Episodes

  • #5 - Church Hurt (Part 2)

    #5 - Church Hurt (Part 2)
    Nov 18 2024
    Scriptural Conflict Resolution
    • Handling conflict scripturally is essential for maintaining healthy relationships within the church. Here’s a biblical approach to resolving conflicts:
      • 1. *Address the Issue Privately*:
      • Matthew 18:15 instructs us, "If your brother or sister sins, go and point out their fault, just between the two of you." This step emphasizes the importance of addressing conflicts directly and privately before escalating them to others.
      • 2. *Seek Understanding*:
      • Approach the situation with a heart of humility and a desire to understand the other person’s perspective. Proverbs 18:2 says, "Fools find no pleasure in understanding but delight in airing their own opinions." Listening is key to resolving conflicts effectively.
      • 3. *Involve Others Wisely*:
      • If the conflict remains unresolved, Matthew 18:16 advises us to take one or two others along to help mediate the situation. This ensures that the matter is handled fairly and with accountability.
      • 4. *Pursue Peace*:
      • Romans 12:18 encourages us, "If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone." Strive for reconciliation and peace, even if it requires humility and sacrifice.
    Scriptural Remedies for Church Hurt
    • So, how can we find healing from church hurt?
    • Here are some scriptural remedies to guide us:
      • 1. *Forgiveness*:
      • Ephesians 4:32 encourages us, "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." Forgiveness is crucial for healing. It doesn’t mean we condone hurtful behavior, but it frees us from the burden of bitterness.
      • 2. *Focus on Jesus*:
      • Hebrews 12:2 reminds us, "Fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith." When we focus on Christ and His teachings, we find strength and encouragement that transcend our experiences with others.
      • 3. *Seek Community*:
      • While we may have faced hurt, it’s vital to seek out healthy, supportive communities. 1 Thessalonians 5:11 encourages us, “Therefore encourage one another and build each other up.” Finding a group that embodies Christ-like love can provide healing and support.
      • 4. *Consider Finding a New Church*:
      • If your current church community is not aligning with your biblical viewpoint or is causing you more pain than growth, it may be time to consider finding a different church. Look for a community that embraces you and supports your faith journey. Remember, the church is meant to be a refuge and a place of growth, not a source of ongoing hurt.
      • 5. *Prayer and Reflection*:
      • Spend time in prayer, asking God to heal your heart and help you process your feelings. Psalm 34:18 reminds us, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." He is our ultimate comforter.

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • #4 - Church Hurt (part 1)

    #4 - Church Hurt (part 1)
    Nov 11 2024
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    • Chris and Drew catch up on each other’s week, happenings in pop culture, funny episodes, etc.
    • Drew: “It’s Christmas Tree Cake Season.”

    TODAY’S TOPIC
    • Catch up on what we covered last week (be sure to go back and listen listeners) “TESTIMONIES”
    • Get into today’s topic: CHURCH HURT

    WHAT IS CHURCH HURT?
    • Church hurt refers to the emotional and spiritual pain that individuals experience due to negative interactions with fellow church members or leaders. This can manifest as betrayal, judgment, gossip, or unkindness—often from those we expect to support us in our spiritual journey.
    Understanding The Difference Between, “Biblical Correction” and “Unbiblical Bias”:
    • Drew seen a post today that perfectly sets this up:
    • A critical distinction to make is between biblical correction and unbiblical bias.
    • *Biblical Correction*: This is rooted in love and guided by scripture. Galatians 6:1 tells us, "Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently." This kind of correction aims to restore and uplift the individual, not to tear them down.
    • *Unbiblical Bias*: In contrast, unbiblical bias often manifests as judgment, condemnation, or criticism that lacks grace and compassion. It can stem from personal biases, misunderstandings, or even cultural differences within a church community. This behavior can lead to feelings of inadequacy and hurt, leaving individuals feeling ostracized instead of embraced.
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    • I know of at least 2 affairs that have happened in churches I have attended. One as a kid, and one as an adult.
    • Mathew 7:15 “ WATCH OUT FOR FALSE PROPHETS. THEY COME TO YOU IN SHEEP’S CLOTHING, BUT INWARDLY THEY ARE FEROCIOUS WOLVES”.
    • MATHEW 24:11 ‘AND MANY FALSE PROPHETS WILL APPEAR AND DECEIVE MANY PEOPLE. Vs. 12 BECAUSE OF THE INCREASE OF WICKEDNESS, THE LOVE OF MOST WILL GROW COLD.”
    • I have been to MEGA churches as well as small churches and at least 4 churches with different denominations.
    • That UNCOMFORTABLE feeling when a church or pastor does something you're not sure is actually biblical.
    • How many of us have left a church because we were hurt there or felt they weren't teaching biblical truth?
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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Drew's Thoughts on the Election

