It takes a village to raise a child, or so the saying goes. So why are we always telling the village to F off? We unravel what's behind the idea of community being cancelled. Plus, our weekend recommendations include an addictive spy show, a T-shirt Mia’s about to send viral and… a dog pee cleaner? Also, mysterious playground encounters, a sudden loss and a festive backflip — it’s Best & Worst of the week. Support independent women's media Get your tickets to the Mamamia Out Loud Live 2025 All or Nothing Tour Presented By Nivea Cellular What To Listen To Next: Listen to our latest episode: The Trends We Want To Return (Or Die For Good)Listen: Jay-Z And An Audacious Family PR StrategyListen: It's Time We Talked About 'That Guy'Listen: Sibling Wealth Gaps & Ruined ChristmasesListen: Our 5-Year Plans, Pay Gaps & Relationship ErasListen: The 'Too Sexy' Pop Star & The Very Bad SonListen: The 'Don't Be A Muppet' Good Guest GuideConnect your subscription to Apple Podcasts The End Bits: Sign up to the Mamamia Out Loud Newsletter for all our recommendations and behind-the-scenes content in one place. Recommendations: Mia wants you to buy Makusart tees Jessie wants you to buy DOG Wee Cleaner By Dr Lisa Holly wants you to watch Black Doves on Netflix What To Read: Read: Everything you need to know about the Mamamia Out Loud ALL OR NOTHING TOUR coming May 2025.Read: HOLLY WAINWRIGHT: 'Things I would buy my best friend for Christmas.'Read: There's a reason celebrity faces look different.Read: A mum's list of baby rules went viral, then came the messages. GET IN TOUCH: Feedback? We’re listening. Send us an email at outloud@mamamia.com.au Share your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice message Join our Facebook group Mamamia Outlouders to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamiaoutloud CREDITS: Hosts: Holly Wainwright, Mia Freedman & Jessie Stephens Group Executive Producer: Ruth Devine Executive Producer: Emeline Gazilas Audio Production: Leah Porges Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.