Episodes

  • Official Property or Parenting Orders. Do You Really Need Them?

    Official Property or Parenting Orders. Do You Really Need Them?
    Jan 28 2025
    Do you really need to formalize your property or parenting agreement when going through divorce or separation? What if you are amicable? Or you both just agree anyway. What's the point in having a formal order? What if you just don’t have any property and so you feel there isn’t any point in getting official property orders. What if you are worried if you push for property or parenting orders it will make your ex more angry? What if you are terrified of going to court? In this episode,we break down the most common reasons we hear people telling us why they don’t want to get official formal orders and explain the considerations these people may need to make. Whether you're amicable, high conflict, or dealing with a narcissistic or avoidant ex or feeling overwhelmed, or unsure about the legal process, this episode clears up some common myths and confusion and equips you with the knowledge to help you make informed decisions for your future. From financial security to protecting your children's stability. Disclaimer: This podcast provides general education and is not a substitute for independent legal advice. Always consult a qualified lawyer for guidance tailored to your situation. Listen to This Episode If You: 🏠 Are considering whether to formalize your property or parenting arrangements. 💡 Want to understand the benefits of formal orders for financial security and children's stability. 📚What to know the difference between a parenting plan and a consent order ❓ Are unsure about the process of consent orders and whether lawyers need to be involved. 🛡 Feel hesitant about escalating conflict or upsetting your ex by pursuing formal orders. 📚 Need reassurance about the steps involved in protecting your legal rights post-separation. Disclaimer: This podcast provides general legal education and is not a substitute for independent legal advice. Always consult a qualified lawyer for guidance tailored to your situation. Key Topics Discussed in This Episode: What Are Property and Parenting Orders? Differences between informal agreements, parenting plans, and formal court orders. Are Formalizing agreements with consent orders crucial? Common Objections to Formal Orders: "We’ve already agreed; we don’t need anything formal." "It’s too expensive and time-consuming." "We’re amicable, so we’ll stick to our agreement." "I don’t want to escalate conflict or upset my ex." “I don’t want to go to court” Laura and Lyn address each objection and provide solutions. Risks of Avoiding Formal Orders: Examples of real-life cases, including the Farmer and Bramley case, where not finalizing property arrangements had disastrous consequences. How changes in circumstances (e.g., new partners, financial issues) can complicate informal agreements. The Role of Consent Orders: How consent orders work and why they don’t require going to court. The importance of having a clear, enforceable agreement for both property and parenting. Long-Term Benefits of Formal Orders: Financial protection against future claims. Reduced conflict through clear boundaries and responsibilities. Peace of mind knowing you’ve protected yourself and your family. 00:00 Introduction to Property and Parenting Orders 01:26 Understanding Parenting and Property Orders 03:22 The Importance of Formal Orders 09:19 Addressing Common Objections to getting official court orders in Divorce 18:34 Handling Conflict and Safety Concerns during divorce 23:34 Avoiding Court and Legal Advice during divorce 23:49 Understanding Consent Orders for your divorce 24:05 The Role of the Registrar in the Family Court of Australia 24:54 Avoiding Court Appearances during Divorce 25:06 Financial Agreements and Fairness in your property settlement 25:38 Parenting Plans and Children's Matters during your divorce 26:08 The Importance of Formal Orders in Family Law and Divorce 28:16 Dealing with Property and Financial Settlements in your Divorce 28:21 Family Lawyer Australia Webinar Invitation 28:53 Addressing Common Concerns during your divorce negotiations 32:42 The Risks of Delaying Formal Orders in your divorce 36:39 Legal Tips and Avoiding Pitfalls in your Divorce negotiations 43:28 Encouragement and Final Thoughts for going through divorce negotiations 47:14 Listener Reviews and Closing Remarks #DivorceHelp #PropertySettlement #ParentingOrders #DivorceSupport #SeparationEducation #FamilyLaw #HelpForDivorce #CoParentingTips #DivorceJourney #FinancialAbuseAwareness #DivorcePlanning #ProtectYourAssets #ParentingAfterDivorce #DivorceAndProperty #SeparationTips Links & Resources Mentioned in the Episode: Related Episodes: When Amicable Goes Wrong https://youtu.be/-qpS1hsxJ0s?si=FuwXba5pdSABjxS_ Documenting Coercive Control https://youtu.be/SIyXCGXH5nw?si=tLl7zfkObmykhV4U Weapons of Tax Destruction with Pedro Marin https://youtu.be/tsDlMphLRWk?si=YNlQI1wa9PE28XoP Divorce Limbo https://youtu.be/RLEmGeZRvb0?si=...
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    49 mins
  • Separation Survival: 9 Tips for Navigating Shared Living Arrangements

