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It is likely that you have been recently told by a spouse, friend, family member, or health-care provider that you have OCPD. What does that mean to you? You have been the same way all of your life. All of your family members have likely been this way as well. You involve yourself deeply in your work and in ensuring that your family and yourself are well provided for. Your employer seems to be happy with your hard work and perseverance. You are stable and grounded.

There is a simple explanation for our inability to tolerate a narcissist's behavior. The basic reason why we start to feel off balance in our relationship with a narcissist revolves around something called the law of reciprocity.

Many people blame cheating and adultery on the weakness of the man. They blame it on the temptations that he's around every day.... The truth is that many men cheat for a very different reason - a reason that many women and men aren't even aware of until it's too late. He is left not knowing why he destroyed something good, and she is left with a big hole in her heart, unsure if she will ever be able to trust again. The reason that I discuss in this audiobook is one that pretty much ensures that he will cheat again...

One of the main causes of OCPD or negative perfectionism is an internal lack of self-confidence. A child with OCPD parents was often told exactly what to do and what not to do. There was never any room for the child to make a mistake and learn from it, nor was there any room to test out new skills or try new things in a no-pressure situation. Due to this, you were not often given the ability to do things that would build up your own self-confidence.

It is no doubt that you or someone you know has wasted a considerable amount of time dating or marrying the wrong man - the man that we call Mr. Unavailable. He is stealthy. He is ruthless. He drives us stark raving mad. We wonder why love, marriage and companionship evades us. There is a good reason why this occurs, and I am about to disclose some very important information to you so that you stop making the same mistakes over and over again.

Anxiety is one of the most common conditions that are plaguing people all around you. We are in a world that is filled with reasons to worry: from survival to feeding our families to making sure our boss is happy. We see people spending billions of dollars on health care trying to treat the anxiety epidemic.

Your perfectionism is holding you back from truly enjoying life. Let yourself finally experience the things that other people are experiencing. Feel the senses of joy and security that come with being alive. Stop feeling insecure, out of control, depressed, and anxious. We can teach you seven activities to slowly implement each day into your life.

You are struggling with an OCPD spouse who is driving you crazy. You want to be carefree and spontaneous. But at home you are faced with demands, critiques, and rigidity. You want to have fun with your husband, but he just plain seems like a stubborn ox at times (or maybe all the time, depending upon how bad his symptoms are). Please download our OCPD series of books in order to learn more about your spouse's disorder, the reason behind the disorder, and your choices when it comes to an OCPD marriage.

Narcissists can have many traits that may be undesirable to others, especially in a relationship dynamic. They often talk down to others or criticize them. They live by their own morals and values, which may change as it suits them. They can be extremely vain and self-conscious, constantly being fussy about little things. They don't enjoy intimacy and connectedness that others enjoy in relationships. The world seems to revolve around the person with Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

You're down in the dumps and feeling blue. This may be the first time that you have experienced depression, or it may be a chronic part of your life. It may be situational depression, or it may be from your genetics. You are tired of feeling the way that you do. You want to experience the happiness and the joy that others around you are feeling. You want to wake up every day with a smile on your face, instead of a dark cloud hanging over your head.

Don't wait decades (like I did) to learn the secrets of landing and keeping a great guy! I will tell you how I finally landed the elusive man of my dreams!

If you downloaded this book to better help with your self-regulation as an adult, you're in the right place! Many adults find themselves in their adult life, feeling like they still haven't mastered their abilities to self-regulate and control their emotions appropriately. There are many emotions that we struggle with each and every day, like anger and anxiety.

Are you tired of not getting what you want out of life? Are you angry, frustrated, depressed and feeling stuck? I felt this way about 15 years ago. I hit the wall, and I was lost on how to proceed with my life. I wasn't getting what I wanted from my relationships or my job. I was down in the dumps and unhappy with my life. I wondered how I had gotten here. And once I stopped wondering about that, I started trying to figure out what to do about it.

I'm sorry, sweetie," said Mrs. Rankin, "But you can't go." Natalie's face froze as she digested the words. I can't go? "Wh - why not?" But she had a feeling she already knew the answer. Mrs. Rankin swallowed, clearly uncomfortable, but in that moment, Natalie didn't care. Her stomach was filled with dread. "Our school buses don't have ramps, so there'd be no way for you to get on and off, or bring your chair with you."

Your mate has you walking on eggshells. It seems that no matter what you do, it isn't right. You are at your wits' end. These type of mates can make you feel crazy, frustrated, and chaotic. Maybe you are experiencing depression and anxiety. The gnawing feeling in the pit of your stomach. You wish that they would just be happy, and you feel responsible when they aren't happy.

This book will discuss the traits of a good mother in contrast with the traits of a bad mother. It will cover real cases of mothers with borderline personality disorder and some of the cruel treatment they gave their children. The children of seriously ill borderline mothers often grow up with posttraumatic stress disorder, borderline personality disorder, schizoid disorder, psychopathy, or narcissism. They can experience a wide range of physical and emotional conditions that are directly related to the chronic stress and the chaos that they lived through as children.

There are many women who are attracted to narcissistic, perfectionistic, self-absorbed men. Many of us continue to wonder why we fall for these guys time and time again. We will cover the various reasons below, and then give you tips to help you grow out of your need to continue relationships that are unfulfilling.

It is very likely that you have been involved with self-absorbed men in your life. Either you are working with one, you are married or dating one, or you are the child of a self-absorbed man. It is likely that you may be experiencing all three of these at any given moment.

OCPD sufferers WANT their relationships to work. So how come your relationship isn't working? Did you realize that your reaction to your OCPD partner's symptoms and personality may actually be causing their symptoms to WORSEN? Get your relationship under control before your partner's symptoms control you!

Your perfectionism is holding you back from truly enjoying life. Let yourself finally experience the things that other people are experiencing. Feel the sense of joy and security that comes with being alive. Stop feeling insecure, out of control, depressed, and anxious. We can teach you how to kick the negative perfection that is destroying your life!