• Decluttering Untangled with Heather Tingle : How to declutter when you're overwhelmed, ADHD or Autistic

  • By: Heather Tingle
  • Podcast

Decluttering Untangled with Heather Tingle : How to declutter when you're overwhelmed, ADHD or Autistic

By: Heather Tingle
  • Summary

  • In this podcast, Heather will teach you what really works, and what doesn't, to successfully declutter your home - as when you're overwhelmed, ADHD or Autistic, it isn't just a case of hiring a skip and having a big sort out - it's not that easy!

    Heather is an expert in working with families that live in chaos, and all the challenges that brings. She is Autistic and has ADHD so knows all about how neurodiversity links to clutter. As a naturally messy person herself, she can show you how to live in a clean, clutter free and organised home regardless of the issues you face. She thrives on creating strategies and systems that work for real families. Transforming your cluttered homes to calm, safe spaces can also improve your mental, physical and financial health, learn all about it in this podcast.

    Heather Tingle has been a member of The Association of Professional Declutterers and Organisers since 2016. She and her family have had hoarding tendencies, living in messy homes, stuck in that never ending, exhausting cycle of chores and tidying. She decluttered her home and found a new, calmer and more content way to live. She now supports clients in person and online to achieve the same outcome in their own homes - and now you can learn how she does it through this podcast too!

    © 2025 Heather Tingle trading as Untangled by Tingle
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Episodes
  • 065 - How our past impacts decluttering
    Jan 17 2025

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    Summary

    In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle explores the psychological aspects of decluttering, particularly how trauma influences our attachment to objects. She discusses the emotional weight of items linked to negative experiences, the impact of financial trauma and scarcity mindset, and the feelings of shame that can arise from clutter. Heather emphasises the importance of building trust in one's decision-making process and encourages listeners to embrace their true selves in their living spaces.

    Chapters

    00:00
    Understanding Trauma and Decluttering

    02:52
    The Emotional Weight of Objects

    06:14
    Financial Trauma and Scarcity Mindset

    08:36
    Shame, Self-Confidence, and Authenticity


    Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!

    Follow me on Facebook

    Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link)

    Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home.

    Follow me on instagram

    Feel free to email me: help@untangledbytingle.com
    Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.


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    11 mins
  • 064 - Understanding how trauma stops us decluttering
    Jan 10 2025

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    Summary

    In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle explores the intricate relationship between trauma and clutter. She discusses how past experiences shape our attachment to items, the psychological barriers to decluttering, and the importance of self-compassion in the process. Heather emphasises the need to understand our fears, judgments, and emotional attachments to items, particularly in the context of neurodivergence.

    The conversation highlights strategies for navigating sentimental items and grief, ultimately encouraging listeners to find a balance between memories and living in the present.

    Takeaways

    • Understanding the connection between trauma and clutter is crucial.
    • Self-compassion is key in the decluttering process.
    • Fear of letting go often stems from past experiences.
    • Judgment from self and others can hinder decluttering efforts.
    • Emotional attachments to items can amplify due to trauma.
    • It's okay to feel upset when letting go of items.
    • Working through 'what if' scenarios can provide clarity.
    • Letting go of items doesn't mean losing memories.
    • Finding ways to honor memories without physical items is important.
    • Being kind to oneself is essential in the journey of decluttering.


    Chapters

    00:00
    Understanding Trauma and Clutter

    05:46
    Judgment and Emotional Attachment


    Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!

    Follow me on Facebook

    Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link)

    Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home.

    Follow me on instagram

    Feel free to email me: help@untangledbytingle.com
    Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.


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    14 mins
  • 063 - 3 More Easy Wins to kick start your Decluttering
    Jan 3 2025

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    Summary

    In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle shares three easy wins for decluttering that can help listeners feel accomplished and motivated. The conversation covers therapeutic decluttering of pens, streamlining filing systems by letting go of unnecessary paperwork, and evaluating kitchen cutlery to remove unused items. Heather emphasises the importance of being kind to oneself during the decluttering process and encourages listeners to take small steps towards a more organised space.

    Takeaways

    • It's okay to let go of pens that don't work.
    • You don't need to keep old instruction manuals.
    • Streamline your filing system by removing outdated items.
    • Evaluate kitchen cutlery and keep only what you use.
    • Consider donating items you no longer need.
    • Decluttering can be a therapeutic activity.
    • Small wins can lead to greater motivation.
    • Be kind to yourself during the decluttering process.
    • Letting go of items creates space for what matters.
    • You are not alone in your decluttering journey.


    Chapters

    00:00
    Introduction to Easy Wins in Decluttering

    02:20
    Therapeutic Decluttering: Pens and Stationery

    03:50
    Streamlining Your Filing System

    05:14
    Kitchen Cutlery: Letting Go of Unused Items

    Pens for Kids Charity Website


    Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!

    Follow me on Facebook

    Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link)

    Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home.

    Follow me on instagram

    Feel free to email me: help@untangledbytingle.com
    Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.


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    7 mins

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