Episodes

  • S3 E024 Listener Submissions

    S3 E024 Listener Submissions
    Aug 1 2024

    Thanks for being patient with us! This episode is a long awaited listener submission episode. What you can expect to hear:

    


    ​Updates: Senior shares that he did his first ropes bondage suspension session with Bird!

    • ​Bird shares a dating app story (and it involves Snapchat).
    • ​Chaos talks about the varied differences between dating as a 21 year vs. dating as a 40 year old.
    • ​Britt shares her vanilla-ish aftercare homework.
    • ​Solo self care for aftercare.
    • ​Bird's new aftercare (blanket forts!)
    • ​Play tested a classic for the first time, a Hitachi Wand.
    • Our main feature this episode was going to be shame play and blood play, but we decided to go with listener submissions instead! Some highlights:

    ​Daddy Dom for those who needed a Daddy figure for playtime.

    • ​Normalizing not using the word "clean" when talking about STI testing.
    • ​Disabled virgin shares their kink journey!
    • ​How to come out as kinky (and into getting cucked). Hint: get comfortable being uncomfortable.
    • ​How to get into the kink community if you don't have a point of contact already in, no references, and are interested in learning how to be a Dom!
    • Book mentioned in the listener emails is The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability by Miriam Kaufman, Cory Silverberg, & Fran Odette.

    


    Website mentioned is ABFheaven.com

    


    (as for the delay, Bird has a jaw injury and it's taken a toll on her mentally. We will be recording again soon)

    


    Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!

    The drink this week is Dr. Pepper & Coconut RumMusic: Forever Dreamer - MagiksoloMixed and edited by: Bird HerselfHosted by: Bird, Senior, Britt, & ChaosArtwork: Senior

    Contact us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://drinksandkinks.space⁠⁠⁠⁠FetLife: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DrinksKinksPod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@drinksANDkinks_pod⁠
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    1 hr and 31 mins
  • S3 E023 Wax Play and Knife Play

    S3 E023 Wax Play and Knife Play
    Jul 4 2024

    Part of this episode was a suggestion from our listener, Alex, and covers knife play and wax play with some low temp candles and what doing it as safely as possible entails, all while Britt actually gets to try it on-air! Maybe she's leaning into the "ish" a little more! Knife play often goes hand in hand with wax removal, and is a great stand alone too for some sensation play. There's even a bonus update of Senior getting to do some suspensions in his ropes class, and we get a gift that will probably keep giving for a long time to come. Thanks Scrappy! Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!

    The drink this week is Overcast Espresso Stout - Oakshire Brewing Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself Hosted by: Bird, Senior, & Britt

    Artwork: Senior Contact us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://drinksandkinks.space⁠⁠⁠ FetLife: ⁠⁠⁠⁠DrinksKinksPod⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@drinksANDkinks_pod⁠
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    1 hr and 9 mins
  • S3 E022 Dom/sub Dynamics & Collaring

    S3 E022 Dom/sub Dynamics & Collaring
    Jun 27 2024

    This episode covers learning a little bit of learning about the new vanilla-ish co-host, Britt! She shares her BDSM test results and we learn what makes her put the "ish" in vanilla-ish! You'll also hear the weekly dating updates, and a heavy focus on the new dynamic that Bird and Senior find themselves in! Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!

    The drink this week is Iced Coffee with Cookie Dough Whiskey! Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself Hosted by: Bird, Senior, & Britt

    Album Art: Senior Contact us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://drinksandkinks.space⁠⁠ FetLife: ⁠⁠⁠DrinksKinksPod⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@drinksANDkinks_pod⁠
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    1 hr and 4 mins
  • S3 E021 KinkFest 2024 Recap with Britt and Chaos!

    S3 E021 KinkFest 2024 Recap with Britt and Chaos!
    Jun 13 2024

    Drinks & Kinks returns with a new lineup for Season 3! Bird and Senior welcome in new co-host, Britt, and our very own Chaos to recap the wild weekend at KinkFest 2024 in Portland, Oregon!