    Drew's Thoughts on the Election
    Nov 6 2024
    Drew and Chris wanted to try to release short bonus episodes to share their thoughts seperately on this election.
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    17 mins
  • Chris's thoughts on the election

    Chris's thoughts on the election
    Nov 5 2024
    Chris and Drew decided to release a special message separate from each other today to give you some thoughts on election day.
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    13 mins
  • #3 - The Genesis (Part 2 / Drew's Testimony)

    #3 - The Genesis (Part 2 / Drew's Testimony)
    Nov 4 2024
    In this powerful episode of the Unreligious Podcast, Drew shares his incredible testimony, taking us on a journey through his life in Christ.

    Growing up in a Southern Baptist church with a preacher for a dad and a musical mom, Drew's early years were steeped in faith. But as he transitioned to adolescence, he faced the complexities of being a church kid, grappling with the expectations and realities of faith.

    Drew opens up about his college years, where he walked away from the church and struggled with a growing split between his Christian beliefs and the life he was living. It’s a candid exploration of faith, doubt, and the challenge of staying true to one’s beliefs in a changing world.

    Everything changed for Drew one fateful day when he woke up drunk for a family photo shoot, prompting him to reevaluate his life and faith. Join us as he shares the turning point that reignited his journey back to Christ and how becoming a content creator transformed his perspective.

    This episode is a raw and honest look at the highs and lows of faith and the power of redemption. We invite you to listen, reflect, and share your own stories in the comments below!

    If you found Drew’s journey inspiring, don’t forget to hit that SUBSCRIBE button, RATE the episode, and SHARE it with your friends! Let’s spread the message of hope and transformation together.
    #DrewsTestimony #JourneyThroughFaith #UnreligiousPodcast #FaithAndStruggle #RedemptionStory #ChristianJourney #ContentCreator #ShareYourStory #ViralChristian #HopeAndHealing #TestimonyTuesday #FaithInActionJoin the conversation and let’s uplift each other in our journeys of faith!
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    1 hr and 15 mins
  • #2 - The Genesis (Part 1 / Chris's Testimony)

    #2 - The Genesis (Part 1 / Chris's Testimony)
    Oct 28 2024
    Episode #2 / Part 1 / Chris’s Testimony:

    From Lukewarm Faith to Bold ObedienceIn this deeply personal episode of The Unreligious Podcast, Chris Lewis shares his powerful testimony of transformation. He opens up about the struggles of living as a "lukewarm" Christian, navigating difficult family challenges, and wrestling with his faith.

    Chris recounts the pivotal moments that forced him to confront his relationship with God—moments that led him and his family to uproot their comfortable life in Wisconsin, settle into their dream home in Tennessee, and eventually answer a life-changing call to move across the world to Portugal.

    This episode is packed with faith, redemption, and real-life inspiration, reminding us that God’s plan often requires bold obedience. If you’ve ever questioned your path or struggled to hear God’s voice, this one is for you.

    Don’t miss Part 1 of Chris’s incredible journey from complacency to courageous faith. Listen now and discover how surrendering to God’s call can lead to unimaginable blessings.

    Next week Drew will share his testimony.

    Keywords for SEO: Christian podcast, testimony, overcoming struggles, faith journey, lukewarm Christian, family challenges, God’s calling, moving for God, Portugal missions, life transformation, spiritual growth
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    46 mins
  • #1 - The Exodus

    #1 - The Exodus
    Oct 16 2024

    In the pilot episode of the **Unreligious Podcast**, hosts Chris and Drew invite you to embark on a spiritual journey like no other. Discover how these two friends united in their passion to share the message of Jesus with everyone.

    Join them as they delve into their backstories, revealing key moments that shaped their faith and inspired this podcast. They explore what it means to be "unreligious," breaking down misconceptions while highlighting love, acceptance, and genuine connection.

    Expect heartfelt conversations, inspiring stories, and practical insights that resonate with anyone on their spiritual path. Whether you're a lifelong believer or just curious about faith, this podcast welcomes you.

    Don’t miss the launch—join Chris and Drew as they create a vibrant community for exploration and dialogue about faith. Be part of the Unreligious movement today!

    Email your questions to: theunreligiouspodcast@gmail.com
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    1 hr and 7 mins