Guess what! We’ve been live for 6 months already, and we have a big surprise coming up for you!

We are closing out Season 1 of the Deeper Sex Podcast to come back with Season 2 and offer something even more exciting and useful to you and your lover, in and out of the bedroom.

We believe that sex should not be the driver of arguments and unhappiness for a couple. Nor should it be taboo.

We have witnessed, tried and tested on our own skin how it can be used to heal from trauma, fears, and to grow.

What's coming:

We are taking the intimacy and sacred sexuality practices that have completely revolutionised our way of loving, and are putting them into very simple practical terms for you so, that everyone can apply and practice them in their own bedroom.

If this is calling you, sign up for our waitlist to join our upcoming workshops.

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Meanwhile, don’t miss:

>> Our fav books

• “50 Misconceptions Of Sex” by Alexa Vartman
• “Wild Nights” by David Deida

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>> Catch up on these episodes

13: How To Be Sexually “Open” Even If You’re Monogamous

Learn more about what we mean by “Openness” at 360 degrees and how that can 10x the relationship with your partner. Listen on Apple or Spotify.

6: There’s No Shame In “Dirty” Fantasies: How Speaking Them Out Loud Can Transform Your Taboos into Passion

Learn about how to share sexual fantasies with your lover, overcoming fear, shame and taboos. Listen on Apple or Spotify

5: How Did We Do It?? From Failed-Marriage Misery to Cosmic Sex, Hot-Tub Orgies and Play Parties in a Castle

Learn more about the hosts’ conservative backgrounds and how they “fell” into the amazing, sexually liberated world of Consensual Non Monogamy. Listen on Apple or Spotify

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TIME STAMPS

01:54 You Helped Us Grow

03:25 Deeper Sex Content In Season 2

04:16 Sex At the Intersection Between Sexuality, Curiosity, Healing And Personal Growth

05:25 A Surprise For You

07:52 10 Prompts To Start Deeper Conversations With Your Partner

08:15 Your Reading List to Get Ready For Season 2

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Will and Chiara are interviewed by Human Design coach Adriana to explore how they transformed their lives through sexual exploration and liberation.

They’ve made intimacy coaching their life’s purpose, because there’s so much fun and sex to be had in life, that everyone should be able to experience it!

They talk about their journey of following their hearts and intuition, instead of conforming to what others expected. They highlight how their union is always of the utmost priority, above and beyond anything and anyone else.

On a spontaneous trip, they discovered the world of New Tantra and realized that that was “the code” - the language - for how they had been connecting all along. They found themselves into deeper and deeper sexual connections and an incredibly fulfilling sex life that massively influenced their business and their daily life… from miserable to super fun and exciting.

The secret to all this? Curiosity and… well, tune into the episode to find out!

Whether you’re a man or a woman wondering if there’s more to coupledom, or maybe bored in a sexless marriage, you too can go from an average relationship and a “middle-aged” sex life to an incredible connection with your partner, having mind-blowing, hours-long orgasmic marathons.

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To learn more about what we mean by “Openness” at 360 degrees and how that can 10x the relationship with your partner, check out our episode on Apple or on Spotify.

And… don’t miss this book on the topic! “Wild Nights” by David Deida

(this podcast is entirely supported by our listeners, so if you buy through this link we may earn a commission, at no extra cost to you)

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To learn more about how you can work with and accept your body image, check out this episode on Apple or on Spotify

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TIME STAMPS

01:18 Meet Adriana, our Human Design Coach

02:26 Download Our Free Guide

03:02 How Will and Chiara Help Clients Have Better Romantic Relationships

06:22 How The Power of Intuition Got Chiara The Amazing Husband She Has

09:55 Why Intimacy Coaching

14:32 Why We Decided To Explore Ethical Non-Monogamy

18:59 This Could Be Your Community Too

21:29 The Deeper Sex Podcast In The Making

22:42 We Explored The Swinging Community But It Was Not For Us

24:04 From Swinging to New Tantra

25:26 Fantasy vs. Reality

25:50 Are You One Of The People We Can Help?

26:13 Who We Want To Help: Meet Our Friends John And Jane

34:45 Accepting Yourself And Your Body Image

40:43 How To Use Curiosity To Overcome Fear

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WHO IS WILL

Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.

