Episodes

  • Time will tell

    Time will tell
    Sep 26 2024
    Hola! Welcome to episode 10 of Paris in NYC! In this episode I talk about a new approach that I started to live by this summer which was following my heart regardless of what that meant. It lead me to a new relationship with someone that really showed a lot of effort until he didn’t. It was a relationship that moved rather quickly, which is fine as I believe time is irrelevant. You can be with someone for years and not feel deep emotions towards them or even believe that they aren’t the one for you, or you can meet someone and click in a way that within a week you are in love. Find out the deets of the events that took place in my summer relationship. Make sure to subscribe and share with your friends! Follow my Instagram page @_parisinnyc_ for more daily content and videos!
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    30 mins
  • The Audacity

    The Audacity
    Aug 5 2024
    Hola! Welcome to episode 9 of Paris in NYC! I am accompanied by my lovely sister (Ig: @holasoymel_). We dive into multiple stories of our past of when people we were either dating or involved with did things to us or put us in situations that left us speechless. Like how did this person had the audacity to do that! It’s a fun and light hearted episode with my favorite person in the world. Make sure to subscribe and share with your friends! Follow my Instagram page @_parisinnyc_ for more daily content and videos! Here is what to expect: 00:00- Introduction with my special guest 02:00- 1st Audacity story- find out why I left this man on the side of the highway! 09:28- 2nd Audacity story- when Netflix and chill goes wrong! 12:52- 3rd Audacity story- who is this woman pulling my hair? 20:10- 4th Audacity story- keeping it in the friend group 25:53- 5th Audacity story- find out who is Sancochito and what he did! 34:09- Find out what my Instagram followers said when asked to share their stories/comments with me 40:36- Find out what my ex-fiance said when I caught him having an orgy 41:14- Closing statement and last words
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    43 mins
  • The Dating Olympics

    The Dating Olympics
    Jun 24 2024
    Hola! Welcome to episode 8 of Paris in NYC! Summer 2024 just started and The Dating Olympics have started, may the best man win. In this episode I explain what the Dating Olympics is to me and what I have learned so far from the few dates I have been on in the last few weeks. Make sure to subscribe and share with your friends! Follow my Instagram page @_parisinnyc_ for more daily content and videos! Here is what to expect: 00:00- A story about an encounter with my ex’s ex 03:02- Date #25- My karmic experience 12:04- The Dating Olympics 20:50- Dating language
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    25 mins
  • Breaking the cycle

    Breaking the cycle
    May 29 2024
    Hola, Welcome to the 7th episode of Paris in NYC! This episode is about my travels to my homeland the Dominican Republic- specifically Santo Domingo which is the first time that I visit in 26 years! I talk about the struggles that I experienced as a first generation immigrant in the United States as well as the saddening observations that I made while in Santo Domingo. Listen to episode to find out what I noticed. Make sure to subscribe and share with your friends! Follow my Instagram page @_parisinnyc_ for more daily content and videos! Here is what to expect: 00:00- Introduction 03:00- Baby I’m home - Arrive in Santo Domingo 06:05- 1st Journal entry 13:20- Eye opening observation in DR 19:23- The powerful women that I grew up with 22:58- Feminism vs Independence and Freedom 24:12- Story about an ex’s wife 26:15- 2nd Journal entry 30:31- Closing statement
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    31 mins
  • Traveling is more than just for pleasure

    Traveling is more than just for pleasure
    May 10 2024
    Hola, Welcome to the 6th episode of Paris in NYC! In this episode I give you some insight of why traveling is so important for me and I divulge on the advice that I received from Larry and his friends, whom I met on a ferry ride to Saint Barts. Everyone talks about the red flags that you should look out for when dating, but I talk about some of the green flags that you should pay attention to as well. Make sure to subscribe and share with your friends! Follow my Instagram page @_parisinnyc_ for more daily content and videos! Here is what to expect: 00:00- Introduction 04:05- Places I traveled to that made an impact on my life 05:38- Saint Marten, Saint Barts, and Aguilla 06:20- What I love the most about traveling… 07:25- Larry's words of wisdom (and friends) 09:15- What we need to focus on when we date… 10:30- Green Flags when dating 19:02- Closing statement
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    20 mins
  • 11/05/1984

