The Divorce Course Podcast

By: Laura & Lyn
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  • This Mother and Daughter duo discuss and cover the legal stages and steps that you will face on your way to freedom through divorce. These are practical and real discussions with Lyn Galvin a family lawyer of 35 years experience and her daughter Laura a divorced mother of three. Laura helps turn her mother's lawyer jargon into something everyone will understand. Lyn shares all her tips and practical advice on separating. Through this podcast they aim to help you through your Australian divorce or de-facto separation to make it more cost effective and less stressful. instagram @thedivorcecourse
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  • Official Property or Parenting Orders. Do You Really Need Them?

    Official Property or Parenting Orders. Do You Really Need Them?
    Jan 28 2025
    Do you really need to formalize your property or parenting agreement when going through divorce or separation? What if you are amicable? Or you both just agree anyway. What's the point in having a formal order? What if you just don’t have any property and so you feel there isn’t any point in getting official property orders. What if you are worried if you push for property or parenting orders it will make your ex more angry? What if you are terrified of going to court? In this episode,we break down the most common reasons we hear people telling us why they don’t want to get official formal orders and explain the considerations these people may need to make. Whether you're amicable, high conflict, or dealing with a narcissistic or avoidant ex or feeling overwhelmed, or unsure about the legal process, this episode clears up some common myths and confusion and equips you with the knowledge to help you make informed decisions for your future. From financial security to protecting your children's stability. Disclaimer: This podcast provides general education and is not a substitute for independent legal advice. Always consult a qualified lawyer for guidance tailored to your situation. Listen to This Episode If You: 🏠 Are considering whether to formalize your property or parenting arrangements. 💡 Want to understand the benefits of formal orders for financial security and children's stability. 📚What to know the difference between a parenting plan and a consent order ❓ Are unsure about the process of consent orders and whether lawyers need to be involved. 🛡 Feel hesitant about escalating conflict or upsetting your ex by pursuing formal orders. 📚 Need reassurance about the steps involved in protecting your legal rights post-separation. Disclaimer: This podcast provides general legal education and is not a substitute for independent legal advice. Always consult a qualified lawyer for guidance tailored to your situation. Key Topics Discussed in This Episode: What Are Property and Parenting Orders? Differences between informal agreements, parenting plans, and formal court orders. Are Formalizing agreements with consent orders crucial? Common Objections to Formal Orders: "We’ve already agreed; we don’t need anything formal." "It’s too expensive and time-consuming." "We’re amicable, so we’ll stick to our agreement." "I don’t want to escalate conflict or upset my ex." “I don’t want to go to court” Laura and Lyn address each objection and provide solutions. Risks of Avoiding Formal Orders: Examples of real-life cases, including the Farmer and Bramley case, where not finalizing property arrangements had disastrous consequences. How changes in circumstances (e.g., new partners, financial issues) can complicate informal agreements. The Role of Consent Orders: How consent orders work and why they don’t require going to court. The importance of having a clear, enforceable agreement for both property and parenting. Long-Term Benefits of Formal Orders: Financial protection against future claims. Reduced conflict through clear boundaries and responsibilities. Peace of mind knowing you’ve protected yourself and your family. 00:00 Introduction to Property and Parenting Orders 01:26 Understanding Parenting and Property Orders 03:22 The Importance of Formal Orders 09:19 Addressing Common Objections to getting official court orders in Divorce 18:34 Handling Conflict and Safety Concerns during divorce 23:34 Avoiding Court and Legal Advice during divorce 23:49 Understanding Consent Orders for your divorce 24:05 The Role of the Registrar in the Family Court of Australia 24:54 Avoiding Court Appearances during Divorce 25:06 Financial Agreements and Fairness in your property settlement 25:38 Parenting Plans and Children's Matters during your divorce 26:08 The Importance of Formal Orders in Family Law and Divorce 28:16 Dealing with Property and Financial Settlements in your Divorce 28:21 Family Lawyer Australia Webinar Invitation 28:53 Addressing Common Concerns during your divorce negotiations 32:42 The Risks of Delaying Formal Orders in your divorce 36:39 Legal Tips and Avoiding Pitfalls in your Divorce negotiations 43:28 Encouragement and Final Thoughts for going through divorce negotiations 47:14 Listener Reviews and Closing Remarks #DivorceHelp #PropertySettlement #ParentingOrders #DivorceSupport #SeparationEducation #FamilyLaw #HelpForDivorce #CoParentingTips #DivorceJourney #FinancialAbuseAwareness #DivorcePlanning #ProtectYourAssets #ParentingAfterDivorce #DivorceAndProperty #SeparationTips Links & Resources Mentioned in the Episode: Related Episodes: When Amicable Goes Wrong https://youtu.be/-qpS1hsxJ0s?si=FuwXba5pdSABjxS_ Documenting Coercive Control https://youtu.be/SIyXCGXH5nw?si=tLl7zfkObmykhV4U Weapons of Tax Destruction with Pedro Marin https://youtu.be/tsDlMphLRWk?si=YNlQI1wa9PE28XoP Divorce Limbo https://youtu.be/RLEmGeZRvb0?si=...
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    49 mins
  • Separation Survival: 9 Tips for Navigating Shared Living Arrangements

