The Divorce Course Podcast

By: Laura & Lyn
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  • This Mother and Daughter duo discuss and cover the legal stages and steps that you will face on your way to freedom through divorce. These are practical and real discussions with Lyn Galvin a family lawyer of 35 years experience and her daughter Laura a divorced mother of three. Laura helps turn her mother's lawyer jargon into something everyone will understand. Lyn shares all her tips and practical advice on separating. Through this podcast they aim to help you through your Australian divorce or de-facto separation to make it more cost effective and less stressful. instagram @thedivorcecourse
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  • How Covert Narcissists Weaponise Divorce (And What You Can Do About It) Episode 186

    How Covert Narcissists Weaponise Divorce (And What You Can Do About It) Episode 186
    Feb 26 2025

    Have you just realized your ex might be a covert narcissist? Thought your separation was amicable,only to find yourself blindsided by manipulation and deceit? In this episode, we break down the six key signs of a covert narcissist during divorce, property settlement or coparenting. From playing the victim to using the legal system against you, we’ll help you spot the red flags and protect yourself.

    Listen to This Episode If You:

    ✅ Are going through a divorce or property settlement and feel like something is off.
    ❓ Want to understand the subtle tactics of a covert narcissist.
    💰 Need to protect your financial assets from manipulation.
    ⚖️ Are dealing with custody battles and want to safeguard your children.
    📜 Suspect your ex is using legal loopholes to control or deceive you.

    Legal Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. We are not psychologists or legal professionals, and the information shared is based on personal experiences and general knowledge. Every situation is unique, and laws vary by jurisdiction. If you are going through a divorce, custody dispute, or financial settlement, please seek independent legal advice from a qualified family law professional.

    Episode Breakdown:

    00:00 Introduction to Covert Narcissism in Divorce

    01:23 Understanding Covert Narcissists

    02:31 Recognizing the Victim Role

    05:24 Manipulation Tactics in Divorce

    13:26 Custody Battles and Child Manipulation

    17:53 Legal Manipulation and Delays

    20:03 Mediation Challenges with Narcissists

    22:33 Legal Advice and Second Opinions

    22:56 Mediation with a Covert Narcissist

    23:10 Document Everything

    23:49 Investigate Property Claims

    24:07 Handling Unreasonable Negotiations

    25:15 Free Resources for Mediation

    28:02 False Allegations and Manipulation

    35:37 Expecting Amicable Pretenses

    42:06 Final Thoughts and Advice

    Key Topics Discussed in This Episode:

    🔹 The Victim Role: How covert narcissists gain sympathy while making you feel like the problem.
    🔹 Financial Manipulation: Hidden assets, delaying tactics, and emotional blackmail.
    🔹 Custody Battles & Control: The sneaky ways they use your children against you.
    🔹 Legal Abuse & False Allegations: How they use the court system to exhaust and intimidate you.
    🔹 How to Protect Yourself: Strategies to recognize manipulation and safeguard your rights.

    Links & Resources Mentioned:

    🔗 Support Services

    • Lifeline – 13 11 14 (Australia)

    • 1-800-RESPECT – Domestic Violence Support

    🎙 Recommended Episodes:

    • The Narcissist Playbook in Divorce – Learn the tactics they use and how to counter them.https://youtu.be/OrRvd9XzuIg?si=KDYG1a0Fh8xXBn7q

    • 8 Ways to Protect Yourself from DARVO – Recognize and defend against manipulation.https://youtu.be/pRMOfozwBKs?si=54TMNNtK_H5r2QGj

    • Can You Mediate with a Narcissist? – Practical advice for handling negotiations. https://youtu.be/JYqqDyWa5ns?si=iY_J7pz-uA6ChOwc

    👉 If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might need this information.

    #DivorceSupport #CovertNarcissist #FamilyLaw #NarcissisticAbuse #Separation #LegalTips #CustodyBattles #PropertySettlement #ToxicRelationships #Manipulation #CourtOrders

    Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might need it!

