Fake Love and Flying Monkeys

By: Nova Gibson
  • Summary

  • The podcast where Fake Love is exposed. Welcome to Fake Love and Flying Monkeys! Hosted by Nova Gibson, Principal Counsellor at Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Abuse Counselling, this podcast is dedicated to helping you navigate the pain and confusion of toxic relationships, and emotional abuse, especially those involving a suspected or undiagnosed narcissist.


    Nova brings years of expertise as a specialist trauma-informed counsellor, guiding survivors of narcissistic abuse to become the experts in their own trauma. In relationships where narcissists rarely, if ever, seek a diagnosis—believing there is nothing wrong with their behaviour—it’s vital for survivors to gain clarity, validation, and the tools needed to heal.


    Through candid conversations, expert insights, and practical strategies, Nova and her guests unpack the manipulative tactics of emotional abuse, from gaslighting and control to triangulation and smear campaigns. Whether you’re dealing with a narcissistic partner, parent, coworker, or friend, Fake Love and Flying Monkeys empowers you to identify the patterns, set healthy boundaries, and rebuild your confidence after years of self-doubt and emotional exhaustion.


    This podcast doesn’t just shine a light on the hidden dynamics of narcissistic abuse—it hands you the torch to take back your power. You’ll learn to validate your experiences, protect your mental health, and break free from the toxic cycle, even without the confirmation of a formal diagnosis.


    If you’ve ever felt trapped, silenced, or unsure of how to move forward, this is your safe space. Nova’s compassionate, down-to-earth approach ensures you’re not just heard—you’re understood.


    Tune in to Fake Love and Flying Monkeys and discover the tools you need to expose the fake love in your life, reclaim your worth, and step into a future of peace and empowerment. Visit www.brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au to learn more, leave a review, and grab Nova’s book, Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from Narcissistic Abuse. It’s time to rewrite your story.



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Episodes
  • Narcissistic Abuse is "No Ordinary Love" - With Tracy Rector
    Jan 19 2025

    Narcissistic Abuse is "No Ordinary Love" - With Tracy Rector

    In this inspirational episode I speak with Tracy Rector. Tracy is an award-winning producer, speaker, author, and survivor, uses her voice to raise awareness of gender-based violence. As an international speaker, she’s shared her passion inspiring audiences in the US including Guam, Asia Pacific, and UK.
    USA Today recognized her film, No Ordinary Love, as one of the “biggest summer movies” of 2021. She served as board chair of the second largest domestic violence agency in Texas, and she is currently part of a research project with national industry leaders to develop a game-changing tool to address domestic violence.
    Enjoy!
    Nova 🌻


    To book a zoom counselling session with me please visit my website below 👇
    www.brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au

    To order your copy of my best-selling book Fake Love please use the link
    below 👇
    https://linktr.ee/novagibson

    Send us a text

    Thankyou so much for listening!
    Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general information, and strictly the opinions of the host based on her years of experience working with thousands of victims of narcissistic abuse.

    If you would like to make an appointment for individual counselling with me , please visit my website at ,Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Abuse Counselling Service , or email me at nova.pollard123gmail.com

    To order a copy of my book - Fake love please click Here
    or simply go directly to Amazon

    I looove creating these episodes, but they do take time. If you'd like to support me to continue creating more podcast episodes, then please click here to .Buy me a coffee



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    1 hr and 14 mins
  • Top 20 Lies Narcissists Smear you With - Part 2
    Jan 14 2025

    Top 20 Lies Narcissists Smear you With
    - Part 2.


    In this final episode of a 2 part series I dive deeper into one of the most destructive tools in a narcissist’s arsenal: the smear campaign. Why do narcissists go to such great lengths to tarnish your reputation? What motivates them to twist the truth, spread lies, and turn others against you?

    From protecting their fragile ego to manipulating others into seeing you as the villain, smear campaigns are calculated and cruel—but they don’t have to define you.

    In this episode you will hear more of the top 20 lies narcissists use to smear you with, to help you recognise these toxic behaviours.

    This 2 part series is a must-listen for anyone who’s ever been blindsided by a narcissist’s lies.


    To book a zoom counselling session with me please visit my website below 👇
    www.brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au

    To order your copy of my best-selling book Fake Love - Understanding and Healing from Narcissistic Abuse, please see link below 👇
    https://linktr.ee/novagibson

    Send us a text

    Thankyou so much for listening!
    Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general information, and strictly the opinions of the host based on her years of experience working with thousands of victims of narcissistic abuse.

    If you would like to make an appointment for individual counselling with me , please visit my website at ,Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Abuse Counselling Service , or email me at nova.pollard123gmail.com

    To order a copy of my book - Fake love please click Here
    or simply go directly to Amazon

    I looove creating these episodes, but they do take time. If you'd like to support me to continue creating more podcast episodes, then please click here to .Buy me a coffee



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    31 mins
  • Top 20 Lies Narcissists Smear you With - Part 1
    Jan 12 2025

    Top 20 Lies Narcissists Smear you With - Part 1.

    In this two part series, I examine 20 lies that narcissists spread to destroy your reputation and punish you.

    Narcissists are masters of manipulation, and their lies can range from subtle distortions of the truth to outright fabrications. In this 2 part series, I break down examples of the specific lies narcissists use to portray you as unstable, abusive, incompetent, or untrustworthy. I uncover how these lies are designed to not only discredit you but to gain sympathy from others and secure their position as the “victim” in the eyes of friends, family, or colleagues.

    I also delve into the motivations behind these cruel smears. Why do narcissists go to such great lengths to slander their victims? What do they gain from destroying your reputation? With real-life examples, I provide a clear understanding of the narcissist’s mind and their relentless need to control the narrative.


    If you found this episode informative, I would absolutely love it if you could rate this podcast, leave a review, and please share, Share, SHARE! Help to spread awareness around Narcissistic Abuse, so there's more support and justice for survivors!
    Nova xx

    You can book an online counseling appointment with me or book me to speak at your event here

    You can purchase a copy of my book ‘Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from narcissistic Abuse’ here

    Join me on Facebook here

    Join the private Facebook discussion group here

    Join me on Instagram here

    https://buymeacoffee.com/novagibson








    Send us a text

    Thankyou so much for listening!
    Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general information, and strictly the opinions of the host based on her years of experience working with thousands of victims of narcissistic abuse.

    If you would like to make an appointment for individual counselling with me , please visit my website at ,Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Abuse Counselling Service , or email me at nova.pollard123gmail.com

    To order a copy of my book - Fake love please click Here
    or simply go directly to Amazon

    I looove creating these episodes, but they do take time. If you'd like to support me to continue creating more podcast episodes, then please click here to .Buy me a coffee



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    19 mins

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