Devyn Simone, Tinder’s Resident Relationship Expert, joins Damona in celebration of Valentine’s Day to test Damona’s online dating knowledge in a Tinder Trivia showdown! Whether you’re feeling the love or dodging Cupid’s arrow this year, we’ve got something for you. Then in a special Dear Damona and Dear Devyn, our questions this week are: My matches want to skip getting to know each other and get straight to the date. How do I deal with this? I keep getting ghosted. Am I coming on too strong? You can find Tinder in the App Store or the Google Play Store, and you can find Devyn on Instagram @DevynSimone *This is NOT a sponsored episode* Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com TIMESTAMPS Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00) Welcome to Dates and Mates (00:00:06) Introducing Devin Simone (00:02:05) Catch-Up Between Friends (00:02:41) Tinder Trivia Game Introduction (00:03:52) The Evolution of Online Dating (00:04:54) Importance of Hope in Dating (00:08:06) First Trivia Question: Tinder's Activity Day (00:09:07) Burnout in Dating (00:11:27) Maximizing Dating App Time (00:12:21) Momentum in Online Dating (00:14:14) The Importance of Phone Calls (00:14:28) Trivia Game Begins (00:15:26) Benefits of Tinder's Passport Feature (00:16:34) Changing Dating Parameters Post-COVID (00:17:05) Misconceptions About Dating Options (00:20:49) Investment in Dating Apps (00:23:44) Study on Men's Perceptions of Women (00:24:18) Reality of Men's Relationship Goals (00:27:08) Understanding Individual Relationship Seriousness (00:28:33) The Importance of Online Dating Opportunities (00:29:25) Trivia Game Introduction (00:30:08) Loud Looking Trend (00:31:14) Shift in Dating Culture (00:32:11) Self-Reflection in Dating (00:34:34) Profile Photo Selection (00:39:31) AI Photo Selector Tool (00:42:42) Tinder Data Insights (00:43:24) AI Tools for Profile Building (00:44:13) Using Data for Dating Ease (00:45:07) Support Beyond Profiles (00:45:42) Confidence through Tools (00:46:11) Quality of Relationships (00:46:59) Listener Questions Introduction (00:47:38) Handling Men on Dating Apps (00:48:43) Importance of Pre-Screening (00:49:33) Communication Methods (00:50:49) Scheduled Mini-Dates (00:52:12) Ghosting and Quality Connections (00:52:28) Assessing Dating Patterns (00:53:25) Self-Inquiry in Relationships (00:54:01) Defining Quality in Partners (00:56:00) Closing Remarks and Appreciation (00:56:54) Closing Remarks and Thanks (00:57:25) Valentine's Day Episode Mention (00:57:25) Upcoming Guest Announcement (00:58:32) Valentine's Day Wishes (00:58:32) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices