Dates & Mates with Damona Hoffman

By: Damona Hoffman - Dates and Mates Media
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  • From navigating dating apps to overcoming the friendzone to seeking a soulmate, this ain’t your momma’s love advice! Hosted by the Official Love Expert of The Drew Barrymore Show and LA Times advice columnist, Damona Hoffman, Dates & Mates is jam-packed with interviews from your favorites celebs, authors, and experts. Dates & Mates is the 2022 Winner of The Best Podcast of the Year at The Black Podcasting Awards, #1 ranked love and relationship podcast by Cosmopolitan Magazine and a Top 10 Pick by HuffPost in the love category.
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  • Romances & Practicalities

    Romances & Practicalities
    Feb 18 2025
    Lindsay Jill Roth, award winning television producer, shares her new book, “Romances & Practicalities: A Love Story (Maybe Yours) In 250 Questions”, how these questions and ultimately the communication they foster can determine the trajectory of a relationship. Then our Dear Damona question this week is: Is it time for a talk? My man keeps updating his online profile. Get the book: “Romances & Practicalities: A Love Story (Maybe Yours) In 250 Questions” and follow Lindsay on Instagram @LindsayJillRoth Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com TIMESTAMPS Introduction to Relationship Questions (00:00:00) Host Introduction (00:00:13) Lyndsey's Background (00:02:29) Creating the System (00:03:51) Importance of Communication (00:06:08) Finding Comfort in Asking Questions (00:07:43) Starting Points for Conversations (00:08:29) Timing for Relationship Discussions (00:10:35) Therapy Before Problems Arise (00:11:17) International Romance Story (00:11:44) Pivotal Moment in the Relationship (00:13:37) Creating the System from Experience (00:15:09) Vulnerability in Relationships (00:16:35) The Challenge of Modern Dating (00:17:06) Initial Connection Over Text (00:18:44) The Disappointment of Zero Chemistry (00:19:20) Researching a Potential Partner (00:20:04) Deliberate Communication Choices (00:21:12) Importance of Getting Offline (00:22:00) Book Structure and Relationship Progression (00:23:06) The Role of Money in Relationships (00:25:03) Communication as a Foundation (00:27:12) Understanding Conflict Styles (00:28:37) Self-Discovery Through Relationships (00:31:20) Future Aspirations and Relationship Impact (00:32:51) The Importance of Structure in Relationships (34:05) Defining Spirituality in Dating (34:41) The Value of Self-Reflection (35:51) Using Books as Relationship Tools (37:11) Revisiting Conversations in Long-Term Relationships (38:05) The Evolution of Relationship Conversations (39:00) Permission to Not Have All the Answers (39:30) Unpopular Opinions on Dating (41:10) The Need for Open Communication (41:39) Listener Question on Relationship Insecurities (43:21) Navigating Undefined Relationship Spaces (46:05) Taking the Initiative in Relationship Conversations (48:40) Exploring Serious Relationships (00:50:59) The Power of Vulnerability (00:52:07) Episode Wrap-Up and Resources (00:52:15) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    59 mins
  • Tinder Trivia & Getting Ghosted

    Tinder Trivia & Getting Ghosted
    Feb 11 2025
    Devyn Simone, Tinder’s Resident Relationship Expert, joins Damona in celebration of Valentine’s Day to test Damona’s online dating knowledge in a Tinder Trivia showdown! Whether you’re feeling the love or dodging Cupid’s arrow this year, we’ve got something for you. Then in a special Dear Damona and Dear Devyn, our questions this week are: My matches want to skip getting to know each other and get straight to the date. How do I deal with this? I keep getting ghosted. Am I coming on too strong? You can find Tinder in the App Store or the Google Play Store, and you can find Devyn on Instagram @DevynSimone *This is NOT a sponsored episode* Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com TIMESTAMPS Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00) Welcome to Dates and Mates (00:00:06) Introducing Devin Simone (00:02:05) Catch-Up Between Friends (00:02:41) Tinder Trivia Game Introduction (00:03:52) The Evolution of Online Dating (00:04:54) Importance of Hope in Dating (00:08:06) First Trivia Question: Tinder's Activity Day (00:09:07) Burnout in Dating (00:11:27) Maximizing Dating App Time (00:12:21) Momentum in Online Dating (00:14:14) The Importance of Phone Calls (00:14:28) Trivia Game Begins (00:15:26) Benefits of Tinder's Passport Feature (00:16:34) Changing Dating Parameters Post-COVID (00:17:05) Misconceptions About Dating Options (00:20:49) Investment in Dating Apps (00:23:44) Study on Men's Perceptions of Women (00:24:18) Reality of Men's Relationship Goals (00:27:08) Understanding Individual Relationship Seriousness (00:28:33) The Importance of Online Dating Opportunities (00:29:25) Trivia Game Introduction (00:30:08) Loud Looking Trend (00:31:14) Shift in Dating Culture (00:32:11) Self-Reflection in Dating (00:34:34) Profile Photo Selection (00:39:31) AI Photo Selector Tool (00:42:42) Tinder Data Insights (00:43:24) AI Tools for Profile Building (00:44:13) Using Data for Dating Ease (00:45:07) Support Beyond Profiles (00:45:42) Confidence through Tools (00:46:11) Quality of Relationships (00:46:59) Listener Questions Introduction (00:47:38) Handling Men on Dating Apps (00:48:43) Importance of Pre-Screening (00:49:33) Communication Methods (00:50:49) Scheduled Mini-Dates (00:52:12) Ghosting and Quality Connections (00:52:28) Assessing Dating Patterns (00:53:25) Self-Inquiry in Relationships (00:54:01) Defining Quality in Partners (00:56:00) Closing Remarks and Appreciation (00:56:54) Closing Remarks and Thanks (00:57:25) Valentine's Day Episode Mention (00:57:25) Upcoming Guest Announcement (00:58:32) Valentine's Day Wishes (00:58:32) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 4 mins
  • Dear Damona: Dating Groove & Twin Flame’s Twin

    Dear Damona: Dating Groove & Twin Flame’s Twin
    Feb 4 2025
    Valentine’s Day is around the corner and Damona dedicates this week’s episode to YOU! Whether you're navigating dating apps, dealing with relationship questions, or just trying to avoid all those pink hearts in the grocery store…February can be a tricky time! Set the record straight in this all Dear Damona episode with your top questions like: A hot new match has convinced me the dating apps are worth a second go. How do I do this? My dates aren’t taking the time to get to know the real me.Where can I meet matches dating on a deeper level? Is my dating groove too strong? I have two love interests and both work in the same building. Friends say I should put a pause on dating, but I don’t want to. What do you say? And, my identical twin ex couldn’t peel away from his brother for our relationship. Did I ignore red flags? Ready to break free of your dating loops? Get Damona’s signature online program, The Dating Accelerator by visiting: DamonaHoffman.com/program Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com TIMESTAMPS Introduction to the Episode (00:00:00) Listener Questions Begin (00:02:14) Listener's Dating Experience (00:02:17) Mindset and Dating Strategies (00:04:09) Clarifying Dating Goals (00:07:27) Anonymous Listener's Dilemma (00:09:40) Advice on Age and Compatibility (00:11:57) Navigating Workplace Relationships (00:14:16) Empowerment in Dating Choices (00:15:19) Navigating Real-Life Dating Challenges (00:16:28) Empowering Self-Expression in Dating (00:19:44) Seeking Connection Amidst Life's Responsibilities (00:23:10) Understanding Dating Mindset (00:26:13) Defining Relationship Goals (00:31:39) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    47 mins

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