Fake Love and Flying Monkeys

By: Nova Gibson
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  • The podcast where Fake Love is exposed. Welcome to Fake Love and Flying Monkeys! Hosted by Nova Gibson, Principal Counsellor at Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Abuse Counselling, this podcast is dedicated to helping you navigate the pain and confusion of toxic relationships, and emotional abuse, especially those involving a suspected or undiagnosed narcissist.


    Nova brings years of expertise as a specialist trauma-informed counsellor, guiding survivors of narcissistic abuse to become the experts in their own trauma. In relationships where narcissists rarely, if ever, seek a diagnosis—believing there is nothing wrong with their behaviour—it’s vital for survivors to gain clarity, validation, and the tools needed to heal.


    Through candid conversations, expert insights, and practical strategies, Nova and her guests unpack the manipulative tactics of emotional abuse, from gaslighting and control to triangulation and smear campaigns. Whether you’re dealing with a narcissistic partner, parent, coworker, or friend, Fake Love and Flying Monkeys empowers you to identify the patterns, set healthy boundaries, and rebuild your confidence after years of self-doubt and emotional exhaustion.


    This podcast doesn’t just shine a light on the hidden dynamics of narcissistic abuse—it hands you the torch to take back your power. You’ll learn to validate your experiences, protect your mental health, and break free from the toxic cycle, even without the confirmation of a formal diagnosis.


    If you’ve ever felt trapped, silenced, or unsure of how to move forward, this is your safe space. Nova’s compassionate, down-to-earth approach ensures you’re not just heard—you’re understood.


    Tune in to Fake Love and Flying Monkeys and discover the tools you need to expose the fake love in your life, reclaim your worth, and step into a future of peace and empowerment. Visit www.brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au to learn more, leave a review, and grab Nova’s book, Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from Narcissistic Abuse. It’s time to rewrite your story.
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Episodes
  • Navigating the trauma of domestic abuse and addiction: with Azadeh Atzberger

    Navigating the trauma of domestic abuse and addiction: with Azadeh Atzberger
    Mar 5 2025

    Navigating the trauma of domestic abuse and addiction: with Azadeh Atzberger

    In this episode I'm joined by Azadeh Atzberger. Azadeh is a distinguished 3-time Bestselling Author, the esteemed Founder of Finally Free Life, serving as a Transformational Life Coach and Couples Coach.

    Renowned as the visionary behind "The 12 Steps For Narcissistic Abuse Recovery," she draws from her own journey as a trauma survivor of domestic and sexual abuse and a triumphant conqueror of addiction. Her profound passion lies in empowering individuals to navigate trauma, and find the freedom to manifest the lives they aspire to lead.

    Here is Azedahs story ♥️ https://finallyfreelife.com/

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    Thankyou so much for listening!
    Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general information, and strictly the opinions of the host based on her years of experience working with thousands of victims of narcissistic abuse.

    If you would like to make an appointment for individual counselling with me , please visit my website at ,Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Abuse Counselling Service , or email me at nova.pollard123gmail.com

    To order a copy of my book - Fake love please click Here
    or simply go directly to Amazon

    I looove creating these episodes, but they do take time. If you'd like to support me to continue creating more podcast episodes, then please click here to .Buy me a coffee



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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Why Narcissists Refuse Therapy and Will Never Change

    Why Narcissists Refuse Therapy and Will Never Change
    Mar 4 2025

    Why Narcissists Refuse Therapy and Will Never Change

    Therapy is often the first step for victims of narcissistic abuse—a space where they can untangle years of manipulation, gaslighting, and emotional trauma. Yet, one striking pattern emerges: while the victims of narcissists seek healing, the narcissist themselves rarely, if ever, steps into a therapist’s office.

    Why is that? If narcissists cause so much harm, wouldn’t they benefit from professional help? In this episode, we’ll explore why the victims are the ones in therapy rather than the narcissist, and whether true change is possible for someone with narcissistic personality traits.

    If you’ve ever wondered why the narcissist in your life never seeks help, never apologises, and never takes responsibility, this episode is for you.


    To book a zoom counselling session with me please visit my website link below 👇

    Www.brighteroutlookcounselling.com.au


    To order your copy of my best-selling book Fake Love, please see link below 👇

    https://linktr.ee/novagibson

    Send us a text

    Thankyou so much for listening!
    Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general information, and strictly the opinions of the host based on her years of experience working with thousands of victims of narcissistic abuse.

    If you would like to make an appointment for individual counselling with me , please visit my website at ,Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Abuse Counselling Service , or email me at nova.pollard123gmail.com

    To order a copy of my book - Fake love please click Here
    or simply go directly to Amazon

    I looove creating these episodes, but they do take time. If you'd like to support me to continue creating more podcast episodes, then please click here to .Buy me a coffee



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    18 mins
  • The Narcissistic Family Dynamic: Control, Manipulation, and Emotional Abuse

    The Narcissistic Family Dynamic: Control, Manipulation, and Emotional Abuse
    Mar 3 2025

    The Narcissistic Family Dynamic: Control, Manipulation, and Emotional Abuse

    Growing up in a family should feel safe and supportive—but what happens when narcissism poisons the dynamic? In this episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, we’re uncovering the truth about the narcissistic family system, where control, manipulation, and emotional neglect take centre stage. If you’ve ever felt like the black sheep of your own family, constantly walking on eggshells, or questioning your own reality, this episode is for you.

    If you grew up in a family where love felt conditional, where you were constantly made to feel “not good enough,” or where speaking up led to punishment, you are not alone. This episode will validate your experience and help you reclaim your power.

    Tune in now to Fake Love and Flying Monkeys and don’t forget to subscribe for more deep dives into narcissistic abuse, trauma recovery, and breaking free from toxic relationships.


    Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with anyone dealing with narcissistic abuse. Your healing starts with knowledge—and I’m here to guide you every step of the way.

    Nova xx

    You can book an online zoom counseling appointment with me or book me to speak at your event here

    You can purchase a copy of my book ‘Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from narcissistic Abuse’ here

    Join me on Facebook here

    Join the private Facebook discussion group here

    Join me on Instagram here

    https://buymeacoffee.com/novagibson






    Send us a text

    Thankyou so much for listening!
    Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general information, and strictly the opinions of the host based on her years of experience working with thousands of victims of narcissistic abuse.

    If you would like to make an appointment for individual counselling with me , please visit my website at ,Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Abuse Counselling Service , or email me at nova.pollard123gmail.com

    To order a copy of my book - Fake love please click Here
    or simply go directly to Amazon

    I looove creating these episodes, but they do take time. If you'd like to support me to continue creating more podcast episodes, then please click here to .Buy me a coffee



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    23 mins

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