WHO IS CHIARA

Chiara is an ICF certified professional Intimacy Coach with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and become truly "comfortable" rather than just "confident", so they can embark on more intimate and sensual adventures.

For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.

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In this episode, intimacy coaches Will and Chiara share their transformative experiences at a festival (OZORA) in Europe, where Chiara’s boobs in particular had many adventures :).

They discuss the concept of Openness, the importance of curiosity, and what it means to feel comfortable in your own body, opening the doors to a profound sense of freedom and connection.

They highlight the contrast between people who are “open” and willing to share (their stories and themselves), vs. those who are more reserved, as a way to learn how to overcome fears, setting boundaries, and building trust in relationships.

The whole conversation is an amazing metaphor for how life can be lived.

As all our episodes, this one too is filled with personal anecdotes and insights into how openness can lead to deeper connections and a more fulfilling life.

!! Don’t miss our book recommendation at the end !!

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Our fav summer reading: “Wild Nights” by David Deida

(this podcast is entirely supported by our listeners, so if you buy through this link we may earn a commission, at no extra cost to you - thank you in advance for your support!)

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TIME STAMPS

01:36 We Are On A Mission To Help People Open Up

03:08 OZORA: Our Psytrance Festival Experience in Europe

03:55 Lesson #1: Openness + Nakedness = Freedom

07:19 Lesson #2: The Purity Of Being Naked

08:59 Goodbye Boobs!

09:29 Feeling Comfortable vs. Feeling Confident

10:27 It's Not About You, It's About Them

11:43 A Triangle Of Love And Bodies In A Fairy Tale

13:43 Dancing Topless On Your Shoulders

15:12 Naked Does Not Equal P0rnographic

16:20 Fun Fact: Unexpected Car Mayhem And How Will Kept His Cool

20:19 5,000 Heart Stickers To Spread Love

21:45 You Gotta Overcome The Fear To Love

22:41 Our Fav Summer Reading: Wild Nights

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WHO IS WILL

Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.

WHO IS CHIARA

Chiara is an ICF certified professional Intimacy Coach with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and become truly "comfortable" rather than just "confident", so they can embark on more intimate and sensual adventures.

WHO IS ALLIE

Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.

For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.

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In this episode of Deeper Sex, we delve into the importance of communication in enhancing sexual relationships.

Drawing from our personal and professional experiences, we share practical tips on initiating open dialogues about desires, needs, and fantasies with partners.

As always we want to emphasise on creating a safe space for vulnerability, avoiding blame, and using various methods like scheduled talks, emails, and listening to shared content.

We also discuss overcoming fears and the transformative power that honest and empathetic communication can bring to relationships.

This is super useful, don't skip this episode!

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02:37 Who we are and why we are telling you this

04:05 What you will learn today

04:45 This is for you if...

08:20 Deconditioning

09:52 Who has this fantasy?!

13:00 Tip 1: Let it flow

14:31 Tip 2: Don't blame

16:10 Creating a safe space to talk with your partner

18:07 It's sexy to shamelessly ask for what you need

19:14 Tip 3: Choose the "right" time for a conversation

20:23 Tip 4: Listen to content together

21:36 Ever talked about your partner's cervix?!

24:52 Tip 5: "Please can you help me to understand..."

26:48 Tip 6: Show that you're listening

28:21 Tip 7: Have an "exploratory" vs. a "decision-oriented" conversation

29:36 Tip 8: Write sexy emails to each other

34:37 Sexy time or no sexy time?

36:47 When in doubt, say what's on your mind!

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WHO IS WILL

Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.

WHO IS CHIARA

Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.

WHO IS ALLIE

Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.

For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.

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In this episode, intimacy coaches Will and Chiara answer some of the most common questions they get form clients and listeners about improving their sex life and intimacy.

We go from dealing with lack of sexual desire to the risks of opening a relationship, tackling jealousy, trust, male/female dynamics, same sex and group play.

All the answers provided are based on real life personal experiences as well as patterns observed when coaching clients.

Do you have a question too? DM us on Instagram!

