Episodes

  • Is it normal for straight guys to want to do ‘this’ sexually?

    Is it normal for straight guys to want to do ‘this’ sexually?
    Feb 17 2025
    A Twitter spaces conversation inspired today’s episode where we talk about common concerns about sexual desires. Our callers often worry if they are ‘normal’ or ask something along the lines of ‘what does it mean if I get aroused by this?’

    We’ve got you    !
    In fact, the Femdom hosts hear some version of “is this weird” a lot.

    We highlight several common areas of concern:
    Anal play / prostate play
    Cock sucking
    Wearing panties
    Being a submissive man

    What is normal?
    Who gets to decide what types of erotic pleasure are outside the norm?
    Who can you talk with about your concerns?
    How to find someone who can guide you through these desires.

    You’ll also hear that you aren’t alone in your worry about being weird or whatever. The ladies share personal stories about our own experiences.

    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
    Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
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    29 mins
  • Why you need prostate play.

    Why you need prostate play.
    Feb 10 2025
    A listener asks for an episode about prostate play and prostate health. The ladies think this is a great idea for a podcast focused on playing with the prostate and all that goes along with that.

    The episode includes:
    A bit of biology, where the prostate is, how to find it, why you want to explore it.
    All the fun names including one that will make total sense when you hear it.

    What does a prostate orgasm feel like and how is it different from a ‘regular’ orgasm?
    What is a sissygasm and what does that feel like?

    If someone is a chastity pet, then the Mistress might keep that submissive caged and do prostate milking. These Femdoms talk about prostate health and using prostate milking for someone who is in long term chastity say as part of sissy training and feminization.

    Why would someone be nervous about or reluctant to try prostate play? The ladies talk about some common concerns. The two most common worries about anal sex are: will it hurt and will it be ‘messy.’

    You’ll hear recommendations for favorite sex toys for anal play, including remote controlled sex toys.

    Personal stories, jokes and laughter are always part of the podcast – so we’re glad to have you here with us!

    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
    Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy


    NOTE: if you navigate to our blogs but land on TalkToMe123 you are not lost. If you want to know more how to access our blogs, just get in touch.

    Here's how:
    Olivia@enchantrixempire.com
    Erika@enchantrixempire.com
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    31 mins
  • Do you have a fantasy roleplay that you never want to do or can’t do in real-life?

    Do you have a fantasy roleplay that you never want to do or can’t do in real-life?
    Feb 3 2025
    Your Femdom hosts talk about why they love phone sex and distance domination. The focus is on fantasy roleplay that is only possible in fantasy or is the perfect choice for someone who can’t explore their desires in a “real” life setting.

    Ms Erika describes fantasy roleplay as letting go of logic and being able for a Mistress to push boundaries that couldn’t otherwise be pushed. Ms Olivia agrees, adding that being able to suspend reality is perfect for storytelling.

    Both ladies point out the unique intimacy in this kind of connection. Mistress Erika brings up how the long distance relationship actually reduces inhibitions and allows someone to really talk about erotic desires without fear of judgment or fear of rejection from your real life partner, wife or girlfriend.

    Some roleplays are physically impossible. The ladies talk about several examples including:
    Giantess, shrinking, and tiny man fantasies
    The magically transformed category that includes coerced feminization: male to female transformation scenes as a sissy, bimbo / slut, or submissive woman.
    MILF fantasies where the caller is transported back to being a young man with an older woman
    Bi sexual exploration or submission to a Dominant man
    Fantasy cocksucking without any fears of safety, health or other issues.
    All the various versions of cuckold fantasies
    Public humiliation (that’s a no no for consent and safety reasons)
    Exhibitionist and/or voyeur fantasies
    Cum eating that is hot only before someone has cum to eat

    Some of the behind the scenes conversation will give you insight into how we each bring our creativity to our erotic roleplay scenes.

    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
    Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
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    30 mins
  • Feminization: Building sissy confidence

    Feminization: Building sissy confidence
    Jan 27 2025
    We get lots of questions about feminization.

    A question that is on the minds of many a crossdresser, sissy or transwoman is about self-confidence in appearance. We get it. Your physical appearance is very important but it’s your mind and heart that will end up having the most influence over your experience of being feminized.

    In this episode, you’ll hear personal stories from the Femdom hosts about building confidence, self-acceptance, and resisting the urge to compare yourself to others.

    What do you do when your reality doesn’t live up to the fantasy?That’s a common question for many kinky people and it’s especially true for those exploring feminization.Don’t worry! We’ve got you covered (pun intended).

    Like always, along with the sexy stories, you’ll get practical tips, advice and instructions to reinforce your sissy training.

