Is today one of those days when you’re thinking to yourself…I’ve been working so hard since my bariatric surgery and I’m not where I want to be. It’s just not happening for me. I feel like I’m sliding backwards. I’m burned out. I hear you. At times, it does seem like there are so many ‘to-dos’ after surgery that you can feel overwhelmed. "You mean, I have to do this forever?" Take a deep breath…. it’s time for a little soul care. Let’s look at what I call radical doability before and after bariatric surgery using the mnemonic REST: R.E.S.T.

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Resources:

EP 181 Ditch the Drama: Here's how to say NO to Food Pushers after Bariatric Surgery & GLP1s

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Podcast Guests:

Connie Stapleton, Ph.D.

Website: http://www.conniestapletonphd.com

BariAftercare: The Podcast

Mind Prep The Book: How To Prepare for Bariatric Surgery and Live as a Healthy Post-Op: Mind Prep: The Book

BariAftercare Daily Progress Journal

Gayle Brazzi Smith MS, RDN, CSOWM, LDN

Registered & Licensed Dietitian

Weight Loss and Bariatric Surgery Institute

Orlando, FL

Email: gayle.brazzismith@orlandohealth.com

Website: OrlandoHealth.com/Bariatrics

Bariatric Dietitian Isabel Maples, RD

Bariatric Coordinator

UVA Health in Haymarket, Virginia

Email: ggw5ud@uvahealth.org

EP #134 How WLS Affects Relationships: Bariatric Mental Health Q & A

https://www.breakingdownnutrition.com/blog/134-how-wls-affects-relationships-bariatric-mental-health-q-a

Keywords

food pushers, bariatric surgery, emotional eating, nutrition, boundaries, psychological aspects, family dynamics, coping strategies, bariatric dietitian, self-care

Summary

In this episode, Dr. Susan Mitchell and her guests discuss the phenomenon of food pushers, exploring the psychological motivations behind their behavior and offering practical strategies for dealing with them. The conversation delves into the emotional aspects of eating, the importance of setting boundaries, and how to navigate family dynamics surrounding food. Listeners are encouraged to practice saying no and to understand that food pushers often project their own issues onto others.

Takeaways

• Food pushers often push their issues onto others.
• It's important to be in control of your mind, body, and spirit.
• Learning to say no is a critical skill for healthy living.
• Hurt people tend to hurt others, including themselves.
• Setting boundaries is a form of self-love.
• Practicing saying no can help build confidence.
• Changing the subject can deflect food pushers' advances.
• Expressing appreciation for food can help ease guilt.
• Understanding the psychology behind food pushers can aid in coping.

Titles

• Navigating the World of Food Pushers
• Understanding the Psychology of Food Pushers

Sound Bites

• "Hurt people, hurt people."
• "Setting boundaries is an act of self-love."
• "Practice saying no in front of a mirror."

Chapters

00:00

Understanding Food Pushers

10:24

The Emotional Dynamics of Food Pushers

20:35

Setting Boundaries with Food Pushers

Did you know that huge, rapid weight loss whether from bariatric surgery, weight loss meds or a hybrid of the two can result in a 20-25% loss of muscle mass? Did you catch that? 20-25% loss of muscle mass! Yes, they’re all the rage right now….weight loss medications also known as obesity meds and GLP-1 medications.

As medical professionals, we tend to use the term obesity medications. Why? Because obesity truly is a disease and these meds treat more than just weight with positive effects on diabetes, blood fats, blood pressure, food noise, cravings and more. Studies are finding that the use of these medications, when appropriate, in combination with bariatric surgery can result in even more long term, weight loss success.

But what about this loss of your muscle mass along with the weight? How does the loss of muscle mass affect your success long term and even your health? What do you need to know right now to preserve or increase your muscle mass so you enjoy great success? Bariatric sports dieititian Kim Tirapelle joins me to answer these questions and more. You don’t want to miss this discussion.

Podcast Guest:

Kim Tirapelle, MS, RD, CSSD

Bariatric Sports Dietitian

Website: www.activebariatricnutrition.com

Podcast: www.activebariatricnutrition.com/podcast

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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4QJLjJ5vSzbCiXTlR59Tpw

TikTok: @ActiveBariatricNutrition

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ActiveBariatric

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Are you feeling some stress right now from all of the holiday events plus your own shopping and preparation? Need a long winter’s nap? Is your sleep being affected or are you just not getting enough of it right now? About how many hours of sleep a night do you average? Five or less? Seven or more?

What do you think? Can getting the sleep your body craves keep you from feeling hungry? Could a good night’s sleep even affect your weight and that dreaded weight regain after surgery? Here’s what you need to know about sleep right now to stay on track this season.