Or Book A Call With Us

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>> Mentioned Link to episode 02: Listen on Apple or Listen on Spotify to learn how exploring sex with others has strengthened our relationship

>> Mentioned Link to episode 10: Listen on Apple or Listen on Spotify to learn more about Chiara’s first and only experience as a Unicorn

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01:42 Let's Answer Your Questions Live: Relationship Dynamics

02:54 Q1. My Partner Does Not Feel Like Having Sex With Me: Should I Open My Relationship?

04:06 The Risks of Opening a Relationship

05:53 You Gotta Build Trust and Communication

07:54 How To Explore Non-Monogamy Safely

09:18 Q2. How Do I Know If My Partner Is Into Kink?

12:47 Q3. I am So Jealous! How Do I Deal With Jealousy?

16:56 "Can I Kiss Him...?" - Play This Game

25:23 How To Navigate Relationship Insecurities

26:36 Embracing Jealousy Can Keep You Safe

27:48 Your Body Knows and We Have All The Answers Inside

28:53 The Importance of Respect and Boundaries in Non-Monogamy... and in Monogamy Too!

30:41 How To Communicate Clearly and Gain/Give Trust in Relationships

33:51 Q4. Am I Bi-Curious?

40:35 Q5. How Can A Man Have Sex When Another Man is Present?

42:22 Let's Explore Male Energy and Group Play Dynamics

45:25 Sexual Conditioning: What It Is (Not) Doing For You

46:41 Open Conversations Lead To Heavenly Bliss

47:31 Get In Touch

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WHO IS WILL

Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.

WHO IS CHIARA

Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.

WHO IS ALLIE

Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.

For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.

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Today we are exploring more fantasies…

Have you dreamt of joining a threesome but never dared ask your partner? It’s a universal fantasy, and one that can become reality with trust and good communication.

In this episode, we share another intimate experience where we pushed our sexual boundaries further than ever before: Will is away on an expedition, but agrees to “lend” Chiara for the night as a Unicorn to Allie and her husband…

He talks vulnerably about his internal struggle between a positively erotic idea and the negative social conditioning around masculinity and ownership that would mark this as “wrong”.

He also explains the strong bond he created with Allie’s man, the complete trust and clear communication that they have, highlighting the significance of male, brotherly energy and trust.

Our goal in sharing this story is to show you what’s possible when the bond in a couple is so strong, and complete trust has been achieved: we would have not been able to do this before our sexual deconditioning journey began!

We want to inspire others to embrace sexual liberation by learning communication, vulnerability and fun in a relationship.

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00:00 A Charged Night on a Cold Mountain

01:32 A Our Goal For Today’s Episode

02:44 The Unicorn Experience

02:57 What Is A Unicorn

04:29 A Bold Experiment: Lending My Girl for a Night

04:29 The Caving Expedition

05:05 An Unforgettable Night

06:02 The Sexy Shenanigans Begin

08:28 No Panties Date!

10:11 A Buffet Of Toys

12:03 A Wild Night On Top Of A Mountain

13:01 Reflections and Revelations: The Aftermath of an Erotic Adventure

14:06 Allie's Experience

14:23 What The Depth Of A Strong Bond Can Bring

15:12 The Potential Risks Of Damaging Relationships

15:56 Chiara's Side: What It Feels Like To Be A Unicorn

16:32 Your Husband Made Me Feel So Safe I Could Relax

17:22 The Mind Battling With Conditioning

18:36 Don’t Fuck It Up

21:10 Will's Takeaways

22:43 You Need A Healthy Balance

24:05 Testing Boundaries: Now We Know What We CAN do

24:58 Why We Do This

27:15 Your Husband Is A Honorable Man

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WHO IS WILL

Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.

WHO IS CHIARA

Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.

WHO IS ALLIE

Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.

For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.

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What is “The Lifestyle” with capital L? Who are “Vanilla Friends”? Should you tell them that you are curious and “Spicy”? We discuss all this and more in this very raw, honest and heartfelt episode of Deeper Sex.

While we could not wish for deeper connections and the personal growth that we gained from diving into Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM), we have also discovered how many common misconceptions most people (including our old selves) have about it, and we address the careful communication that is required to avoid fu**ing up friendships and relationships.