    Separation Survival: 9 Tips for Navigating Shared Living Arrangements
    Jan 21 2025
    In this episode we discuss the emotional, legal, and logistical hurdles of coexisting with your ex-partner whilst waiting for property settlement. We share practical strategies for setting boundaries, sorting money, protecting your safety, and planning for the next steps in your separation. Whether you’re navigating this situation temporarily or for the foreseeable future, this episode provides actionable insights to help you survive—and hopefully also thrive. Disclaimer: This podcast provides general legal education and is not a substitute for independent legal advice. Always consult a qualified lawyer for guidance tailored to your situation. Listen to This Episode If You: 🏠 Are living with your ex-partner post-separation. ❓ Need guidance on setting emotional and physical boundaries in the shared space. 💡 Want tips on co-parenting and managing household finances in the short term. 🛡 Are worried about coercive control or financial abuse. 📚 Are preparing for the next steps in your separation or divorce journey. Key Topics Discussed in This Episode: Setting Boundaries: How to create physical and emotional space in a shared home. Tips for minimizing conflict and maintaining privacy. Legal Considerations: Can your ex legally force you out of the home? When family violence orders may apply and what to do if you feel unsafe. Communication Strategies: Managing discussions to avoid unnecessary conflict. Protecting yourself by communicating like a judge is watching. Financial Management: Dividing household expenses fairly and preparing for financial independence. Understanding spousal maintenance and consent orders during separation. Co-Parenting While Living Together: Creating a parenting schedule to avoid misunderstandings. Protecting your time with your kids from manipulative behaviors. Emotional and Practical Self-Care: Building routines to maintain mental well-being. Seeking support from friends, professionals, or community groups. Preparing for the Next Steps: Documenting assets and financial information. Consulting a lawyer a safety plan for the future. Safety Considerations: Recognizing signs of coercive control and financial abuse. Creating and implementing a safety plan if the situation becomes unsafe. Links & Resources Mentioned: Separation Under One Roof Do’s and Don’ts Does Family Violence Affect Property Settlement? Episode: Income, Expenses, and Property Settlement Tips Mortgages and Divorce Episode: Recognizing Coercive Control in Relationships Free Resources: Checklist for Before You Leave - www.thedivorcecourse.com.au Word Salad Checklist Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE: Call 1800 811 811 LEGAL AID: Visit Legal Aid Lifeline: Call 13 11 14 for 24/7 crisis support and counseling. Mensline Australia: Call 1300 789 978 for confidential support for men. Kids Help Line: Call 1800 551 800 for young people needing help. National Domestic Violence Hotline (1800 RESPECT): Call 1800 737 732 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123 DV Connect Women’s Line: 1800 811 811 National DV Hotline (1800 RESPECT): 1800 737 732 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 00:43 Legal Disclaimer and Jingle 01:44 Living Under One Roof: Challenges and Boundaries 03:32 Physical and Emotional Safety in Divorce 05:33 Communication and Legal Precautions during separation 07:39 Financial Manipulation and Consent Orders in Divorce 09:35 Spousal Maintenance and Financial Independence after separation 16:05 Co-Parenting Strategies during separation 19:26 Managing Finances During Separation 26:16 Navigating Separation Under One Roof 26:41 Handling Financial Responsibilities during divorce 28:04 Dealing with Conflict and Court Warnings in Divorce 33:42 Prioritizing Self-Care and New Routines during divorce 36:05 Preparing for Property Settlement and Children's Matters 42:43 Safety Considerations and Creating a Safety Plan for Divorce 47:56 Final Thoughts and Encouragement Final Thoughts: This episode offers both practical and emotional tips for anyone facing the challenge of living under one roof with their ex. Learn how to set boundaries, protect yourself, and plan for your future. You’re not alone—help and support are available to guide you through this difficult time. Disclaimer: This podcast provides general legal education and is not a substitute for independent legal advice. Always consult a qualified lawyer for guidance tailored to your situation.
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    52 mins
  • Divorce & Cars: Who Gets the Keys in the SHORT & LONG TERM?

