my situation and do something about it. I had to stop looking for others to validate me and start having my own back. This required looking inside myself for the answers instead of looking outside myself.

I told you it wasn’t easy … but I wouldn’t change one thing about my journey because it led me right here to you reading about it, maybe identifying with aspects of it and hopefully being inspired to get UNSTUCK.

Ever found yourself wide awake at 3 AM, your mind racing through every possible scenario for a meeting that's weeks away? Or spent hours agonizing over the "perfect" response to a text message? If so, you're not alone in the overthinking club.

In this engaging and humorous episode, Pamela Hughes dives into the world of overthinking, exploring why our brains seem hardwired to worry and how we can regain control of our runaway thoughts. Drawing from evolutionary psychology and modern neuroscience, Pamela explains why our caveman brains might be ill-equipped for the social media age.

But this isn't just about understanding why we overthink - it's about practical strategies to break free from the cycle. Pamela shares a toolkit of techniques to help overthinkers:

• The "Brain Dump" method for clearing mental clutter

• How to play "Fact or Fiction" with your worries

• Simple mindfulness practices that don't require a meditation cushion

• The power of taking imperfect action to break decision paralysis

  
  

Throughout the episode, Pamela's relatable anecdotes and self-deprecating humor make complex concepts accessible and entertaining. Whether you're a chronic worrier, an indecisive planner, or just curious about the inner workings of the overthinking mind, this episode offers insights and strategies to help you reclaim mental peace.

Don't miss this opportunity to turn your overthinking tendency from a burden into a superpower. Tune in and discover how to harness your brain's energy for productivity and creativity, rather than endless worry loops. It's time to show your overthinking brain who's boss!

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About the host:

Hi, friend! My name is Pamela Hughes and I’m a former talk show host turned life coach. After 20 years in the news business, I walked away from what people thought I should do and I did what I wanted to do … coach people who are stuck like I was and help them find relief, awareness and control within themselves.

This was no easy task and I’m not here telling you it was. I had to take full responsibility for where my life was and then decide where I wanted it to go. It was time to stop complaining about my situation and do something about it. I had to stop looking for others to validate me and start having my own back. This required looking inside myself for the answers instead of looking outside myself.

I told you it wasn’t easy … but I wouldn’t change one thing about my journey because it led me right here to you reading about it, maybe identifying with aspects of it and hopefully being inspired to get UNSTUCK.

Have you ever found yourself avoiding a task, conversation, or opportunity simply because it made you uncomfortable? You're not alone.

Many of us instinctively shy away from discomfort, viewing it as something to be avoided at all costs. But what if that very discomfort you're dodging is actually the key to unlocking your potential?

In this thought-provoking episode, Pamela Hughes challenges the common perception of discomfort, revealing how it can be a powerful catalyst for personal growth and transformation. Drawing from cutting-edge research in psychology and neuroscience, Pamela explores why stepping out of our comfort zones is essential for developing resilience, creativity, and overall life satisfaction.

But this isn't just about theory. Pamela gets personal, sharing her own humbling (and often hilarious) journey of embracing discomfort through learning to swim as an adult. Her story illustrates how facing our fears and insecurities head-on can lead to unexpected breakthroughs and a renewed sense of self-confidence.

Throughout the episode, Pamela offers practical strategies for incorporating beneficial discomfort into your daily life, including:

• How to reframe nervousness as excitement

• The power of setting weekly 'discomfort' goals

• Techniques for building your "uncomfortable muscle"

• Why celebrating effort, not just outcomes, is crucial for growth

  
  

Whether you're looking to advance in your career, improve your relationships, or simply break free from a rut, this episode provides a roadmap for harnessing the power of discomfort to propel your personal growth.

Don't miss this opportunity to transform your relationship with discomfort and unlock new possibilities in your life. Tune in and discover why the path to getting unstuck might be a little uncomfortable - in the best way possible!

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Hi, friend! My name is Pamela Hughes and I’m a former talk show host turned life coach. After 20 years in the news business, I walked away from what people thought I should do and I did what I wanted to do … coach people who are stuck like I was and help them find relief, awareness and control within themselves.

This was no easy task and I’m not here telling you it was. I had to take full responsibility for where my life was and then decide where I wanted it to go. It was time to stop complaining about my situation and do something about it. I had to stop looking for others to validate me and start having my own back. This required looking inside myself for the answers instead of looking outside myself.

I told you it wasn’t easy … but I wouldn’t change one thing about my journey because it led me right here to you reading about it, maybe identifying with aspects of it and hopefully being inspired to get UNSTUCK.

Have you ever found yourself stuck in a cycle of planning and dreaming, but never quite making the leap into action? Or perhaps you've felt paralyzed by indecision, unsure of which step to take first?

If so, you're not alone. The gap between our intentions and our actions can often feel like a vast, uncrossable chasm.

In this inspiring episode, Pamela Hughes explores the final and crucial component of her T.E.A. Framework - Action.

She uncovers how our thoughts and emotions, discussed in previous episodes, ultimately manifest in the real world through our actions (or lack thereof).

Pamela delves into the powerful connection between our inner world and outer reality, revealing how even small, intentional actions can create ripple effects of positive change in our lives.

Through relatable stories and practical examples, she illustrates how action is the key that unlocks the door to transformation.

But this isn't just about motivational pep talks. Pamela equips listeners with concrete strategies to bridge the gap between intention and action, including:

• How to break down overwhelming goals into manageable, actionable steps

• Techniques for overcoming fear and resistance when taking bold actions

• The power of consistent, small actions in creating lasting change

• How to align your actions with your thoughts and emotions for maximum impact

Throughout the episode, Pamela offers insights and tools that listeners can immediately apply to their own lives, whether they're looking to advance their career, improve their relationships, or simply cultivate a more fulfilling daily routine.