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Let’s talk sleep. Are you dragging booty today? How many hours of sleep did you get last night? Did you know that a good night’s sleep of seven or more hours can affect your weight now and weight regain down the track? Sleep is like nutrition for your brain. Let me explain.

If you’re what’s called a short sleeper, you’re averaging 5 hours or less a night. Being a short sleeper is tied to being hungry and gaining weight. Totally the opposite of what happens when you sleep 7 or more hours a night.

Sleep improves what’s dietitians call food restraint. This means that when you’re adequately rested, you tend to have more control over what you choose to eat and when you choose to eat it. This is the opposite of what happens when you’re stressed and tired and when eating the door off the refrigerator looks like a good option. Know what I mean? The decisions you make about what to eat, when you’re sleep deprived, are not your best ones. Think about it…do you notice it to be true for you? You’re tired and you’re hungry and you tend to crave carbs.

Find out many more benefits of sleep to prevent weight gain and what you can do this week to make a difference. Listen to the podcast now.

I can almost hear you moan as you say to me, “how do I survive the holidays without weight regain? What can I eat? What about dessert? Can I drink a holiday cocktail? Can I have my favorite foods without kicking in cravings or imploding my nutrition plan?” Bariatric dietitian Gayle Smith joins me to answer all of your holiday questions so you have a plan.

Podcast Guest:

Gayle Brazzi Smith MS, RDN, CSOWM, LDN

Registered & Licensed Dietitian

Weight Loss and Bariatric Surgery Institute

Orlando, FL

Email: gayle.brazzismith@orlandohealth.com

Website: OrlandoHealth.com/Bariatrics

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RESOURCES:

Is alcohol after bariatric surgery risky? EP 171

Zesty pomegranate mocktail

“I don’t want to regain weight. I’m not so sure that I want to go back to a regular diet either. What if my cravings come back?” I hear you and I hear this a lot. These questions are totally valid. How do you eat for long term success after bariatric surgery? Let’s go beyond the surgery and look at 7 smart-eating tips for bariatric success now and down the road.

RESOURCES:

FREEBIE: Protein: 10 tips that work daily for a successful journey

Helpful podcast episodes:

Can’t Poop? Add these 7 foods to your diet

Conquering the Big C: Constipation after WLS

Can you really eat carbs?

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Tips discussed in depth:

1. become aware of the size of your bites
2. ditch the grazing
3. divide food into 3 meals + 1-2 snacks
4. eat protein first
5. deep dive on protein
6. choose smart carbs
7. focus on fluids

It’s not the before mindset, it’s the after surgery mindset a few years down the track when you fall back into those old habits.That’s the headspace no one talks about prior to surgery. Until now. You don’t want to miss this. Bariatric psychologist Dr. Connie Stapleton joins me to share what to do down the road when the wheels fall off. Whether its from self sabotage, or sabotage by those who love you, emotional eating, bullying, depression…/whatever it is…we’re talking about how to go from a setback to a comeback and regain control of your bariatric lifestyle.

Podcast Guest:

Connie Stapleton, Ph.D.

Website: http://www.conniestapletonphd.com

BariAftercare: The Podcast

Mind Prep The Book: How To Prepare for Bariatric Surgery and Live as a Healthy Post-Op: Mind Prep: The Book

BariAftercare Daily Progress Journal

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RESOURCES

Freebie: Sheet Pan Dinners

EP 100 Transfer Addiction

This is an exciting time, isn’t it? You’ve had metabolic and bariatric surgery and your new transformation has begun. But who are we kidding? It can also be a time of confusion and uncertainty. What do you eat now? In the next few days? What about these first 6-8 weeks? It can be overwhelming but I’m here to help you. I have helpful tips and suggested recommendations so you get the best outcome on your new journey.

Tip 1: you will fill up much more quickly than you did before surgery. Because you don’t have a lot of room for quantity, eat your protein food first. Chew it so well that you’re like a blender and it becomes pureed similar to baby food in your mouth. You want to get in that 60-80 grams of protein a day so starting with it first helps you be successful with that daily goal. Plus protein makes you feel full and satisfied.

Tip 2: this is the time to learn to eat very slowly with a meal taking 20-30 minutes. I know, unheard of here in the US where our meals tend to be gulp and go. Taking your time lets you feel and learn fullness cues. Stop when you are full and prevent vomiting and the stretching of your pouch from overeating.

Tip 3: now is the time to separate liquids from solid food. What does that mean? You may have heard it call the 30-30 rule. It means to drink your beverages 15-30 minutes before you eat and 30 minutes after you eat. Why does this matter? Your capacity for food is much smaller and you want to meet your food and fluid goals. You will accomplish this more easily by separating liquids from food. Remember 8+ cups of water or 2 plus liters is what you are aiming for each day along with your food.

Resources mentioned:

EP 50 How to choose the best protein powder

The 30-30 rules: do you need to follow it?

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