    Britt brings a very vanilla newb element to the show, as a long-time listener and close friend. She's silently been a behind-the-scenes helper since the beginning and now will be helping bring up questions on air that the new-to-this folks may have!

    In this episode you'll get:

    • An update on the dating life of both Bird and Senior
    • Kinkfest Classes
    • May I Make A Suggestion Please? class for bottoms that have more experience than their Tops.
    • Classes that Bird, Senior, and Chaos went to and loved.
    • Fun things we bought at KinkFest.
    • Dungeon hours and cool scenes we got to see.
    • Bird and Senior's first KF scenes!
    • Chaos' adventures in the dungeon. Products mentioned in this episode: Darque Path custom silicone toys https://darquepath.com.au Stumptown Kilts https://www.stumptownkilts.com Lightplay UV candles https://lightplaycandles.com/shop Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!

    The drink this week: Rocket Popsicle by Untitled Art! Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself Hosted by: Bird, Senior, & Britt

    Album Art: Senior

    Contact us: ⁠drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com⁠ Website: ⁠https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/
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    2 hrs and 1 min
  • S2 E020 Breath Play & Medical Play

    S2 E020 Breath Play & Medical Play
    Dec 14 2023

    Oh hi! Did you miss us? We're back from our mental health vacation, and Senior is at full sass.


    This episode covers some edge play, where we talk about breath play and inadvertently add in a little lesson on medical play too!

    As we celebrate a year of being a podcast, we look at our Spotify unwrapped, celebrate the people who made us their #1 listened to podcast!


    In this episode you'll learn about:

    • What a "coffee, regular" is
    • Bird's misadventures in sugar dating
    • Vanderpump Rules
    • Bird's Smutty Bookclub, episodes to come!
    • Senior builds a bed
    • Breath Play vs. Edge Play
    • Senior's got a thing for elaborate antiquing
    • Senior's a weird thing for "scuba diving"
    • Facesitting
    • Choking
    • Combining Medical Play with Fear Play


    Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!

    The drink this week is Gin and Cran-Pineapple!

    Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo

    Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself

    Hosted by: Bird & Senior

    Contact us: ⁠⁠⁠drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠

    Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://drinksandkinks.space⁠

    FetLife: ⁠⁠DrinksKinksPod⁠⁠

    Instagram: ⁠⁠@drinksANDkinks_pod⁠
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    1 hr and 14 mins
  • S2 E019 Vetting and the Art and Theatrics of Playtime

    S2 E019 Vetting and the Art and Theatrics of Playtime
    Aug 23 2023

    This episode covers the broad topic of vetting and how to do. Bird and Senior cover some great questions you can ask while vetting someone. They may have taken a little "mental health summer vacation" for the last few weeks, but are back at it with some bratty shenanigans.


    In this episode you'll hear:

    • Dating update for Bird
    • Why Senior doesn't do a whole lot of dating
    • A recent party with friends Vex, Goddess, and Chaos
    • Chaos did their first scene and what we learned from watching it
    • What is "vetting" and why is it important?
    • What questions are good for vetting?
    • Mistakes Bird made when vetting previously (that you can learn from)
    • Why it's not culturally appropriate to call women "females"
    • Barbie movie and Euphoria references
    • Senior and Bird's "dream scenes" they've always wanted to do
    • Senior bratting at his absolutely finest
    • Listener submissions! Thanks Rob and Bruce!


    Some resources referenced in this episode and links we promised: Kynk101.com, michellefegatofi.org, kinkycuriosity.com, theduchy.com, submissiveguide.com, kinkweekly.com, beautifullybound.com


    Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!

    The drink this week is Little Beast Brewing Czech Style Dark Lager!

    Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo

    Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself

    Hosted by: Bird & Senior

    Contact us: ⁠⁠drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com⁠⁠

    Website: ⁠⁠https://drinksandkinks.space

    FetLife: ⁠DrinksKinksPod⁠

    Instagram: ⁠@drinksANDkinks_pod⁠
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    1 hr and 53 mins
  • S2 E018 Sexuality, Demi-Sexuality, Neo-pronouns and Special Guest Vex!

