Jessica tells her story of grief, support and how she copes following the loss of one of her twins babies. She hopes to raise awareness to help others deal with similar situations and offers hope for the future. This connection was made on Reddit. Transcript:----more---- 0:00:00.000,0:00:05.440 she was a twin her sister passed away 0:00:03.360,0:00:06.640 in the hospital from an infection it's 0:00:05.440,0:00:08.639 one of those things where we're actually 0:00:06.640,0:00:09.440 engaged in litigation with the hospital 0:00:08.639,0:00:11.920 because 0:00:09.440,0:00:13.280 it was pretty blatant negligence like i 0:00:11.920,0:00:16.280 really do remember 0:00:13.280,0:00:18.600 just trying to exist and survive 0:00:16.280,0:00:19.700 [Music] 0:00:18.600,0:00:24.480 [Applause] 0:00:19.700,0:00:27.519 [Music] 0:00:24.480,0:00:28.240 hello welcome to life it is just me the 0:00:27.519,0:00:29.599 podcast 0:00:28.240,0:00:31.679 where we talk about the things that 0:00:29.599,0:00:34.399 we're all going through we'll 0:00:31.679,0:00:36.079 have to deal with in life my name's paul 0:00:34.399,0:00:39.760 i'm joined today by ryan and 0:00:36.079,0:00:41.200 jessica hi guys hi how are you doing 0:00:39.760,0:00:43.520 really really good ryan how are you i'm 0:00:41.200,0:00:46.480 all right what about you paul 0:00:43.520,0:00:46.480 nobody ever asks you 0:00:46.879,0:00:50.800 i'm good i know well that's what happens 0:00:49.200,0:00:54.559 and you always do the intro so 0:00:50.800,0:00:57.440 what's to be expected and that's right 0:00:54.559,0:00:58.000 we are here to talk about having kids 0:00:57.440,0:01:00.640 having 0:00:58.000,0:01:02.800 children this is our focus for our our 0:01:00.640,0:01:05.040 season just now our first season yes 0:01:02.800,0:01:05.840 we don't offer any judgment we're just 0:01:05.040,0:01:07.520 here to 0:01:05.840,0:01:09.119 bring you some ideas and some stories 0:01:07.520,0:01:11.119 and some experiences from people 0:01:09.119,0:01:12.320 all around the world jessica that is why 0:01:11.119,0:01:14.159 you are here tell us a bit about 0:01:12.320,0:01:17.360 yourself please 0:01:14.159,0:01:19.360 um i'm an american from the middle of 0:01:17.360,0:01:21.600 america and like i said earlier let me 0:01:19.360,0:01:24.640 just apologize on behalf of 0:01:21.600,0:01:27.680 at least half of my country um 0:01:24.640,0:01:28.960 i'm i've been married for nine years 0:01:27.680,0:01:32.000 today actually it's 0:01:28.960,0:01:32.720 awesome oh congratulations yeah thank 0:01:32.000,0:01:34.960 you 0:01:32.720,0:01:37.680 um all i want well thank you for joining 0:01:34.960,0:01:40.640 us power at my house 0:01:37.680,0:01:42.240 it's a short list i'm glad you mentioned 0:01:40.640,0:01:43.439 the presidency because 0:01:42.240,0:01:44.640 i just i was going to mention it you 0:01:43.439,0:01:45.360 know in case someone's listening to this 0:01:44.640,0:01:47.520 and i don't know 0:01:45.360,0:01:48.479 2027 or something right now literally we 0:01:47.520,0:01:50.799 are awaiting 0:01:48.479,0:01:55.840 the results of some key states for the 0:01:50.799,0:01:55.840 2020 presidential election 0:02:00.240,0:02:05.840 yeah also you 100 0:02:03.759,0:02:07.200 you mentioned the electricity in your 0:02:05.840,0:02:10.000 house 0:02:07.200,0:02:10.640 yes we just had a really terrible ice 0:02:10.000,0:02:13.280 storm 0:02:10.640,0:02:14.959 so um everything was frozen and the 0:02:13.280,0:02:16.959 trees split and 0:02:14.959,0:02:18.080 knocked down a lot of lines and half the 0:02:16.959,0:02:21.120 city 0:02:18.080,0:02:23.440 um this was last tuesday i haven't had 0:02:21.120,0:02:24.959 power at my house since last tuesday so 0:02:23.440,0:02:27.440 i have been 0:02:24.959,0:02:29.120 living in a one-bedroom condo that some 0:02:27.440,0:02:30.800 friends of ours owns we're very very 0:02:29.120,0:02:32.000 fortunate on our end 0:02:30.800,0:02:33.920 but i've also means i've been 0:02:32.000,0:02:38.640 co-sleeping with a four-year-old 0:02:33.920,0:02:42.160 and do not recommend zero out of ten 0:02:38.640,0:02:44.480 i do not recommend so 0:02:42.160,0:02:46.720 i've been i've been kicked i have been 0:02:44.480,0:02:48.720 slapped i've been pushed 0:02:46.720,0:02:51.280 um i don't know how people i don't know 0:02:48.720,0:02:54.239 how people do that so 0:02:51.280,0:02:55.920 yes that's where that's where i'm at i 0:02:54.239,0:02:57.120 guess that sets the scene quite nicely 0:02:55.920,0:02:58.560 in there 0:02:57.120,0:03:00.720 you've told us about who you are and 0:02:58.560,0:03:04.159 certainly you you have a kid 0:03:00.720,0:03:06.159 you've got a four-year-old um and 0:03:04.159,0:03:07.360 tell us then about about your life 0:03:06.159,0:03:10.480 you're 34 just now 0:03:07.360,0:03:14.159 and you're how old is your is your child 0:03:10.480,0:03:17.360 she's four she's four now um 0:03:14.159,0:03:18.800 so i had her in 2016 when the world was 0:...
