Gratitude isn’t just for the easy, feel-good times in your marriage. In this episode, we discuss how to practice real thankfulness—especially when things feel tense, unresolved, or even painful—and some simple, down-to-earth ways to reframe complaints into thanks and spot those tiny moments of hope. If you and your spouse are feeling disconnected or just need a little perspective shift, you’ll find encouragement and super practical advice to help you rebuild, reconnect, and start seeing the good even when life gets messy.

Key Takeaways:

• Real vs. Superficial Gratitude:
  Gratitude is more than mere positivity or “Instagram thankfulness.” Find gratitude that heals.

• Why Gratitude Matters in Hard Seasons:
  Even when it feels like your relationship is "a dumpster fire,” you can intentionally seek out the little things worthy of appreciation.

• Complaints Reveal Needs:
  Instead of shaming negative feelings, complaints often signal unmet emotional needs.

• A Practical Reframing Exercise:
  A step-by-step practice to move from complaints to gratitude

Resources Mentioned in this Episode:

• Take the How Connected Are You? Partner Quiz

• Need marriage coaching? Join Covenant Connections

• Heal from betrayal with my Infidelity Intensive Program

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I know p*rn isn't a topic that we like to discuss. It brings guilt, embarrassment, pain, and shame. But it's a topic we MUST discuss if we want to have authentic and whole relationships. Parents, your kids are looking at it. Wives, your husbands have it on their phones. Husbands, your wives are secretly into it. Of course, not all, but the numbers are staggering within both faith-based and secular realms. So we're talking about it.

I invited Sathiya Sam back on the podcast (he was a guest four years ago) because he's the real deal. He's got a personal story of being chained to p*rn for many years before he finally got free. And so can you (or the person you love). Parents, listen to this conversation with your children (both boys and girls!) I'll be listening to it with mine. Together, we can bring this conversation out of the dark and into the light so all who want freedom can get free.

Sathiya shares his personal journey and insights on healing from shame and building emotional regulation. Though women engage in p*rn too, Sathiya feels a burden for men, and so together, we unpack the root causes behind the struggles that affect men, women, and the impact on marriages and families. Sathiya also shares practical steps for how to have open communication both at home and in faith communities. Listeners will find hope, resources, and real-world strategies for supporting themselves and loved ones in breaking free from p*rn and restoring authentic connection in their relationships.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• Man Within Podcast:
  Find over 1,000 episodes of practical insights for men at Man Within Podcast.

• Free Book – The Last Relapse:
  Get Sathiya Sam's free book and learn more about the Deep Clean system at thelastrelapsebook.com.

• How Connected Are You? Partner Quiz:
  Dana Che's free resource to gauge connectivity in your relationship: danache.com/partnerquiz.

• Recover from Infidelity
  Learn about Dana Che's program, Infidelity Intensive.

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In this special episode, you'll learn how to heal your broken heart and rebuild your marriage after infidelity. Many affair-recovery programs are run by those who never experienced infidelity first-hand. Not this one. I share candidly and compassionately our story of how infidelity ransacked our marriage and how we overcame it. If you're feeling embarrassed, ashamed, isolated, or abandoned, you don't have to be. You need a guide to get to where you want to go. I am your guide. Infidelity Intensive is your solution.

Learn more about Infidelity Intensive and get started today at danache.com/infidelityintensive.

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Brenda Kennison is back for part two, diving deeper into her remarkable journey of transformation. After hitting rock bottom in the public eye, Brenda rewired her mindset and found true freedom from alcoholism, another failed marriage, and depression. Brenda shares how neuroplasticity and faith worked together to reshape her emotional and spiritual health, shifting her from toxic cycles to a place of healing and healthy relationships.

Discover how changing your thoughts really can change your life, especially within your relationships and marriage. You’ll hear practical steps for rewiring the brain, building healthy habits, and breaking free from damaging labels and generational patterns. Plus, Brenda gets real about her own journey through multiple marriages, finding lasting love, and becoming a champion for emotional and spiritual transformation.

If you’re ready to take the first step toward real change, this episode will give you the inspiration and tools you need. Dive in for a raw and encouraging conversation about what’s possible when you allow God and practical mindset work to reshape your story!

What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• Is Alcoholism a Disease?
  Brenda Kennison shares why she no longer views alcoholism as a disease, and how shifting this perspective empowered her to break free from addiction.

• The Power of Neuroplasticity and Scripture:
  Brenda explains how neuroscience and spiritual truth come together to help rewire the brain. Discover practical ways to “take every thought captive.”

• Marriage, Divorce, and Personal Growth:
  Learn how Brenda’s struggle with perfectionism, shame, and unhealed wounds deeply impacted her first three marriages.

• How Unhealed Thoughts Impact Relationships:
  Brenda offers a practical exercise to help listeners identify how they are currently “showing up” in life: through emotions, behaviors, bodily sensations, and perspectives.

• Building a Better Marriage Through Communication:
  Hear how Brenda and her husband learned to communicate across their differences and love each other according to their unique love languages.

• Practical Steps to Rewire Your Brain:
  Get Brenda’s three-step process of awareness, action, and accountability to transform negative thinking and habits.