    Divorce & Cars: Who Gets the Keys in the SHORT & LONG TERM?
    Jan 14 2025
    What happens to the car during a divorce in the short and long term? Laura and Lynette a Family Law Specialist breaks down the practical and legal considerations for handling your cars during separation in the short term and in property settlement for the long term. From ensuring your safety to avoiding dirty tricks, they offer tips and education to help you stay in control of this often-overlooked asset and issue. Disclaimer: This podcast provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for independent legal advice. Always consult a qualified lawyer for guidance tailored to your situation. Listen to This Episode If You: 💡 Need strategies to protect your car from manipulative tactics. 🚗 Are unsure how cars are treated in property settlements in Australia. ❓ Have questions about ownership vs. registration during a divorce. 🛡 Are navigating financial issues like loans, debts, and repossession. 📚 Are dealing with a high-conflict ex who’s using your car as leverage. Key Topics Discussed: Ownership vs. Registration Does the name on the registration determine ownership? How the Family Court views cars as part of the property pool Practical Tips for Temporary Arrangements Sharing car use before final orders. Handling registration, insurance, and repair costs during separation. Safety Measures Securing spare keys and checking for tracking devices. Protecting toll account privacy and monitoring unusual activity. Dirty Tricks and How to Handle Them Preventing your ex from reporting the car as stolen. Safeguarding against unpaid loans, canceled insurance, or unauthorized sales. Property Settlement and Cars How cars are valued and treated in the division of assets. What happens with leased or inherited vehicles. Long-Term Decisions Deciding whether to keep, sell, or downgrade your car post-settlement. Using cars as leverage in negotiations and mediation. Emotional and Legal Considerations Coping with the emotional impact of losing a car. Documenting the car’s condition to protect yourself legally. Links & Resources Mentioned: Episode: Untangling Property Settlement Valueshttps://open.spotify.com/episode/6TsVIfGubFR8lCP7Za9fJL?si=7nqAgGSORRarcVo1cyfMkA Episode: Untangling your Finances Property Settlement https://open.spotify.com/episode/1kzPgQeof2iUXhRBivXxOR?si=89dNLNQEQvWPTaVjidN7Bg 19.54 Episode: Income, Expenditures, and Shared Expenses in Divorce https://youtu.be/6i6EA_92_8U?si=dg7o2sTsdP6KGev- 5:54 time slot Episode Balancing the unbalanced https://open.spotify.com/episode/1YbIll7Ti69WGd9OpbmjDb?si=HRNnqhH5R22RJOiQn7b3rg 6:57 Episode: Coercive Control putting your experience in writing https://open.spotify.com/episode/6Ci0M4DqznBf1L1kcZM3vY?si=NHbWlHLaSrunzk2G2xwZ-w 10,01 I really want to keep the house https://open.spotify.com/episode/6TzW9skKgvO8fjm0gcFPRg?si=9r4e9ar6Rl6QMTCmLKAd0Q 34.57 Tools to Protect Yourself: ARC App - https://www.arc-app.org.au/resources Empower You App PPSR - https://www.ppsr.gov.au/registering/decide-if-you-should-register-ppsr/why-register-ppsr Free Resources: Word Salad Checklist https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/wordsaladchecklist Mediation Checklist Before You Go Checklist Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE: Call 1800 811 811 LEGAL AID: Visit Legal Aid Lifeline: Call 13 11 14 for 24/7 crisis support and counseling. Mensline Australia: Call 1300 789 978 for confidential support for men. Kids Help Line: Call 1800 551 800 for young people needing help. National Domestic Violence Hotline (1800 RESPECT): Call 1800 737 732 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123 DV Connect Women’s Line: 1800 811 811 National DV Hotline (1800 RESPECT): 1800 737 732 Disclaimer: This podcast provides general legal education and is not a substitute for independent legal advice. Always consult a qualified lawyer for guidance tailored to your situation. 00:00 Introduction: Navigating Car Issues in Divorce & De Facto Separation 01:41 Ownership vs. Registration: What You Need to Know 03:22 Temporary Arrangements: Practical Tips 05:19 Safety Concerns: Protecting Yourself and Your Car 08:20 Financial Manipulation: Recognizing Dirty Tricks 18:31 Legal Considerations: Court's Role in Car Settlements 21:36 Final Thoughts and Resources 22:46 Court Orders and Vehicle Transfers 23:58 Handling Debts and Loans 25:26 Understanding Car Leases 28:43 Valuing Vehicles in Settlements 32:12 Protecting Yourself Legally and Emotionally 36:59 Final Thoughts and Advice #DivorceAndCars #DivorceTips #PropertySettlement #CoParentingChallenges #DivorceSupport #AssetDivision #HighConflictDivorce #FamilyLaw #DivorceStrategy #FinancialAbuse #CoerciveControl #DivorceCoaching #ProtectYourAssets #LegalHelp #DivorceJourney
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    40 mins
  • Dealing with Narcissistic Lies in Divorce, Mediation & Family Court: 7 Survival Tips