Don't miss this empowering conclusion to the T.E.A. Framework series. Tune in and discover how to transform your aspirations into reality, one intentional action at a time.

It's time to stop dreaming and start doing - your unstuck life awaits!

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About the host:

Hi, friend! My name is Pamela Hughes and I’m a former talk show host turned life coach. After 20 years in the news business, I walked away from what people thought I should do and I did what I wanted to do … coach people who are stuck like I was and help them find relief, awareness and control within themselves.

This was no easy task and I’m not here telling you it was. I had to take full responsibility for where my life was and then decide where I wanted it to go. It was time to stop complaining about my situation and do something about it. I had to stop looking for others to validate me and start having my own back. This required looking inside myself for the answers instead of looking outside myself.

I told you it wasn’t easy … but I wouldn’t change one thing about my journey because it led me right here to you reading about it, maybe identifying with aspects of it and hopefully being inspired to get UNSTUCK.

Have you ever felt like your emotions were running the show, leaving you as a mere passenger in your own life? You're not alone. In this compelling episode, Pamela Hughes pulls back the curtain on the mysterious world of emotions, revealing how they can either empower us or hold us back.

We've all been there - heart racing before a big presentation, fuming after a frustrating conversation, or riding high on unexpected good news. But what if you could understand and harness these emotional currents instead of being swept away by them?

That's exactly what Pamela explores in this deep dive into the "E" of her transformative T.E.A. Framework. She uncovers the hidden link between our thoughts and emotions, showing how this connection shapes every aspect of our lives - from our relationships and career decisions to our day-to-day happiness.

But this isn't just about understanding emotions - it's about mastering them. Pamela equips listeners with practical, easy-to-use tools that can turn emotional turmoil into emotional intelligence. Imagine being able to:

• Instantly recognize and defuse emotional triggers

• Transform anxiety into focused energy

• Use negative emotions as catalysts for positive change

• Cultivate emotional resilience in the face of life's challenges

  
  

Throughout the episode, Pamela breaks down complex concepts into bite-sized, actionable insights, including:

• A four-step process to navigate emotional storms with grace

• The "pause and question" technique for emotional clarity

• How to reframe negative situations for a more balanced perspective

  
  

Whether you're a busy professional trying to keep cool under pressure, a parent navigating the emotional rollercoaster of family life, or anyone seeking greater emotional balance, this episode offers a roadmap to emotional mastery.

Don't miss this opportunity to unlock the power of your emotions and take a crucial step towards unsticking your life. Tune in and discover how to transform your emotions from silent saboteurs into your secret superpower!

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About the host:

Hi, friend! My name is Pamela Hughes and I’m a former talk show host turned life coach. After 20 years in the news business, I walked away from what people thought I should do and I did what I wanted to do … coach people who are stuck like I was and help them find relief, awareness and control within themselves.

This was no easy task and I’m not here telling you it was. I had to take full responsibility for where my life was and then decide where I wanted it to go. It was time to stop complaining about my situation and do something about it. I had to stop looking for others to validate me and start having my own back. This required looking inside myself for the answers instead of looking outside myself.

I told you it wasn’t easy … but I wouldn’t change one thing about my journey because it led me right here to you reading about it, maybe identifying with aspects of it and hopefully being inspired to get UNSTUCK.

Have you ever found yourself lying awake at night, mind racing with worries about things that haven't even happened?

Or perhaps you've talked yourself out of an amazing opportunity because you convinced yourself you weren't good enough? If so, you're not alone. Our thoughts, often operating behind the scenes, have an incredible power to shape our lives - for better or worse.

In this eye-opening episode, Pamela Hughes delves into the "T" of her revolutionary Spilling the T.E.A. Framework, unveiling the hidden influence our thoughts have on every aspect of our existence.

She explores how these silent narrators in our minds can turn a simple misunderstanding into a full-blown crisis, or transform a mundane moment into an opportunity for growth.

But this isn't just about exposing the mind's tricks. Pamela provides listeners with practical, easy-to-implement tools to recognize and reshape their thought patterns. You'll learn how to:

• Identify common thought traps that keep you stuck

• Transform negative self-talk into empowering internal dialogue

• Use the "Thought Catcher" technique to gain clarity and control

• Harness the power of your thoughts to create positive change in your life

  
  

Throughout the episode, Pamela breaks down complex concepts into relatable, actionable insights.

Whether you're a busy professional trying to manage stress, a creative person battling self-doubt, or anyone looking to cultivate a more positive mindset, this episode offers a roadmap to mastering your thoughts.

Don't miss this chance to peek behind the curtain of your own mind and discover how to turn your thoughts from potential saboteurs into powerful allies.

Tune in and take the first step towards unsticking your life and creating the reality you truly desire!

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About the host:

Hi, friend! My name is Pamela Hughes and I’m a former talk show host turned life coach. After 20 years in the news business, I walked away from what people thought I should do and I did what I wanted to do … coach people who are stuck like I was and help them find relief, awareness and control within themselves.

This was no easy task and I’m not here telling you it was. I had to take full responsibility for where my life was and then decide where I wanted it to go. It was time to stop complaining about my situation and do something about it. I had to stop looking for others to validate me and start having my own back. This required looking inside myself for the answers instead of looking outside myself.

I told you it wasn’t easy … but I wouldn’t change one thing about my journey because it led me right here to you reading about it, maybe identifying with aspects of it and hopefully being inspired to get UNSTUCK.