    11/05/1984
    Apr 20 2024
    Hola! Welcome to the 5th episode of season 2 of Paris in NYC! 2024 is a big year for me as I turn 40 years old in November! While most people feel negatively about this milestone in their life, I feel excited and can’t wait to see what blessings life has in store for me this year! The key to feeling this way is something that I learned in 2023 and wish that I would have learned earlier in life, but grateful that I did now and have applied this to my daily experiences. Make sure to subscribe and share with your friends! Please follow me on Instagram @_parisinnyc_ for more daily content and videos! Here is what to expect: 00:00- Introduction 02:53- The narrative that you tell yourself is important 03:50- Dating Story 09:34- Success doesn’t come without struggle 10:49- Conversation with my friend 11:56- Half glass empty mentality 13:07- The most powerful thing I learned in 2023 16:14- Struggle as a mom 17:11- How this affects my everyday life 18:04- An annoying question 22:09- A message to women 24:43- Closing statement
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    26 mins
  • Darling it’s better on the other side- Domestic Violence Awareness

    Darling it’s better on the other side- Domestic Violence Awareness
    Apr 12 2024
    Hola! Welcome to episode 4 of season 2! I recorded this episode over two months ago but I was so scared and nervous to release it because it is very personal to me. However, domestic violence is something that I have experienced too many times in my life and I wanted to bring light to a subject that is very taboo and difficult to talk about. So here is a brief introduction of what I went through in my past. I share this because I know that there are many people living through this and I also know that while you are going through this it is a very hard cycle to get out of. To people that have never experienced this, it seems absurd to stay with someone that has physically harmed you, however, emotional abuse is just as bad and many many people stay in those relationships as well. It is more normalized. Any kind of mistreatment should be a non negotiable, but somehow it’s not always the case. This was hard to record, and even harder to release. But I’m finally ready to do so. If you or anyone you know is going through something please seek help within these organizations. You aren’t alone. And you can escape this and darling, life is so much better on this side. I can’t begin to express how much life has given me after I have been able to choose myself. I have traveled sooo much, been to 19 countries and about to go to 3 more within the next week. I have made so many friendships and spent so many amazing hours laughing and enjoying myself that the only thing I regret is not finding the courage to leave sooner. National Domestic Violence Hotline https://www.thehotline.org/ Safe Horizon https://www.safehorizon.org/ NYS Domestic Violence Program https://www.nyscadv.org/find-help/program-directory.html If you want to just chat about it, feel free to DM me on my Instagram @_parisinnyc_ Here is what to expect: 00:00- Introduction 03:10- Similarities between my abusers 05:18- Reflection 06:00- My first abuser 09:47- My second abuser 13:56- The incident 40:19-Closing statement
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    42 mins
  • The Night Life- After the lights come on

    The Night Life- After the lights come on
    Feb 24 2024
    Hola! Welcome to episode 3 of season 2! I have bartended on and off for the last 10 years in NYC, and I’m always fascinated by how everyone always wants to date the DJ, the bartenders, the bottle girls along with everyone else that makes the nightlife successful. However, dating is so hard when the schedules are so conflicting. In this episode I am accompanied by one of Astoria’s most loved, DJ Wyldlife (@djwyldlyfe) and HOA’s own bartender, Vinnie (@vinaguiarr). We dive into what it’s life for us to date and the misconceptions/stereotypes that people have of us. “We are so available but exclusive with ourselves”- Vinnie. Make sure to subscribe and share with your friends! Follow my Instagram page @_parisinnyc_ for more daily content and videos! Here is what to expect: 00:00- Introduction 01:04- DJ Wyldlife and Vinny's Intro 01:56- How are bartenders and DJs misunderstood? 07:53- How do you balance your personal life and nightlife? 16:43- How is it like dating someone that works a regular 9-5 job? 26:45- Do you date girls in the industry? 29:20- How do you make the girls you date feel secure? 35:04- You ever hooked up with customers? 40:17- Best place to meet people 51:59- Do you guys bring girls home? 53:05- Wyldlife has a story 55:19- Afterhours (Covid stories) 1:00:27- 9-5 vs Nightlife 1:06:07- Last words
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    1 hr and 10 mins