    Dealing with Narcissistic Lies in Divorce, Mediation & Family Court: 7 Survival Tips
    Jan 7 2025
    Are you dealing with a manipulative or narcissistic type ex during your divorce? Is your ex lying to everyone during your divorce? In this episode, Laura and Lynette use Brandolini's Law—the concept that it takes much more effort to refute lies than to create them—and explore how it applies to family law. With practical strategies and actionable tips, they unpack how to deal with false allegations, overwhelming legal tactics, and post-separation abuse. Whether you’re facing mediation, legal letters, or the courtroom, this episode is packed with strategies to help you stay organized, conserve energy, and protect your peace. Disclaimer: This podcast provides general legal education and is not a substitute for independent legal advice. Always consult a qualified lawyer for guidance tailored to your situation. Listen to This Episode If You: 🌟 Are dealing with a narcissistic or manipulative ex during divorce. ❓ Feel overwhelmed by false allegations or legal or post separation abuse. 💡 Want to learn strategies to document and disprove lies effectively. 🛡 Are struggling to conserve your energy and stay focused during legal battles. 📚 Need tools to manage post-separation abuse in mediation or court. Key Topics Discussed in This Episode: Understanding Brandolini’s Law: The principle that it takes significantly more effort to refute lies than to create them. How this applies to family law and dealing with false allegations. Steeling Yourself for Narcissistic Tactics: How to prepare mentally and emotionally for lies and manipulations. Why expecting the unexpected can give you the upper hand. Conserving Energy and Focus: Tips for using your time and resources wisely when faced with endless false claims. The importance of documenting everything from the start. Proving Credibility: Demonstrating that your ex is an unreliable witness. Why detailed documentation and evidence are critical for the court. Navigating Mediation and Court: Strategies for dealing with falsehoods in affidavits and mediation sessions. How to choose your battles based on the stage of your case. Self-Care During Legal Battles: Managing the emotional toll of post-separation abuse. Creating a safe space for yourself and your children. Links & Resources Mentioned: Free Resources: Word Salad Checklist https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/wordsaladchecklist Mediation Checklist Before You Go Checklist Recommended Episodes: Mind Over Manipulation: The Grey Rock Technique https://youtu.be/bXEV6LJPQR8?si=KdJ5xzP9tR1vea46 How to Read a Legal Letter Like a Lawyer https://youtu.be/4BebPATCgLc?si=3ID87tAoQXRb5KZ3 Navigating Post-Separation Abuse https://youtu.be/YALj5wsoe6k?si=2OW7tnlGWErAljap Court Conveyor Belt: What to Expect https://youtu.be/ZgK7ExIgOfk?si=4_yT8CHeZATSAOos Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE: Call 1800 811 811 LEGAL AID: Visit Legal Aid Lifeline: Call 13 11 14 for 24/7 crisis support and counseling. Mensline Australia: Call 1300 789 978 for confidential support for men. Kids Help Line: Call 1800 551 800 for young people needing help. National Domestic Violence Hotline (1800 RESPECT): Call 1800 737 732 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123 Final Thoughts: Navigating lies and manipulations during divorce is exhausting, but you don’t have to do it alone. With the right strategies and support, you can overcome these tactics and come out stronger. Remember, organization and preparation are your best tools. Take it one step at a time—you’ve got this. Disclaimer: This podcast provides general legal education and is not a substitute for independent legal advice. Always consult a qualified lawyer for guidance tailored to your situation. 00:00 Introduction to Brandolini's Law and Narcissism in Divorce 00:21 New Year Greetings and Divorce Realities 01:32 Understanding Brandolini's Law 02:50 Applying Brandolini's Law to Divorce & Family Court 04:16 Seven Tips for Handling Narcissistic Exes in Divorce 06:03 Using Your Energy Wisely in Family Court 08:40 Proving Lies and Managing Distractions in Mediation or Family Court 20:43 Interim Hearings and Final Trials & Affidavits in Divorce 27:31 Mediation Strategies with a Narcissist 32:48 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
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    40 mins
  • Separated for the Holidays? How to Manage Legal and Emotional Challenges