    Legal Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. We are not psychologists or legal professionals, and the information shared is based on personal experiences and general knowledge. Every situation is unique, and laws vary by jurisdiction. If you are going through a divorce, custody dispute, or financial settlement, please seek independent legal advice from a qualified family law professional.
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    44 mins
  • Consent Order or BFA? & How to Make Sure Your Settlement Sticks

    Consent Order or BFA? & How to Make Sure Your Settlement Sticks
    Feb 19 2025

    Are you going through a divorce property settlement and unsure whether to choose a Consent Order or a Binding Financial Agreement (BFA)? In this episode, we break down what they are and the key differences between the two. We also discuss the pitfalls and risks to keep in mind when navigating this.

    Listen to This Episode If You:

    ✅ Are going through a separation and need to divide property fairly.
    ❓ Want to know whether a Consent Order or a Financial Agreement is the better choice.
    💰 Need to understand the costs involved in each option.
    ⚖️ Want to protect yourself from future financial claims.
    📜 Want to know if consent orders or bfa’s can be contested in court

    00:00 Introduction to Property Settlement

    00:57 Understanding Consent Orders

    01:32 Exploring Binding Financial Agreements (BFAs)

    02:14 Comparing Consent Orders and BFAs

    03:20 Legal Advice and Costs

    05:28 Risks of Not Having Legal Agreements

    12:41 Process of Getting Financial Agreements

    15:33 Process of Getting Consent Orders

    21:49 Common Pitfalls and How to Avoid Them

    22:15 Understanding Consent Orders and Financial Agreements

    22:46 The Risks of Non-Disclosure in Financial Agreements

    25:44 Signing Under Pressure: What You Need to Know

    27:55 The Importance of Proper Legal Advice

    30:49 Challenging and Enforcing Settlements

    35:49 Final Thoughts and Practical Advice

    40:48 Conclusion and Legal Disclaimer

    👉 If you found this episode helpful, don’t

    Key Topics Discussed in This Episode:

    🔹 Understanding Consent Orders

    • What is a Consent Order, and how does it work?

    • Why the Family Court reviews and approves these agreements.

    • The benefits of having a legally binding, court-approved settlement.

    🔹 What You Need to Know About Financial Agreements (BFAs)

    • Why they are no longer called Binding Financial Agreements.

    • How BFAs differ from Consent Orders and why they carry more risk.

    • The legal costs and technicalities involved in creating a Financial Agreement.

    🔹 Consent Orders vs. BFAs: Cost and Legal Requirements

    • How much does a Consent Order cost vs. a BFA?

    • Why BFAs require independent legal advice for both parties.

    • Can you challenge or overturn these agreements in court?

    🔹 Avoiding Common Pitfalls

    • Why informal agreements leave you legally unprotected.

    • The dangers of signing under pressure or coercion.

    • What happens if your ex doesn’t comply with the agreement?

    🔹 Finalizing Your Property Settlement

    • A walkthrough for getting a Consent Order approved.

    • When a BFA might be necessary and how to ensure it holds up in court.

    • Questions to ask before signing any financial settlement.

    Links & Resources Mentioned:

    🔗 Free Resources & Guides:

    • DIY Divorce Blueprint – Learn how to create your Consent Orders https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/enrol

    • Legal Aid Resources https://www.legalaid.qld.gov.au/Home

    🎙 Recommended Episodes:

    • Do I Really Need a Consent Order? https://youtu.be/AJrX8ovEEY8?si=LOAfESvxibj_-VYz

    • Protecting Yourself After Divorce: Financial & Legal Steps

    • Spousal Maintenance: Am I Eligible? https://youtu.be/lafPlHTSWp0?si=aCXWrOmWyJqZN4Bc

    Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might need it!

    Consent Orders or Binding Financial Agreements: How to Make Sure Your Settlement Sticks

    #FamilyLaw #DivorceSettlement #PropertySettlement #ConsentOrder #FinancialAgreement #BFAvsConsentOrder #LegalAdvice #Separation #DivorceSupport #FamilyCourt #Prenup #DivorceLaw #LegalTips #CoParenting #RelationshipBreakdown #CourtOrders
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    41 mins
  • Child Support Battles: What They Don’t Tell You & How to Fight Back