Resources Mentioned:

• Day One of Sobriety Podcast & Ministry – dayoneofsobriety.org

• How Connected Are You? Partner Quiz by Dana Che

• Dr. Gary Chapman’s The Five Love Languages

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Brenda Kennison is a certified neuro cycle facilitator and founder of Day One of Sobriety Ministries. She shared her raw, powerful journey from rock bottom—battling addiction, depression, a foiled suicide attempt, and the pain of divorce—to discovering hope, healing, and transformation through science and faith. Brenda Kennison’s story is a reminder that our lowest moments can become the launching pad for lasting change. If you’re ready to renew your mind and rebuild your life, you don’t want to miss this episode!

Key Highlights

• Resilience After Rock Bottom
  Brenda shares how being publicly exposed and humiliated drove her to seek the help she desperately needed and began her healing journey.

• Cultural Stigmas & Seeking Help
  Brenda’s story reveals the deep stigmas around addiction, especially for educators, and the importance of honest conversations and community support.

• Faith Meets Brain Science
  The intersection of biblical truth and neuroscience became Brenda’s pathway to true and lasting transformation, challenging the lie that mental health struggles are an unchangeable destiny.

• The Power of Community
  Brenda credits a loving church community and a pivotal friend (Becky) whose prayers literally helped save her life, emphasizing that transformation requires surrounding yourself with people who see and support you.

• Redefining Sobriety
  Brenda expands the definition of sobriety, describing it as a “calm, sound, and disciplined mind rooted in Christ,” inviting listeners to pursue wholeness even if addiction isn’t their specific battle.

• Generational Healing & Legacy
  The conversation touches on breaking generational cycles, finding worth beyond achievement, and providing emotional stability for the next generation.

Resources Mentioned

Brenda’s Website & Podcast: dayoneofsobriety.org
Take the "How Connected Are You as a Partner" Quiz

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Bestselling author and comedian KevonStage and his wife, Melissa, hosted a podcast called Marriage Be Hard. But what if we could make marriage easier? Marriage can be hard—but it doesn’t have to feel impossible. In today’s episode, I sat down with Arlene Pellicane, bestselling author of “Marriage Made Easier.” We dove into the real reasons why marriages struggle and discussed how putting in the right kind of effort can transform your relationship from mundane to meaningful. If you want practical, down-to-earth habits for building a joyful, lasting connection, this episode is a must-listen. Check out the full conversation for actionable ways to rebuild and strengthen your marriage, starting today!

Key Topics & Takeaways

• Finding the Joy of Marriage:
  Arlene shares her own positive marriage experience and the importance of fighting for happiness, not just happiness for yourself, but as a shared mission.

• Making Marriage Fun Again:
  Both Arlene and I discuss how couples can rekindle fun and playfulness in their relationships, from date nights to shared hobbies—emphasizing that planned fun is spiritual and necessary.

• Effort Over Easy:
  Marriage isn’t just hard—it’s effort. Just like running a business, great marriages require a plan, intentionality, and regular investment.

• Deciding Values in Advance:
  Arlene advocates for establishing core habits early—like shared meals, device-free table time, and daily rituals—that create connection and security in both marriage and family life.

• Serving When It’s One-Sided:
  For those feeling alone in their effort, Arlene offers encouragement rooted in faith, reminding listeners that their unseen acts are meaningful and seen by God, even when a spouse doesn’t notice.

Resources Mentioned in this Episode:

• Connect with Arlene’s podcast, "Happy Home Podcast," and purchase her book at Marriage Made Easier

• "How Connected Are You?" Take my free and fun quiz to determine your relationship's true connection at danache.com/partnerquiz

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Forgiveness isn't just a gift you give someone else—it's the pathway to your own freedom and growth. In today's episode, I shared how deciding to forgive, even before an apology, can change everything. Forgiveness is not about forgetting the lessons; it's about moving forward—but without the sting, so that you can help others and build stronger connections.

Whether in your personal or business relationships, holding onto hurt weighs you down and keeps you stuck. But there's a better (though not always easier) way. When you choose to forgive and remember, you set a powerful example to to others of how to release the person and the hurt. Remembering your story can inspire and heal more people than you realize.

If you want some "how-to's" on forgiveness, be sure to check out these episodes:

Ep. 280 - Finding Forgiveness and the Road Back to You

Ep. 163 - Beyond Mistakes - Modeling Responsibility and the Steps of Forgiveness

Ep. 13 - The Power of Forgiveness in Relationships: Release Them, Restore You

More Resources Mentioned in this Episode:

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I'm in a new season of life and want to give you a life update—one that will hopefully encourage you where you are in your life. This one is a true testament to the power of dreams, faith, and perseverance. No frilly clichés here, but I'm walking you through what part of my journey has been, where I'm at now, and where I'm headed.

3 Key Takeaways:

• Don’t Lose Heart: Dreams may take years—or even decades—to come true. The seeds you’re planting today could be part of a much bigger story that unfolds over time. Stay hopeful and keep nurturing those desires.

• Embrace the Process: There’s always a journey behind every achievement. Whether in your career, relationships, or personal growth, be willing to go through the necessary steps to get to the provision, rather than just wishing for results.

• Celebrate Your Wins—Guilt-Free: It’s easy to share when things are tough, but don’t feel guilty about your blessings. When something wonderful happens, embrace it, share it, and inspire others with your story.

If you’re waiting for your breakthrough—whether it’s a new role, an opportunity, or restoration in a relationship—this episode is a timely reminder to remain patient, faithful, and proactive.

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