Unlearned

By: Jaime Mahler and CA Rhoades
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  • This is a podcast all about deconstructing who we are and exploring who we are becoming.
    Jaime Mahler and CA Rhoades
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Hygiene & Healthy Living Psychology
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Episodes
  • Ep 73: We’re Divorced!

    Ep 73: We’re Divorced!
    Feb 13 2025
    In this raw and honest comeback episode ofUnlearned, Jaime and CA open up about their recent divorce and journey of healing. They discuss unlearning old patterns and navigating neurodivergence while finding a balance between intellectualizing pain and truly feeling their emotions. With candid vulnerability and humor, they invite listeners to join them on a path toward new beginnings.Notes:Hosts return after a long hiatus following intense personal healing.They discuss their recent divorce as a transformative, painful step.The conversation centers on unlearning old relational patterns.They explore how neurodivergence shapes their need for structure and emotional processing.A key theme is balancing the urge to intellectualize pain with the need to feel it.Vulnerability and raw emotion are embraced throughout the episode.The hosts highlight the importance of setting healthy boundaries.They share personal anecdotes that reveal layers of trauma and growth.The dialogue examines the interplay between physical survival and emotional well-being.They critique oversimplified self-help advice in favor of honest self-discovery.The episode invites listeners to join them on a journey toward new beginnings.Future episodes promise a blend of deep introspection and lighter moments.Links:Would you like CA to coach you?https://tinyurl.com/ybt3jwatOrder Jaime’s book “TOXIC RELATIONSHIP RECOVERY,” today! It is available in paperback, as an audiobook (read by Jaime, herself), and as an e-book.https://bit.ly/43Ka8kESupport the podcast by joining our Coffee Fiend club:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.patreon.com/unlearned⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠FREEBIE! Intention Prompts:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://tinyurl.com/Intentionprompts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CA’s Voxer Coaching:http://tinyurl.com/434fs8zdJaime’s Coaching:https://recollectedself.com/workwithmeFollow the podcast on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/theunlearnedpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jaime’s Instagram:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/recollectedself/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jaime’s TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@recollectedself⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CA’s Instagram:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.secure.instagram.com/embracingdivergence/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠CA’s Tiktok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingdivergence⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Email us topics/suggestions: ⁠unlearned@recollectedself.com⁠International Suicide Hotlines:https://blog.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlinesNational Suicide Hotline: Call:988 Text: 988Website:https://988lifeline.org/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=oneboxLifeline Options For Deaf + Hard of Hearing For TTY Users: Use your preferred relay service or dial 711 then 988.Over 50 Club!Amanda B.Plamen S.Rachel S. (Her Petstagram: @mini_carlo_pinscher)
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    57 mins
  • Ep 72: Can People Pleasers Consent?

    Ep 72: Can People Pleasers Consent?
    Jun 24 2024
    We hear a lot about consent in a sexual context, but what about the other places it shows up? Jaime and CA explore the nuance of consent and what it means in regards to our relationships and how we show up for our partners, friends, and family. Also - Come to our first ever in person retreat “The Spiritual Soma Release Retreat:” buy.stripe.com/14k5ldd0n1tQ51e6oF Support the podcast by joining our Coffee Fiend club: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/unlearned⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Order Jaime’s book “TOXIC RELATIONSHIP RECOVERY,” today! It is available in paperback, as an audiobook (read by Jaime, herself), and as an e-book. https://bit.ly/43Ka8kE Notes: We’re back! Our first ever in person retreat! FRIES in Consent Where curiosity and enthusiasm come into play Fuck yes vs yes energy How our consent is perceived Why people resist “I guess” Where people pleasing comes into play Strategies to consenting properly Links: Support the podcast by joining our Coffee Fiend club:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.patreon.com/unlearned⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FREEBIE! Intention Prompts:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ http://tinyurl.com/Intentionprompts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ CA’s Voxer Coaching: http://tinyurl.com/434fs8zd Jaime’s Coaching: https://recollectedself.com/workwithme Follow the podcast on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/theunlearnedpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Jaime’s Instagram:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/recollectedself/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Jaime’s TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@recollectedself⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ CA’s Instagram:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.secure.instagram.com/embracingdivergence/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ CA’s Tiktok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingdivergence⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email us topics/suggestions: ⁠unlearned@recollectedself.com⁠ International Suicide Hotlines: https://blog.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlinesNational Suicide Hotline: Call:988Text: 988 Website:https://988lifeline.org/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=onebox Lifeline Options For Deaf + Hard of Hearing For TTY Users: Use your preferred relay service or dial 711 then 988. Over 50 Club! Amanda B. Plamen S. Rachel S. (Her Petstagram: @mini_carlo_pinscher)
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    47 mins
  • Ep 71: I Didn't Have a Childhood

    Ep 71: I Didn't Have a Childhood
    Jun 3 2024

    Social media is filled with nostalgia and it can be a lot of fun. But what happens when you look at the shared childhood experiences of others and think to yourself, “that wasn’t me?” Join CA and Jaime as they explore what life looks like for those of us who have had to, more or less, raise ourselves. Is being a latchkey kid something we need to heal from? Listen in and find out.

    Support the podcast by joining our Coffee Fiend club: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/unlearned⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Come to our first-ever in-person retreat: buy.stripe.com/14k5ldd0n1tQ51e6oF

    Order Jaime’s book “TOXIC RELATIONSHIP RECOVERY,” today! It is available in paperback, as an audiobook (read by Jaime, herself), and as an e-book. https://bit.ly/43Ka8kE

    Notes:

    • Jaime’s struggles with memory around her childhood

    • CA’s struggles with not having a carefree childhood

    • What happens when you don’t remember your childhood like other people do

    • Parentification - what it is and what it means

    • How parentification affects development

    • Latchkey kids and how they cope

    • Why we need to connect with ourselves and find our needs

    • Healing from our childhood trauma

    • Understanding and embracing your inner child

    • Using your inner child was a parent

    Links:

    • Support the podcast by joining our Coffee Fiend club:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.patreon.com/unlearned⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    • FREEBIE! Intention Prompts:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ http://tinyurl.com/Intentionprompts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    • CA’s Voxer Coaching: http://tinyurl.com/434fs8zd

    • Jaime’s Coaching: https://recollectedself.com/workwithme

    • Follow the podcast on Instagram:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/theunlearnedpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    • Jaime’s Instagram:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/recollectedself/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    • Jaime’s TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@recollectedself⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    • CA’s Instagram:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.secure.instagram.com/embracingdivergence/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    • CA’s Tiktok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingdivergence⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    • Email us topics/suggestions: ⁠unlearned@recollectedself.com⁠

    • International Suicide Hotlines: https://blog.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlinesNational Suicide Hotline: Call:988Text: 988

    • Website:https://988lifeline.org/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=onebox

    • Lifeline Options For Deaf + Hard of Hearing For TTY Users: Use your preferred relay service or dial 711 then 988.

    Over 50 Club!

    • Amanda B.

    • Plamen S.

    • Rachel S. (Her Petstagram: @mini_carlo_pinscher)
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    59 mins

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