    Separated for the Holidays? How to Manage Legal and Emotional Challenges
    Dec 10 2024
    Listen to This Episode If You: 🎄 Are navigating the holiday season post-separation or divorce. ❓ Need guidance on legal deadlines and court closures during Christmas. 💡 Want tips for co-parenting and managing handovers with minimal stress. 🛡 Are concerned about manipulative or high-conflict behavior during the holidays. 🌟 Are looking for ideas to create new traditions and move forward emotionally. 🎄Trying to figure out how to manage Christmas under the same roof this year. Trigger warning: Domestic and Family Violence is discussed in this episode. Disclaimer: This podcast provides general legal education and is not a substitute for personalized legal advice. Always consult a qualified lawyer for guidance tailored to your circumstances. Separated for the Holidays? How to Manage Legal and Emotional Challenges The holiday season can be particularly challenging for those navigating separation or divorce. In this episode, we offer practical tips and emotional support for managing legal matters, co-parenting, and the unique pressures of this time of year. We discuss everything from court closures and legal deadlines to handling difficult exes and creating new traditions with your kids. Whether you’re under the same roof with your ex, facing your first holiday alone, or co-parenting through conflict, this episode provides strategies to help you cope and thrive. Key Topics Discussed: Legal Matters During the Holidays: Court closures in the Australian Family Court and deadlines during the Christmas and New Year period. What to consider doing if you receive unexpected legal documents from your ex. Emergency contacts for urgent legal applications. Making plans with your lawyer over the Christmas break. Co-Parenting Challenges: Managing Christmas handovers and shared custody arrangements. Shielding kids from parental conflict and ensuring their joy during the holidays. Tips for planning and communicating with your ex to reduce misunderstandings. Living Under One Roof: Strategies for surviving the holiday period with your ex in the same house. Emotional and practical tips to maintain peace for yourself and your children. Safety Planning: Recognizing heightened risks of family violence during the holidays. Developing a safety plan and resources for immediate help. Building New Traditions: Overcoming the emotional challenges of changing family dynamics. Ideas for creating meaningful and joyful new traditions with your kids. How to embrace "adult Christmas" and find happiness in new experiences. Self-Care and Support: Managing loneliness and isolation during the holidays. Connecting with friends, family, or community groups for support. Planning your day to stay busy and emotionally grounded. Final Thoughts: The holidays can be a difficult time, but with the right strategies and support, you can navigate them successfully. Whether you’re dealing with a challenging ex, managing legal deadlines, or starting new traditions, remember: this season is temporary, and brighter days lie ahead. Disclaimer: This podcast provides general legal education and is not a substitute for personalized legal advice. Always consult a qualified lawyer for guidance tailored to your circumstances. Happy holidays from all of us at the Divorce Course Podcast. ❤️ Links & Resources Mentioned: Episodes Mentioned in this The Do’s and Don’ts of being separated under one roof https://youtu.be/jdi4snqP_I4?si=6zmQS1XAYZPkm_gG Handover Hell: how to deal handover https://youtu.be/YphzOPZmC3k?si=YSOHinsBvaxvLlX5 Co Parenting & Navigating the School Holidays with the Four Divorce Personality Types / Ep. 79 https://youtu.be/vnUo5oEGQRo?si=sB49DNfdTYHPqGPo No No No to Ho Ho Ho Divorce During Christmas https://youtu.be/DoO7aNw9ja0?si=8lgyHLtPdsnimn91 10 essential boundaries in divorce https://youtu.be/5KSMYe6ctVE?si=yfH4diXg8GWBd6ba Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline: 13 11 14 Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line: 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police: 000 DVConnect Womensline: 1800 811 811 DV Connect Mensline: 1800 600 636 National DV line: 1800 737 732 (1800 RESPECT) Thank you for tuning in to this episode. We hope these strategies empower you to handle mediation with confidence and clarity. If you found this episode helpful, please rate, review, and subscribe. Every share helps others find support during difficult times. Stay strong—you’ve got this. Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is unique, so seek personalized legal advice tailored to your circumstances. 00:00 Introduction and Overview 01:30 Legal Matters During the Holidays 03:44 Challenges of Living Under One Roof 07:49 Co-Parenting and Custody Issues 18:02 Dealing with Manipulative ...
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    41 mins
  • Does Domestic Violence Impact Property Settlements? New Family Law Act Updates