    Separation Survival: 9 Tips for Navigating Shared Living Arrangements
    Jan 21 2025
    In this episode we discuss the emotional, legal, and logistical hurdles of coexisting with your ex-partner whilst waiting for property settlement. We share practical strategies for setting boundaries, sorting money, protecting your safety, and planning for the next steps in your separation. Whether you’re navigating this situation temporarily or for the foreseeable future, this episode provides actionable insights to help you survive—and hopefully also thrive. Disclaimer: This podcast provides general legal education and is not a substitute for independent legal advice. Always consult a qualified lawyer for guidance tailored to your situation. Listen to This Episode If You: 🏠 Are living with your ex-partner post-separation. ❓ Need guidance on setting emotional and physical boundaries in the shared space. 💡 Want tips on co-parenting and managing household finances in the short term. 🛡 Are worried about coercive control or financial abuse. 📚 Are preparing for the next steps in your separation or divorce journey. Key Topics Discussed in This Episode: Setting Boundaries: How to create physical and emotional space in a shared home. Tips for minimizing conflict and maintaining privacy. Legal Considerations: Can your ex legally force you out of the home? When family violence orders may apply and what to do if you feel unsafe. Communication Strategies: Managing discussions to avoid unnecessary conflict. Protecting yourself by communicating like a judge is watching. Financial Management: Dividing household expenses fairly and preparing for financial independence. Understanding spousal maintenance and consent orders during separation. Co-Parenting While Living Together: Creating a parenting schedule to avoid misunderstandings. Protecting your time with your kids from manipulative behaviors. Emotional and Practical Self-Care: Building routines to maintain mental well-being. Seeking support from friends, professionals, or community groups. Preparing for the Next Steps: Documenting assets and financial information. Consulting a lawyer a safety plan for the future. Safety Considerations: Recognizing signs of coercive control and financial abuse. Creating and implementing a safety plan if the situation becomes unsafe. Links & Resources Mentioned: Separation Under One Roof Do’s and Don’ts Does Family Violence Affect Property Settlement? Episode: Income, Expenses, and Property Settlement Tips Mortgages and Divorce Episode: Recognizing Coercive Control in Relationships Free Resources: Checklist for Before You Leave - www.thedivorcecourse.com.au Word Salad Checklist Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE: Call 1800 811 811 LEGAL AID: Visit Legal Aid Lifeline: Call 13 11 14 for 24/7 crisis support and counseling. Mensline Australia: Call 1300 789 978 for confidential support for men. Kids Help Line: Call 1800 551 800 for young people needing help. National Domestic Violence Hotline (1800 RESPECT): Call 1800 737 732 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123 DV Connect Women’s Line: 1800 811 811 National DV Hotline (1800 RESPECT): 1800 737 732 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 00:43 Legal Disclaimer and Jingle 01:44 Living Under One Roof: Challenges and Boundaries 03:32 Physical and Emotional Safety in Divorce 05:33 Communication and Legal Precautions during separation 07:39 Financial Manipulation and Consent Orders in Divorce 09:35 Spousal Maintenance and Financial Independence after separation 16:05 Co-Parenting Strategies during separation 19:26 Managing Finances During Separation 26:16 Navigating Separation Under One Roof 26:41 Handling Financial Responsibilities during divorce 28:04 Dealing with Conflict and Court Warnings in Divorce 33:42 Prioritizing Self-Care and New Routines during divorce 36:05 Preparing for Property Settlement and Children's Matters 42:43 Safety Considerations and Creating a Safety Plan for Divorce 47:56 Final Thoughts and Encouragement Final Thoughts: This episode offers both practical and emotional tips for anyone facing the challenge of living under one roof with their ex. Learn how to set boundaries, protect yourself, and plan for your future. You’re not alone—help and support are available to guide you through this difficult time. Disclaimer: This podcast provides general legal education and is not a substitute for independent legal advice. Always consult a qualified lawyer for guidance tailored to your situation.
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    52 mins
  • Divorce & Cars: Who Gets the Keys in the SHORT & LONG TERM?

