• control: the hidden dynamic of all marriages

  • Oct 4 2023
  • Length: 24 mins
  • Podcast

control: the hidden dynamic of all marriages

  • Summary

  • The default area most therapist and counselors will guide couples on is communication. This is wrong. Not because communication isn't important, because it is. But communication is not the root. What needs to be discussed from a Biblical perspective is control. This episode we'll talk about the nature of its root and why it is a prevalent challenge, and how to address it.

    The default area most therapist and counselors will guide couples on is communication. This is wrong. Not because communication isn't important, because it is. But communication is not the root. What needs to be discussed from a Biblical perspective is control. This episode we'll talk about the nature of its root and why it is a prevalent challenge, and how to address it.



    16 To the woman he said,


    “I will make your pains in childbearing very severe;

    with painful labor you will give birth to children.d

    Your desire will be for your husband,

    and he will rule over you.e” Genesis 3:16 NIV



    16 To the woman he said,


    “I will surely multiply your pain in childbearing;

    iin pain you shall bring forth children.

    jYour desire shall be contrary to6 your husband,

    but he shall krule over you.” Genesis 3:16 ESV



    16 Then he said to the woman,


    “I will sharpen the pain of your pregnancy,

    and in pain you will give birth.

    And you will desire to control your husband,

    but he will rule over you.* ” Genesis 3:16 NLT


    You will be accepted if you do what is right. But if you refuse to do what is right, then watch out! Sin is crouching at the door, eager to control you. But you must subdue it and be its master.” 


    Tyndale House Publishers, Holy Bible: New Living Translation (Carol Stream, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, 2015), Ge 4:7.



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