    Does Domestic Violence Impact Property Settlements? New Family Law Act Updates
    Dec 3 2024
    Does Family Violence and Post Separation Abuse factor into Property Settlement? This is now answered in The Family Law Amendment Bill 2024 which introduces some of the most significant reforms in the Australia Family Court in decades, addressing key issues like financial abuse, property disputes, and the treatment of family violence in court. In this episode, We are going to break down the changes, and try to explain what they mean for you, and share practical tips on how to prepare if you're navigating the family court system. These updates aim to create a fairer, safer process for families in transition. Disclaimer: Always talk to your own lawyer before making any decisions or actions on your own case and situation. This discussion is general in nature and should not be considered legal advice. Listen to This Episode If You: 🌟 Are dealing with financial or economical abuse and want to understand how it’s recognized in the new laws. ❓ Are curious about how any type of family violence impacts property settlements. 🐾 Want to know how pets are treated in property settlements under the new reforms. 💡 Need to understand the regulatory changes to Children’s Contact Services. 🛡 Want to stay informed on how the latest family law changes could affect your case. Key Ideas Discussed in This Episode: Expanded Definition of Family Violence: Includes economic and financial abuse (e.g., controlling finances or withholding support). Courts will now explicitly consider these behaviors in property settlements. Family Violence and Contributions: Courts must evaluate how family violence impacts financial and non-financial contributions. Adjustments to property settlements may favor victims of abuse. Pets in Property Settlements: New provisions address disputes over companion animals, focusing on exclusive ownership or sale. Recognizes the role pets play in family dynamics and safety concerns. Children’s Contact Services (CCS): Establishes accreditation and compliance requirements for CCS providers. Introduces protections for sensitive safety information shared within CCS. Protected Confidences: Enhances safeguards for therapeutic notes and children’s statements, ensuring privacy in court proceedings. Links & Resources Mentioned in the Podcast: Supplementary explanatory memorandum Family Law Amendment Bill https://www.aph.gov.au/Parliamentary_Business/Bills_Legislation/bd/bd2425/25bd013 https://parlinfo.aph.gov.au/parlInfo/search/display/display.w3p;query=Id%3A%22legislation%2Fems%2Fr7234_ems_d9233ec7-832e-4627-88c2-6970f86eb262%22 ARC App https://download.arc-app.org.au/ Empower You App - https://www.police.nsw.gov.au/safety_and_prevention/policing_in_the_community/empower_you_app Episodes for More Information: Communicating Coercive Control in Your Affidavit https://open.spotify.com/episode/6Ci0M4DqznBf1L1kcZM3vY?si=wVsGQ4wcSViYDeBJZr8Puw Post-Separation Abuse: Strategies to Protect Yourself https://open.spotify.com/episode/1ccm01eMpJ3TMZa2uMaUMN?si=FvU_ux2ATBuiBL5IW2g8gQ Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE: Call 1800 811 811 LEGAL AID:https://www.legalaid.qld.gov.au/Home Access free or low-cost legal advice tailored to your situation. Lifeline: Call 13 11 14 for 24/7 crisis support and counseling. Mensline Australia: Call 1300 789 978 for confidential support tailored for men. Kids Help Line: Call 1800 551 800 for counseling services for children and young people. Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: Call 1800 019 123 for culturally sensitive support. Relationships Australia: Access resources and counseling for relationship and family issues. Emergency Services: Call 000 in an emergency for immediate assistance. DVConnect Womensline: Call 1800 811 811 for support, 24/7. DV Connect Mensline: Call 1800 600 636 for advice and assistance for men. National Domestic Violence Hotline: Call 1800 737 732 (1800 RESPECT) for 24/7 counseling and support. These resources are here to help you. Please don’t hesitate to reach out for support—you are not alone. Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general education for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is unique, so seek personalized legal advice tailored to your circumstances. 00:00 Introduction to Family Law Changes 01:09 Significant Changes in Family Law Act 03:35 Economic and Financial Abuse 06:48 Impact of Family Violence on Contributions 10:46 Wastage and Financial Misconduct 15:47 Pets and Family Law 19:12 Children Contact Centers 20:50 Accreditation and Safety in Contact Centers 22:01 Understanding Protected Confidences 25:15 Implications of New Legislation on Counseling 27:25 Property Reforms and Family Violence 31:26 Practical Steps for Ongoing Cases 36:32 Documenting Family Violence 38:44 Future Impacts and Final Thoughts
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    41 mins
  • Mediation or Manipulation: How to Handle Divorce Mediation When Settlement Isn’t their Goal

