• When Settling in Love Becomes a Saddle! The High Cost of Loyalty

  • Nov 13 2024
  • Length: 53 mins
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When Settling in Love Becomes a Saddle! The High Cost of Loyalty

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    In this episode of Counting the Cost of Loyalty, we uncover the high emotional cost of settling in love and the true meaning of loyalty in relationships that no longer uplift us. Hosts Tree and Toby explore why so many remain loyal out of fear of loneliness, societal pressures, and financial dependence—forces that often turn love into an “unbreakable saddle” rather than a source of true happiness and growth.

    "Settling in love is like trading your dreams for comfort—when what you truly deserve is a love that ignites, not one that merely sustains."

    Tree and Toby dive into how personal insecurities, learned patterns, and societal expectations shape our capacity for self-worth and authentic connections. Drawing from Dr. John Gottman’s relationship insights, they discuss how true loyalty should elevate rather than diminish us.

    With heartfelt wisdom and humor, Tree and Toby invite listeners to reflect: Is my loyalty lifting me up, or holding me down? This episode speaks to anyone ready to question what a healthy, fulfilling relationship truly means.

    Remember, your Perch isn’t just a place to sit; it’s a place to seek a higher perspective.
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