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This book deconstructs a BDSM scene and rebuilds it component by component as we explain why you do what you do in a scene - and how to do it intentionally and reliably to achieve extraordinary, consistent results. By the time you have learned to implement this material, your toys will have become extensions of your will. You will know how to speak the physical language (in addition to the verbal language) of connection.

Susie's in Boston this week with erotica and science fiction writer Cecilia Tan, whose books include Telepaths Don't Need Safe Words and Valderet. Cecilia is also the author of the erotic short story The Little Mermaid. Then, in her mailbag, Susie helps a woman who wants her boyfriend to talk dirty to her and another from a blind man who says he's worried he can't please his wife.

Susie is safe but not sound after the terrorist attacks in NYC and Washington, D.C. The horror of these events and calls for retribution remind Susie of where her passions lie. And, speaking of passions, some of the suicide hijackers apparently spent their last night in a strip bar. This leads Susie to wonder about the sex lives of fundamentalists of all stripes. And, in her Try this at Home Mailbag, Susie advises a man whose girlfriend hates to be called "Yummy."

In this presentation, you'll learn about two crucially important precautions for fantastic oral sex, as well as how to overcome "oral sex phobia".

Today's show features a look at how erotic writers write. Susie shares her interview with Molly Weatherfield, author of the classic S&M novel Carrie's Story. First published in 1995 and regarded as one of the finest erotic novels ever written, it's smart, devastatingly sexy, and at times, shocking. It's now available as an audiobook, and Susie wanted to find out all the details that went into making this explicit, steamy story. She asks Molly about what other porn writers she enjoys reading and how the inspiration for Carrie's Story came. They also discuss fetish sex, fantasy, Regency romance, and BDSM.

A new drug, Truvada, is on the market - a preventative treatment for AIDS and HIV. This is really big news, says Susie, and she's wondering why there's been so little press on this health milestone. She explains what the new drug can and can't do. It's not for people looking for a Viagra-type boost when having casual sex. It's also not for those already infected with the AIDS virus. Where does it work? Those uninfected but at high risk will be good candidates, and also, surprisingly, this new treatment may be helpful for married couples if one partner is infected.