    Child Support Battles: What They Don’t Tell You & How to Fight Back
    Feb 11 2025
    Child Support Battles: What They Don’t Tell You & How to Fight Back Are you struggling with child support? Whether you’re battling a non-paying ex, dealing with inconsistent advice from child support agencies, or feeling overwhelmed by legal loopholes, you’re not alone. In this episode, Crystal Padooch, founder of Child Support Consultants, reveals the five critical things every parent should know about child support. With 14 years of experience, Crystal explains how the system really works, the common tactics some parents use to avoid paying, and what steps you can take to protect yourself and your children’s financial future. We also dive into the emotional side of child support, including the guilt many parents feel, the stress of dealing with financial abuse, and how to navigate the system without giving up. Disclaimer: This podcast provides general legal education and is not a substitute for independent legal advice. Always consult a qualified lawyer or child support consultant for guidance tailored to your situation. Listen to This Episode If You: ✅ Are struggling to get child support payments from your ex. ❓ Feel like you’re getting different answers from child support agencies and don’t know what to believe. 💡 Want to understand how child support assessments work and what your options are. 🛡 Are dealing with a financially abusive or manipulative ex who is trying to avoid paying. 📚 Need guidance on how to escalate complaints and fight back against unfair decisions. Key Topics Discussed in This Episode: 1️⃣ Understanding the Child Support Process The two main pathways: Child Support Agreements vs. Child Support Assessments How the child support formula works and what factors impact payments Why your ex’s reported income may not reflect their actual earnings 2️⃣ Dealing with Inconsistent Advice from Child Support Agencies Why different case officers give conflicting information The best way to escalate your case and get clear answers How to document calls and complaints to protect yourself 3️⃣ Let Go of Child Support Guilt Why seeking child support is NOT about you—it’s about your kids How child support ensures stability and financial security for your children Overcoming the stigma and online shaming around child support 4️⃣ How to Protect Yourself from Financial Abuse & Manipulation The common tactics used by coercive controllers and financial abusers What to do if your ex lowers their income or refuses to work to avoid payments Strategies to prove financial dishonesty and fight back 5️⃣ What to Do If Your Ex Refuses to Pay The enforcement actions child support agencies can take Why some loopholes allow people to dodge payments (and how they should be fixed!) Steps to take if you’re owed child support but not receiving anything Links & Resources Mentioned: 🔗 Child Support Consultants – Book a free clarity call with Crystal: https://childsupportconsultants.com.au/ 📚 Divorce Course Podcast – More episodes on navigating separation & co-parenting 📖 Government Child Support Information – https://www.servicesaustralia.gov.au/contact-child-support Emergency Contacts: 💜 Women’s Shelter Service: Call 1800 811 811 ⚖️ Legal Aid: [Visit Legal Aid Website] 📞 Lifeline (24/7 Crisis Support): Call 13 11 14 👨‍👦 Mensline Australia: Call 1300 789 978 for confidential support for men 👧 Kids Help Line: Call 1800 551 800 for young people needing help 🚨 National Domestic Violence Hotline (1800 RESPECT): Call 1800 737 732 🖤 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: Call 1800 019 123 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 01:48 Understanding the Child Support Process 04:58 Dealing with Inconsistencies in Child Support Calls 10:13 Addressing Child Support Guilt 14:32 Avoiding Comparisons with Others' Stories 16:49 Handling Financially Abusive Ex-Partners 20:42 Navigating the Child Support Process 21:30 The Emotional Toll of Child Support Battles 21:57 Advocating for the Child's Best Interest 22:50 Legal Abuse and Court Involvement 23:09 DIY Divorce Blueprint 26:54 Challenges in Child Support Collection 29:26 System Loopholes and Legislative Issues 37:31 Support for Domestic Violence Victims 38:54 Final Thoughts and Contact Information #ChildSupport #DivorceCoursePodcast #FamilyLaw #SingleParenting #CoParentingTips #FinancialAbuse #ChildSupportAwareness #ChildSupportHelp #DivorceSupport #CustodyBattle #CoParentingChallenges #ParentalRights #KnowYourRights #LegalHelp
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    41 mins

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Thank you!!

Thank you so much for all your insights and knowledge!
In my 12th year of post sep abuse. I wish I had found you 10 years ago

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Clear information presented well.

This Mum and daughter team do a great job at supporting and educating their listeners in the hardest times if their life. I have genuinely appreciated the advice and information that has been shared in my own divorce and family breakdown journey. Thanks HEAPS Laura and Lyn

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