• Why Avoiding Your Feelings is Like Trying to Hide a Hippo in a Phone Booth

  • Nov 3 2024
  • Length: 1 hr and 1 min
  • Podcast

Why Avoiding Your Feelings is Like Trying to Hide a Hippo in a Phone Booth

  • Summary

  • In this episode of the AnxietyRX Podcast, I chat with Terry Baranski, an Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapist, about some fresh, non-traditional ways to tackle anxiety.

    Terry shares his interesting path from computer science to therapy, stressing how crucial it is to understand trauma and the mind-body connection. We also take a closer look at why some traditional therapies miss the mark and explore how IFS and compassionate inquiry can lead to real healing and self-compassion.

    Join us for an insightful conversation that might just change your perspective on anxiety!

    Thank you for listening and you can find me on IG: @theanxietymd if you have any questions.

    PS. If you would like to join the MBRX family of 4000+ anxiety WARRIORS who are shifting from coping with their anxiety to actually HEALING it, click the link below: https://www.theanxietymd.com/MBRX

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    TIMESTAMPS

    00:00 - Introduction

    01:44 - Terry Baranski's Background

    03:04 - Critique of Traditional Therapy

    04:37 - IFS Therapy Overview

    05:48 - The Importance of Curiosity in Therapy

    07:30 - Analogy of Itching and Scratching

    09:45 - Managing vs. Healing Anxiety

    11:24 - Mind-Body Connection

    12:29 - Critique of Somatic Approaches

    13:22 - Integration of Mind and Body in Therapy

    16:17 - Overview of IFS Parts

    18:04 - Self-Compassion in IFS

    19:56 - Trauma and Energy Disruption

    22:06 - Conflict Among Parts

    23:01 - Self-Blame in Childhood Trauma

    25:43 - Repetition Compulsion

    26:44 - Anger as a Defense Mechanism

    27:46 - Negative Self-Perception

    28:09 - Dissociation and Coping Strategies

    29:29 - The Role of Self in Healing

    31:03 - Childhood Trauma and the Amygdala

    32:29 - Connecting Body and Mind

    33:20 - Age Regression in Emotional Reactions

    36:06 - Recognizing Triggers as Guidepost

    37:10 - Healthy Expression of Anger

    38:48 - Understanding Trauma and Healing

    39:55 - Building Trust with the Self

    41:35 - Child Development and Trust

    42:04 - The Impact of Trauma on Trust

    43:45 - Ego Dragon and Panic Attacks

    44:56 - Rapid Trust Development in Therapy

    45:29 - Personal Journey of Confidence

    46:26 - Sensitivity and Trauma

    47:13 - Healing from the Bottom Up

    48:07 - Self-Compassion and Trauma

    48:58 - Clearing Trauma for Emotional Freedom

    50:07 - Coping Strategies vs. Healing

    51:24 - Gradual Exposure to Emotional Pain

    52:55 - The Midlife Crisis and Healing

    53:22 - Cold Plunge Analogy

    54:36 - Building Resilience Through Discomfort

    56:09 - Preference for Healing Over Discomfort

    57:21 - Empowerment through Facing Pain

    58:49 - A Different Path in Therapy

    59:37 - Finding Terry Online

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