    Divorce & Cars: Who Gets the Keys in the SHORT & LONG TERM?
    Jan 14 2025
    What happens to the car during a divorce in the short and long term? Laura and Lynette a Family Law Specialist breaks down the practical and legal considerations for handling your cars during separation in the short term and in property settlement for the long term. From ensuring your safety to avoiding dirty tricks, they offer tips and education to help you stay in control of this often-overlooked asset and issue. Disclaimer: This podcast provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for independent legal advice. Always consult a qualified lawyer for guidance tailored to your situation. Listen to This Episode If You: 💡 Need strategies to protect your car from manipulative tactics. 🚗 Are unsure how cars are treated in property settlements in Australia. ❓ Have questions about ownership vs. registration during a divorce. 🛡 Are navigating financial issues like loans, debts, and repossession. 📚 Are dealing with a high-conflict ex who’s using your car as leverage. Key Topics Discussed: Ownership vs. Registration Does the name on the registration determine ownership? How the Family Court views cars as part of the property pool Practical Tips for Temporary Arrangements Sharing car use before final orders. Handling registration, insurance, and repair costs during separation. Safety Measures Securing spare keys and checking for tracking devices. Protecting toll account privacy and monitoring unusual activity. Dirty Tricks and How to Handle Them Preventing your ex from reporting the car as stolen. Safeguarding against unpaid loans, canceled insurance, or unauthorized sales. Property Settlement and Cars How cars are valued and treated in the division of assets. What happens with leased or inherited vehicles. Long-Term Decisions Deciding whether to keep, sell, or downgrade your car post-settlement. Using cars as leverage in negotiations and mediation. Emotional and Legal Considerations Coping with the emotional impact of losing a car. Documenting the car’s condition to protect yourself legally. Links & Resources Mentioned: Episode: Untangling Property Settlement Valueshttps://open.spotify.com/episode/6TsVIfGubFR8lCP7Za9fJL?si=7nqAgGSORRarcVo1cyfMkA Episode: Untangling your Finances Property Settlement https://open.spotify.com/episode/1kzPgQeof2iUXhRBivXxOR?si=89dNLNQEQvWPTaVjidN7Bg 19.54 Episode: Income, Expenditures, and Shared Expenses in Divorce https://youtu.be/6i6EA_92_8U?si=dg7o2sTsdP6KGev- 5:54 time slot Episode Balancing the unbalanced https://open.spotify.com/episode/1YbIll7Ti69WGd9OpbmjDb?si=HRNnqhH5R22RJOiQn7b3rg 6:57 Episode: Coercive Control putting your experience in writing https://open.spotify.com/episode/6Ci0M4DqznBf1L1kcZM3vY?si=NHbWlHLaSrunzk2G2xwZ-w 10,01 I really want to keep the house https://open.spotify.com/episode/6TzW9skKgvO8fjm0gcFPRg?si=9r4e9ar6Rl6QMTCmLKAd0Q 34.57 Tools to Protect Yourself: ARC App - https://www.arc-app.org.au/resources Empower You App PPSR - https://www.ppsr.gov.au/registering/decide-if-you-should-register-ppsr/why-register-ppsr Free Resources: Word Salad Checklist https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/wordsaladchecklist Mediation Checklist Before You Go Checklist Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE: Call 1800 811 811 LEGAL AID: Visit Legal Aid Lifeline: Call 13 11 14 for 24/7 crisis support and counseling. Mensline Australia: Call 1300 789 978 for confidential support for men. Kids Help Line: Call 1800 551 800 for young people needing help. National Domestic Violence Hotline (1800 RESPECT): Call 1800 737 732 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123 DV Connect Women’s Line: 1800 811 811 National DV Hotline (1800 RESPECT): 1800 737 732 Disclaimer: This podcast provides general legal education and is not a substitute for independent legal advice. Always consult a qualified lawyer for guidance tailored to your situation. 00:00 Introduction: Navigating Car Issues in Divorce & De Facto Separation 01:41 Ownership vs. Registration: What You Need to Know 03:22 Temporary Arrangements: Practical Tips 05:19 Safety Concerns: Protecting Yourself and Your Car 08:20 Financial Manipulation: Recognizing Dirty Tricks 18:31 Legal Considerations: Court's Role in Car Settlements 21:36 Final Thoughts and Resources 22:46 Court Orders and Vehicle Transfers 23:58 Handling Debts and Loans 25:26 Understanding Car Leases 28:43 Valuing Vehicles in Settlements 32:12 Protecting Yourself Legally and Emotionally 36:59 Final Thoughts and Advice #DivorceAndCars #DivorceTips #PropertySettlement #CoParentingChallenges #DivorceSupport #AssetDivision #HighConflictDivorce #FamilyLaw #DivorceStrategy #FinancialAbuse #CoerciveControl #DivorceCoaching #ProtectYourAssets #LegalHelp #DivorceJourney
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Thank you!!

Thank you so much for all your insights and knowledge!
In my 12th year of post sep abuse. I wish I had found you 10 years ago

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Clear information presented well.

This Mum and daughter team do a great job at supporting and educating their listeners in the hardest times if their life. I have genuinely appreciated the advice and information that has been shared in my own divorce and family breakdown journey. Thanks HEAPS Laura and Lyn

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