    Mediation or Manipulation: How to Handle Divorce Mediation When Settlement Isn’t their Goal
    Nov 26 2024
    Mediation is meant to be a pathway to resolution, but what happens when one party has no intention of settling? In this episode we explore the troubles and solutions of mediation, offering practical tips on how to navigate manipulative tactics and protect your mental health. Whether it’s property or parenting arrangements, this is an informative guide on what you can potentially expect before, during, and after mediation to stay one step ahead. If you’ve ever worried about being stuck in a mediation that feels like a game rather than a genuine effort to resolve issues, this episode is for you. Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is unique, so seek personalised legal advice tailored to your circumstances. Listen to This Episode If You: 🌟 Want to prepare for an upcoming mediation session. ❓ Are unsure how to handle a manipulative ex during mediation. 💡 Need strategies to make mediation as productive as possible. 🛡 Are concerned about wasting time and money in mediation. 📚 Want tips to protect your legal and emotional boundaries. Key Ideas Discussed in This Episode: The Purpose of Mediation: Understanding its role in the divorce process and when it works best. Manipulative Tactics to Watch For: Recognising red flags during mediation. Preparation Tips: How to gather evidence and set boundaries before mediation. Strategies During Mediation: Getting small wins, staying focused, and not falling into traps. Post-Mediation Steps: Following up with offers and using mediation outcomes in court, even if no agreement is reached. Common Pitfalls: “Don’t be surprised if” scenarios, including last-minute walkouts and wild demands. Emotional Management: How to stay calm and avoid frustration when things don’t go as planned. Links & Resources Mentioned: Course Enrolment: Join our Divorce Blueprint Course www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/enrol before the deadline to get personalised guidance, legal education, and emotional support from Laura and Lynette. Platinum spots are limited—sign up now to secure your place. 4VOICES https://www.4voices.org.au/ Christmas Appeal https://4voiceschristmasappeal.raiselysite.com/ Episodes Mentioned in this 8 Ways to Protect yourself from DARVO and your Narcissistic Ex during Family Court https://youtu.be/pRMOfozwBKs?si=tDmJwHO3ch-uYhTg Mediation and negotiation tips for divorcing an ex with narcissistic behaviors / Ep. 99 https://youtu.be/JYqqDyWa5ns?si=k7G6OfpMwPP1Hqgg Costs, Family Court and Calderbank Offers / Ep. 65 https://youtu.be/0OKhDB8s3As?si=54omWq46LHn_Eb6R Do I really need a lawyer for divorce mediation or family dispute resolution? https://youtu.be/GB2lJftxdh4?si=BgdkYJrQTeokTlSK Master Your Divorce Negotiations: The Iron Fist Within the Velvet Glove Technique / Ep. 109 https://youtu.be/JSYc-yun-jM?si=VCefzLZb-ie-f1m9 Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline: 13 11 14 Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line: 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police: 000 DVConnect Womensline: 1800 811 811 DV Connect Mensline: 1800 600 636 National DV line: 1800 737 732 (1800 RESPECT) Thank you for tuning in to this episode. We hope these strategies empower you to handle mediation with confidence and clarity. If you found this episode helpful, please rate, review, and subscribe. Every share helps others find support during difficult times. Stay strong—you’ve got this. Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is unique, so seek personalized legal advice tailored to your circumstances. 00:00 Introduction and Overview 01:06 The Importance of Mediation in Divorce 02:23 Recognising Manipulative Tactics during divorce 03:53 Pre-Mediation Strategies for mediating with a narcissist or manipulative type 06:23 During Mediation: What to Expect 10:08 What can you do Post-Mediation 20:23 Making the Most of a Failed Mediation 25:41 What about Unrealistic Demands in Mediation 26:34 Preparing for Mediation Roadblocks 28:51 Handling Unexpected Settlement Outcomes 30:23 How to Deal with Manipulative Tactics 36:55 The Importance of Legal Representation 38:56 Lowering Expectations and Emotional Preparation for Mediation 43:41 Final Thoughts and Additional Resources #familycourt #familylaw #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #divorcinganarcissist #divorcesettlement #divorceplanning #familylawattorney #divorcesupport #mediation #divorcelawyer #divorcepodcast #childsupport #custodybattle
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    47 mins
  • Separation to Settlement: The Essential Steps from Start to Finish