    Remember, confidence is the sexiest attribute you can have — well that and some really cute panties.
    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
    Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
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    30 mins
  • Sissy discipline: Do you need strict feminization training?

    Sissy discipline: Do you need strict feminization training?
    Jan 20 2025
    Are you a naughty sissy? Maybe you’re simply someone who needs a firm hand with your feminization training. Perhaps you are someone who is new to sissification and curious about what might be involved. This episode is all about using BDSM protocols, pain, and firm control for sissy training.

    What is petticoat discipline?
    Petticoating and its origin in Victorian England (TLDR those people were very kinky!)
    Discipline can be used for behavior modification, correction, and more.
    Maintenance spanking to ensure submission and obedience.

    Mistress Erika points out that the training might not involve any form of physical pain - it can be things like:
    Erotic humiliation which we call pain for the brain
    BDSM high protocol used to reinforce roles of power exchange
    Feminization as part of a FLR - Female Led Relationships
    How a Femdom Mistress can use tasks and rewards to reinforce feminization goals

    The hosts give specific scene examples that call for:
    Locking clothing and shoes
    CBT: ball slapping, etc.
    Chastity

    Have you ever thought about how many ways there are to train a sissy?
    We have (as you can tell) - now we want to hear from you!
    Do you need a firm hand? Let us know.
    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
    Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
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    31 mins
  • Are you searching for an online Mistress?

    Are you searching for an online Mistress?
    Jan 13 2025
    What do you do when you have kink desires and you can’t get involved in the kink community or go, in person, to a Pro Domme?

    For many people, the solution is finding an online Mistress or someone who specializes in online domination.

    The ladies first talk about different places where someone might find a Femdom.
    Unless you happen to ‘run across’ a Dominant Woman in the wild, so to speak, we tend to be in the kink community, Pro Domme spaces, or available for online Domination. Those categories are not mutually exclusive; many ladies belong to more than one group.

    What are some of the benefits of having an online Mistress? Your hosts are both with LDW Group femdom phone sex so our experience is only with this elite company.

    This episode talks about some of the unique benefits of what we do:
    Privacy
    The caller controls his or her anonymity by choosing what to share.
    That anonymity allows for a discrete exploration of erotic fantasies
    Playing with a professional means an affair gone wrong won’t blow up your life
    Spur of the moment sessions
    Keeping the various aspects of your life separate

    Mistress Erika mentions a pet peeve of hers and Ms Olivia agrees!
    Listen to behind the scenes stories and learn about phone sex reviews, Mistress recommendations and more.

    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
    Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

    Mistress recommendation form: My Perfect Mistress
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    39 mins
  • What kind of sissy porn star do you want to be?

    What kind of sissy porn star do you want to be?
    Jan 6 2025
    This episode is inspired by several sissy sluts who have a fantasy about being a porn star. That is the perfect career for a sissy slut, isn’t it? LOL

    The Femdom hosts talk about transwomen who are porn stars right now. Do you have a favorite trans porn star? We do and you’ll hear some of our top picks who are in the adult entertainment business right now.

    The ladies talk about a sissy gurl they know who is exploring this as part of her sissy training and feminization.

    What are some of the possible roleplay options for a sissy:
    The sexy girlfriend with a special something extra
    The submissive sissy
    The slutty bimbo - which often involves humiliation and emasculation
    Anything that includes a sissy maid - what kind of clean up will happen?
    The cuckold husband turned into a sissySPH - small penis humiliation and/or chastity
    The role of BBC in sissy porn
    Cum eating and CEI to train a sissy to love to eat cum

    What kind of script or scene would you want to be in? Hmmmmm?
    Let us know!
    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
    Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
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    32 mins
  • Welcome to a kinky New Year: Femdom version

    Welcome to a kinky New Year: Femdom version
    Dec 30 2024
    We’re posting this just before the New Year because we want to give you a chance to hear our kinky New Year’s ideas before you finalize your goals list. LOL We’re so helpful.

    Right at the top, the conversation veers into an odd kink goal for Mistress Olivia.

    Mistress Erika has a New Year’s goal of getting a specific kind of submissive pet. Could you be the one? You might hear about the goal for Ms. Erika’s ignore pet - or you might just hear the sounds of silence that thrill someone with an ignore fetish.

    Speaking of requests, Ms Olivia wants to do a sex train in 2025 using a universal remote control app. This goal should go nicely with another goal: A submissive sissy who wants to be a porn star!

    As always, this is a conversation between Femdoms about BDSM, kink, life and love.So …. Join in!
    What things do YOU want to explore in the New Year?

    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
    Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
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    28 mins