bake, love, and then live?

listen, im not telling you how to live but i think this is a pretty solid guide.

In case you listened to the very end: kids, money doesn't directly buy happinesses, but it certainly helps. And outside of working, outside of paying bills, rent, and taxes, outside of cooking, cleaning, and doing errands for yourself, being adult has its perks.

just so you know, if you have constructive critiscm to give me. I'm capable to listening and understanding, and reacting in a cooperative manner. if there's something im doing wrong, I WANT to know. I WANT to do better. So if im standing in the grey area or even the wrong side, point me to the right one, help me understand, and we'll go from there.

I say this because I'm fully aware that sometimes people just want to help, but sometimes things can go so terribly wrong. Sometimes you want to speak out loud, do what feels right, but there's also this terrible fear and reality that someone can react aggressive towards you because of it. You don't want to get hurt, emotionally or physically, and if we lived in a world full of angels, you shouldn't.

you get a pickle! you get a pickle! and you get a pickle!

take a shot every time i say "awkward"

systems.

uhhhhh

i was gonna write more words but i genuinely forgot what i talked about.

do you ever go on a tangent and talk about complete nonsense, only to listen back and disagree with what you just said?

like those questions about what time do you sleep and wake up? no no no, i wholeheartedly believe that they can sometimes be innocent questions just out of curiousity. or it helps someone to get to know you if they can visualize a day with you.

Skincase? listen. i think as long as someone doesnt immediately go into a crash course about it anytime i ask a simple question about it, i just might be able to learn.

to me this was a big topic to touch on, i did get nervous and i did blank out a little bit. what did i even talk about?

i'm not sure, but here's what i want to be the takeaway:

Yes, looks shouldnt matter. Beauty standards and trends these days that shapes and feeds this physical obsession is unheathly and unnecessary. Yes, if an attractive person who is close to society's beauty standard says beauty does not matter, i would agree. it is not everything and it should not matter. Yet, i am compelled to also acknowledge that it is not the reality yet. And in this material world, where people who are not anywhere or simply close enough to society's beauty standards, will often be treated differently. Pretty privilege exist. It does not take away from the struggles people who are considered attractive experience, but it certainly should not silent the struggles people go through everyday simply because they don't live up to a beauty standard set by society.

Treat everyone with kindness.

Treat everyone with consideration.

Treat people like a human being.