Tired of dating feeling like Groundhog Day? In today's episode I share the proven framework that helps my clients break free from dating frustration and create real results. If you've hit a wall with dating apps, feel stuck in negative patterns, or wonder why nothing seems to work - this episode is for you.

Episode Highlights:

🔍 Why traditional dating advice fails divorced women

• The trap of jumping on and off dating apps without a strategy
• How "putting yourself out there" without skills leads to disappointment
• The real reason why having 100+ first dates might not lead to finding your person
• The fairytale vs. reality mindset shift that changes everything
• Why treating dating like a growth project (not a shopping trip) creates success
• How one client found love by committing to 2 parties per week for 5 weeks

Ready to Reinvent Your Dating Life?

Stop hoping things will magically change and start creating real transformation. I walk my Dating After Divorce Academy clients through this exact framework, providing support and accountability every step of the way.

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Resources Mentioned:

• Podcast Episode 6: Phases of the Dating Journey

Remember: A reinvention isn't about small tweaks - it's about creating a radical shift in how you approach dating and relationships. Let me help you make that shift.

Let's talk about a pattern I see in many divorced women - the reluctance to fight for the relationship they want. Through the lens of "learned helplessness," I explore why capable, strong women who fought for their first marriages often hold back in their post-divorce dating journey.

Key Insights:

• The difference between fighting for a specific person versus fighting for your desired relationship outcome
• How past relationship trauma creates false beliefs about our dating options
• Why validating dating struggles with friends can keep you stuck
• The truth about effort: dating takes more work than we expect (just like everything worthwhile)

Ask yourself: "Why am I not fighting for this relationship goal with the same determination I bring to other areas of my life?" Your answer reveals where to focus your energy.

Book Reference: "Learned Optimism" by Martin Seligman - A foundational text for understanding how we can break free from learned helplessness patterns

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In this deep-dive episode, I explore our complex relationship with time in dating after divorce, challenging the common belief that dating is a "waste of time." As part of my three-episode series about time, we examine how this mindset affects your dating journey and what to do about it.

Key Concepts Explored:

What Actually Wastes Time in Dating:
- Dating without a strong "why" or due to external pressure
- Pursuing someone who clearly stated they don't want what you want
- Trying to convince uninterested people to date you
- Fantasy relationships and passive dating
- Repeating the same dating patterns without learning or growth

Common Questions Addressed:
- What if I'm truly too busy to date?
- How do I know if I'm investing time wisely in dating?
- When is it okay to stop seeing someone to "save time"?
- How can I date efficiently without compromising on what matters?
- What's the difference between being selective and over-filtering?

Ready to Transform Your Dating Journey?
If you're ready to shift your relationship with time and dating, let's talk. Book a consultation call to explore:
- Your unique dating patterns and time-related concerns
- How to create an efficient, values-aligned dating strategy
- Whether working together could help you find love in 2025
- Specific steps to move from passive to intentional dating

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The Dating After Divorce Academy provides:
- Clear strategies to date efficiently
- Support in overcoming mindset blocks
- Tools to evaluate potential partners
- A process for authentic connection
- Community of like-minded women

Additional Resources:
- Episode 219: Thoughts About Dating at Your Age
- Episode 220: Dating Older and Younger Men

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