I fucked up a lot this year.
I mean … I said yes when I should have & needed to say no.
I hesitated saying “HECK YES” to what felt in alignment.
I waited too long when opportunities came up.
I put off doing the big things & the small, almost inconsequential ones.
Some days I ended up with a longer to do list than I started the day with.

Point is, I failed A LOT.
I fucked up one too many times.
And yes, I took multiple detours in 2024.

But you see, in the detours, failures & fuckery / fuckedupness, I grew, I stretched & ended up exactly where I was meant to be.
I became who I am & I drew invaluable life lessons that I will take with me to the next phase of my life.

How about you? Did you win a lot? Did you kiss rock bottom at least once in 2024?

Join my beautiful soul sister @claudiachan.co & I, for our 10th & final Radiant Blossom in 2024, on the 28th Dec 9:00am, Beijing Time (8pm Eastern 27th), where we will all celebrate the detours, fuck-ups & wins in a safe space.
Come as you are & Bring all of who you are.

DM for the Zoom link.

From the deepest parts of who I am,
I see you & I love you.

Sometimes when two people come together, we may come into conflict.

If only this person can do that! Or I have to behave this way.

Many of it can be traced back to our childhood, while growing up, we had written ourselves a book of expectations.

And the only way to make changes to the list is to get to know what is written in this book.

That’s why Phoebe Maina and myself hosting our 9th Radiant Blossom: My expectations in and within my relationships.

WHAT'S HOLDING ME/YOU BACK?

When the world is quiet and you’re truly alone and with your mind, what do you think about? What do you hope for? Follow that. - Bianca Sparacino

Now, what's holding you back from going all in after the deep seated desires of your soul? What's holding you back from saying Yes and jumping in head first? What's holding you back?

Join us for Part 2 of The Becoming Series, on the 17th of August, 9:00am Beijing Time (16th of August, 9:00pm Eastern) where my girl @claudiachan.co and I, will sit with you and explore this question deeper.

I can't wait to see you then!
Love you loads.