The hosts Allie, Will and Chiara share personal anecdotes about assessing friends' readiness to hear about alternative sexual experiences, emphasizing the importance of respecting friends’ boundaries. They also discuss the delicate balance between potential risks and rewards of dragging vanilla friends into their s*x play.

Our objective is, as always, to demystify society’s misconceptions, promote open mindedness and sexual liberation: this is the secret recipe to a great sex life!

If you’re looking for practical advice on how to navigate conversations about your curiosity, interest and/or participation in non-monogamy, this is it!

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01:12 Let’s Explore Alternative S*xual Lifestyles

03:45 Being Open: The Struggle Is Real!

05:52 Maintaining Friendships While Being Your Authentic True Self

07:14 A Journey to Acceptance + Finding Like-Minded Friends

08:01 The Challenges of Mixing Vanilla and Spicy Worlds

08:40 Ethical Non Monogamy (ENM) and Swinging: A Liberating Experience

18:43 Deep Emotional Bonds and Deeper Trust

20:55 When "Coming Out" Can Be a Challenge

25:58 Is the Lifestyle and ENM Superficial?

27:26 What “Normal” People Think Of the Lifestyle: The Misconceptions We Didn’t Expect

29:06 Our Podcast’s Mission

29:50 Aren't You Jealous...?

32:52 Trusting Yourself and Your Partner

37:03 Should I Drag Friends Into This?

38:43 Have S*x With Friends: The Good, The Bad and The Ugly

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WHO IS WILL

Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.

WHO IS CHIARA

Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.

WHO IS ALLIE

Allie is an experienced meditation coach, sound healer and yoga teacher. She works with individuals and couples to help them reduce stress, find emotional balance and foster self-awareness. Inspired by science and personal experience, she's on a mission to discover and share the best modalities to maintain an exciting sexual life.

For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.

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Join Will and Chiara live from the podcast bed this weekend in Berlin, the latest stop on their sexy European tour 2024. We check out some new kinky corners of the city’s vibrant underground scene – from a sophisticated penthouse swingers party to wild nights making new friends in sex-positive clubs for beautiful, soft connections.

We reflect on how mood and atmosphere can make or break a night – and how pausing to set intentions can be a total game changer.

Whether you’re in a monogamous or ENM relationship, or venturing into this world as a single dude/dudette, you’ll get plenty of useful tips on how you can get curious and push your sexy boundaries in a safe space.

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>> Link to episode on Body Image (04) and how to become “comfortable in your own body”: Listen on Apple or Listen on Spotify

>> Link to episode on Sensuality and Soft Touch as a way to connect deeper with your partner (07): Listen on Apple or Listen on Spotify

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01:21 Live Streaming From Berlin

02:02 An Unexpected Penthouse Swingers Party

05:38 Night N. 1: Our First Visit To Insomnia - A Hedonistic Lifestyle Club

12:41 How To Safely Connect With A Woman Without Being Intrusive

19:01 Night N. 2: KitKat Club

19:59 How You Perceive Your Own Body Heavily Impacts Your Experience

20:32 Choosing the Perfect Outfit

21:00 KitKat Club: Getting In

22:10 People Watching at KitKat

23:45 How Setting An Intentions Can 100x Your Night

24:29 More Female Energy Please!

25:45 Dancing and Making Connections

26:23 A Sensual Experience

27:15 Holding Hands and Making Friends

32:02 Exploring Boundaries

33:27 A Blowjob On The Dancefloor's Podium

34:45 Unexpected Scenes

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WHO IS WILL

Will is a psychologist, journalist, entrepreneur, spin doctor, executive advisor and father. Today, Will works as a coach and retreat facilitator, following his vocation to help others unblock their lives and find meaning and happiness. Will is married to Chiara and could not possibly be happier.

WHO IS CHIARA

Chiara is an ICF-certified professional Co-Active Coach® with a masters in business communication. She was a director for a tech pioneer where she led sales teams for 15 years. Today Chiara guides men and women to discover the power of their sexuality, reconnect with their bodies and embark on beautiful adventures in sensuality.

For more info about the hosts, and to book a call, CLICK HERE.

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