    Separation to Settlement: The Essential Steps from Start to Finish
    Nov 18 2024

    Facing the journey from separation to settlement can feel overwhelming and uncertain, but you’re not alone. In this episode, Laura and Lynette take you through the seven essential stages of the divorce process, from making the initial decision to separate, all the way to moving forward after your settlement. They share practical tips, emotional insights, and legal education to help you make empowered choices at every step. Whether you're at the beginning of this journey or somewhere in the middle, this episode offers a roadmap to guide you through.

    Listen to This Episode If You:

    • 🌟 Are just starting your divorce journey and don’t know what comes next.

    • ❓ Need help understanding the steps from separation to settlement.

    • 💡 Want tips on managing property settlements, parenting plans, and legal agreements.

    • 🛡 Are facing challenges with a high-conflict or manipulative ex.

    • 📚 Want to learn how to move forward emotionally and financially after the settlement is done.

    Key Ideas Discussed in This Episode:

    1. Deciding to Separate: Understanding the importance of making the decision and how to document it for legal purposes.

    2. Living Under One Roof: Strategies for managing separation when you’re still sharing a home due to financial or housing constraints.

    3. Understanding Your Legal Rights: Why seeking legal education or advice early is critical to protect yourself.

    4. Property and Financial Settlements: The steps involved in dividing assets, debts, and managing disclosure obligations.

    5. Parenting Plans and Agreements: How to create effective parenting arrangements that prioritise the best interests of your children.

    6. Finalising Legal Documents: What you need to know about consent orders, mediation, and navigating the court system if necessary.

    7. Moving Forward After Divorce: Tips for reclaiming your independence, managing finances, and building a new life.

    RESOURCES

    • Course Enrolment:

      • Join our Divorce Blueprint Course www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/enrol before the deadline to get personalised guidance, legal education, and emotional support from Laura and Lynette. Platinum spots are limited—sign up now to secure your place.



    Emergency Contacts:

    • LEGAL AID https://www.legalaid.qld.gov.au/

    • Lifeline: 13 11 14

    • Kids Help Line: 1800 551 800

    • Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123

    • Relationships Australia 1300 364 277

    • Police: 000

    • DVConnect Womensline: 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week)

    • DV Connect Mensline: 1800 600 636

    • National DV line: 1800 737 732 (1800 RESPECT)

    • Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978

    Thank you for tuning in to this episode. We hope it gives you clarity and confidence to take the next steps in your journey. Don’t forget to check out our course for step-by-step guidance and support through every stage of your divorce. If you found this episode helpful, please rate, review, and subscribe. Stay strong, and remember—you’ve got this.

    Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is unique, and it’s important to seek independent legal advice tailored to your circumstances.

    00:00 Introduction to the 7 Steps from Separation to Settlement

    01:34 How to Make the Decision to Separate

    03:36 Can you Be Separated Under One Roof in Divorce

    06:51 How to find out Your Legal Rights and Obligations in Divorce

    10:46 How to Divide Assets, Property, and Debt in Divorce

    14:44 How to Create Parenting Plans and Arrangements

    19:24 How to Navigate Legal Paperwork and Mediation in Divorce

    20:57 How to learn about Divorce Applications and Time Limits

    22:35 How to avoid the Emotional Rollercoaster of Divorce

    23:48 How to get Empowerment Through Knowledge and Support in Divorce

    27:28 How to Move Forward After Divorce

    33:29 How to Join Our Supportive Divorce Community
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