What if you had mental tools you could use in an instant to remove your desire for porn?

What if you could stop watching porn because you had a recovery mindset that replaced your need for it?

What I often hear from my clients when they begin my intensive porn addiction recovery program is that cravings for porn and sex feel instant and automatic. They see a woman, and immediately the lust and fantasizing starts.

I remember exactly what that was like during the years I was addicted to porn.

Many men feel out of control and unable to change the way they think about sexuality, romantic relationships, and women. They feel they have no choice whether they get dragged along by their sexual urges, and so much of what they want to accomplish or become is drowned out by these on-going sexual cravings.

They have a powerful drive to do great things with their lives, but so much of that just doesn’t feel possible with this monkey on their back.

It's difficult to quit porn. Sexual drive is a powerful force, and it can feel exhausting trying to fight it all the time; trying to be a responsible man, husband, and father. Sometimes we might wish we could just turn our sexual attraction off! Flip a switch and make the desires go away.

That’s the same way I felt for many years.

Today, I’ll teach you to stop watching porn by building a recovery mindset that replaces your desire for porn with a new, fulfilling perspective that enables you to love the people around you and yourself. Not in some cheap, boyish way, but in a mature, masculine way.

This perspective takes work. It’s not some freaking magic trick to “quit porn in 30 days” (those are scams). Instead, it’s a practical and psychological approach you can use throughout your day.

Read on to learn how you can grow this recovery mindset and replace your desire for porn with a fresh, new perspective that serves you and your loved ones.

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“My wife won’t have sex with me”, “Porn addiction has ruined our marriage and our sex life”, “My wife has gained 80 lbs since we got married, and I’m no longer sexually attracted to her”, “My wife dresses like a nun and wants nothing to do with sex”...

If any of these sound like you, and you’re in a marriage where sex is as frequent as a solar eclipse (or if that’s too generous), today’s episode is for you. Today, we’re going to talk about:

• Reasons your wife isn’t having sex with you (and they’re not what you think).
• Healing the side effects of porn addiction in marriage.
• Gaining compassion for the different challenges you and your spouse are facing.
• Creating sexual and emotional healing in your marriage.

If you want to overcome porn addiction, or if you have a spouse who is addicted to porn, know that you can both develop an amazing relationship together. You are not doomed to this, you are not crazy or horrible, and you can quit porn and live the life of your dreams. It simply requires building a recovery mindset and lifestyle so you can break free of porn.

God bless and much love.

BUILD THE NO MORE PORN LIFESTYLE

FREE WORKSHOP: The 8 Keys to Lose Your Desire for Porn

FREE EBOOK: The 10 Tools to Conquer Porn Cravings

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Today, I address common questions many men I’ve worked with have had about porn addiction in marriage. We’ll talk about how wives can unfortunately become sex objects in today's cultural climate (and how to put a stop to it), and how a husband can:

• Overcome sexual obsession so he can lead a happier, more fulfilling life.
• Feel truly sexually satisfied in the relationship.
• Help his wife feel safe, accepted, and loved.
• Quit porn by building a recovery mindset and lifestyle.

If you’re a spouse of a porn addict, this episode is also for you. You will gain a far deeper understanding of porn addiction, and (I hope) a compassion for your partner who is struggling with it.

You are not alone. You are not crazy. And you can both heal and get better, and I'll give you a path to do this step-by-step in this episode.

Understanding the Impact of Porn Addiction in Marriage

Many men and women are extremely concerned by the effects porn addiction has had on their marriage.

Here are some of the questions and concerns men in my program have had about quitting porn and their marital sexual relationship:

• “I find my wife to be very beautiful. So why do I keep going to porn and masturbation? What’s wrong with me?”
• “Is looking at sexual videos/images of my wife considered porn?”
• “Can having sex with my wife fuel my porn addiction? After all, don’t I want to be ‘addicted’ to my wife? Isn’t that a good thing?”
• “When I have sex with my wife, I feel the addict part of me emerge. This is very discouraging for me. It almost makes me not want to have sex with my wife anymore and risk activating the porn addiction wiring in my brain. What should I do?”
• “My wife says that I want to have sex with her too often. But I’m a man, so I want to have sex more than she does. Isn’t it reasonable for her to accommodate that need and have sex with me a little more often than she might prefer? After all, I am her husband.”
• “I don’t find my wife very attractive. I see that as a major reason for my addiction to porn. If she just [lost some weight, exercised, took better care of herself, dolled herself up, etc.], then I wouldn’t have a need to go to porn.”

We address each of these questions in today's episode.

BUILD THE NO MORE PORN LIFESTYLE

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