    S2 E018 Sexuality, Demi-Sexuality, Neo-pronouns and Special Guest Vex!
    Jul 19 2023

    Our favorite brat, Vex, joins us for another awesome couple of hours to talk about pronouns and different types of sexualities! It's been a while since Bird gave y'all an update on her dating life, so today she gets to fill you in on the newest developments! And Senior's topic he's been prepping for: neo-pronouns!

    In this episode you'll hear Vex talk about her experience as a trans woman, a whole lot of neo-pronouns, the difference between pronouns and neo-pronouns, how to handle mis-steps when those around you or close to you would like to identify as a new set of pronouns, demisexuality, and the wide variety of sexualities. We talk a little polyamory, and Senior does some polydaydreaming.


    Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!

    The drink this week is a Gin Bloody Mary!

    Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo

    Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself

    Hosted by: Bird & Senior

    Contact us: ⁠⁠drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com⁠⁠

    Website: ⁠⁠https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/⁠⁠

    FetLife: ⁠DrinksKinksPod⁠

    Instagram: ⁠@drinksANDkinks_pod⁠
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    1 hr and 54 mins
  • S2 E017 Rope Bondage with Mx. Knotty and Kingsly Killer

    S2 E017 Rope Bondage with Mx. Knotty and Kingsly Killer
    Jul 6 2023
    Special guests this week are a pair of badasses who specialize in rope bondage and educating the kink community, Mx. Knotty and Kingsly Killer! In this episode you'll hear: How they both got involved with rope. Safety for getting started, because rope play is one of the most dangerous forms of kink. Why you should avoid cotton rope for suspensions (but it's great for decorative ties). Nylon is much different than cotton (and nylon is great for water scenes along with polyester). 6mm and wider is a better choice to mitigate damage. No rope is "safe". Mx. Knotty loves Jute! Rigger vs. Top, bunny vs. bottom. Mx. Knotty and Kingsley origin story What is Knotty Productions? Risk aware does not equal "safe". Implicit Consent vs. Explicit Consent. Rope Safety for new riggers and rope tops! START SLOW. Start with basics. Leave dynamics at the door for a minute to prioritize safety. Or find a way to keep very honest, open communication during the dynamic. No means no, especially in beginner ropes. It's ok to speak up if the ropes feel uncomfortable. Be specific. Err on the side of caution: untie, reconsider, re-tie. Informed consent is extremely important. Rope is extremely dangerous, so it's important to educate yourself on the risks, especially if you're a bottom/bunny. Communication is the most important part of tying with someone! Continuous check-in's and nerve checks. Prepare and care for your body before and after tying. Stretch, warm up, eat food, hydrate, etc. Aftercare. Safety Shears! Get comfortable talking about uncomfortable things! Speak your needs, especially when it comes to ropes. What's in Mx Knotty's rope kits that she brings to her scenes. Safety sheers. How to negotiate a scene, and negotiating a scene that's already in progress. Know your body (both as a rigger and a bunny). Rope space. As a rigger, know your bunny's body language. Setting the scene. Energy transfers through the rope. It's ok to tap out if it isn't working, as a top or bottom! If someone has something they need to tell you about their body, say "thank you for telling me". Arousal/Eroticism in ropes Riggers Chess Debriefing after scenes are over. Tie yourself before tying others so you know how it feels. You can learn more about Knotty Productions at www.knottyproductions.com Damn Good Rope Company can be found here: www.damngoodropecompany.com (we highly recommend the beginner kits! Knotty Productions website has a discount code, too!) Shibari Study: shibaristudy.com The Duchy ("dutch-ee"): www.theduchy.com Rope Study: ropestudy.com Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly! The drink this week is a Lavender Lemon Drop! Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself Hosted by: Bird & Senior Contact us: ⁠drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com⁠ Website: ⁠https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/⁠ FetLife: DrinksKinksPod Instagram: @drinksANDkinks_pod
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    1 hr and 49 mins