What’s a moment in your life that changed how you see the world?

Episode Summary:

In this episode of Unlearning the World: Through the Looking Glass, Beki, Shannon, and Richard dive into the powerful impact of human connection. From childhood encounters to global travels, they share the pivotal moments that reshaped their perspectives on culture, race, and identity. Through personal stories of stepping outside their comfort zones, they reflect on the lessons learned from meeting people with different backgrounds, beliefs, and experiences.

Key Points Covered:

• How early experiences shape our understanding of diversity
• The impact of growing up in different cultural environments
• Traveling as a way to break stereotypes and expand perspectives
• The difference between being a tourist vs. a traveler
• The assumptions people make based on race, nationality, and identity
• The importance of curiosity and empathy in building connections

Takeaways:

• Exposure to different cultures helps challenge biases and broaden worldviews.
• True learning comes from firsthand experiences and deep conversations.
• Assumptions can limit meaningful relationships—curiosity opens doors.
• The more we seek connection, the more we grow as individuals.

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What’s a moment in your life that changed how you see the world?

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In this episode of Unlearning the World: Through the Looking Glass, we explore the power of forgiveness—what it really means, why it’s so difficult, and how it can set you free. From personal betrayals to friendships that fell apart, we share our own experiences with learning to forgive, not just others, but ourselves.

Forgiveness isn’t about excusing someone’s actions—it’s about releasing the weight of resentment and allowing yourself to move forward. But what happens when closure isn’t an option? And how do you truly forgive yourself?

Key Points Covered This Episode

• Why forgiveness is more about you than the other person
• The difference between forgiving and forgetting
• How to heal from betrayal when you never get closure
• Why self-forgiveness is often harder than forgiving others
• How carrying resentment impacts your mental and emotional health

Takeaways

• Forgiveness is not about excusing behavior—it’s about freeing yourself from its hold.
• You don’t need closure to move on. Sometimes, you have to give it to yourself.
• Not everyone deserves a second chance. You can forgive and still set boundaries.
• Holding onto resentment hurts you more than them.

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What’s a moment in your life that changed how you see the world?

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In this deeply personal episode of Unlearning the World: Through the Looking Glass, Richard, Beki, and Shannon open up about their experiences with loss and how it has shaped their lives. From Richard’s reflections on losing his sister and the emotions it stirred, to Beki’s perspective on finding strength in the face of familial loss, and Shannon’s acceptance of life’s fragility, this episode is a heartfelt exploration of grief, love, and resilience. Together, the hosts discuss how loss impacts us, how we process it, and the ways we honor the memories of those we’ve lost.

Key Points Covered This Episode

• The unpredictability of loss and how it reshapes our outlook on life.
• The emotional toll of holding space for others while grieving yourself.
• How cultural and societal attitudes toward death shape our grieving process.
• The importance of honoring loved ones through traditions and memories.
• Practical steps to prepare for end-of-life decisions and estate planning.
• How technology, like videos and voice recordings, helps preserve memories.
• The role of chosen family and community in supporting grief.
• Balancing the business of death with cherishing personal connections.

Takeaways

• Grieving looks different for everyone, and there is no “right” way to mourn.
• Having open conversations about death and end-of-life wishes can ease the burden on loved ones.
• Cherishing the small moments and creating lasting memories are vital in navigating loss.

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What’s a moment in your life that changed how you see the world?

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In this episode of Unlearning the World: Through the Looking Glass, Beki, Shannon, and Richard explore the harsh reality of workplace loyalty, work-life balance, and personal boundaries. They break down the myth of “your employer is your family,” discuss the challenges of promotions and layoffs, and highlight the importance of advocating for yourself in your career. Through personal stories and lessons learned, this conversation provides insight into navigating the modern workplace while protecting your work-life balance.

Key Points Covered This Episode

• The myth of “work as a family” and why it’s a red flag.
• The reality of layoffs and how corporations make decisions that prioritize business survival over employee well-being.
• The importance of setting boundaries and protecting your time.
• Why hard work alone doesn’t guarantee a promotion—visibility and relationships matter.
• The challenges of balancing workplace authenticity with professional expectations.
• How diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) initiatives shape workplace culture.
• The importance of prioritizing yourself and your mental health in any job.

Takeaways

• Your employer is a business, not a family—always advocate for yourself.
• Document your accomplishments and make your contributions visible.
• Work-life balance is essential; don’t let your job define your identity.
• Protect your mental and emotional well-being by setting workplace boundaries.
• Relationships and networking can be just as important as job performance.
• It’s okay to move on if a workplace no longer serves your personal or professional growth.

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What’s a moment in your life that changed how you see the world?

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In this episode, Shannon, Richard, and Beki reflect on their personal experiences with marriage—how their perspectives on commitment evolved, the lessons they've learned along the way, and what it truly takes to build a lasting relationship. They dive into fears, expectations, and the realities of marriage, from early relationships to saying "I do" and beyond.

Key Points Covered This Episode

• Shannon’s early skepticism and fear of marriage, shaped by her experiences growing up.
• The difference between dating for fun versus dating with purpose.
• How past relationships and experiences influence the way we approach commitment.
• The moment each host knew their spouse was "the one."
• The impact of long-distance relationships on building strong communication.
• The shift in perspective after saying "I do" and how marriage changes things.
• The realities of arguments, compromise, and learning to communicate effectively.
• The myth of "happy wife, happy life" and why mutual happiness matters.
• How marriage is both a personal and legal commitment, influencing life in unexpected ways.
• The importance of being fully yourself in a marriage and not losing personal identity.
• Practical lessons learned from years of marriage—choosing love daily, handling disagreements, and growing together.

Takeaways

• Marriage is more than a fairy tale—it’s an ongoing commitment that requires effort, love, and mutual understanding.
• Finding a partner where you can be your authentic self is key to long-term happiness.
• Love is not just a feeling but a choice you make every day.
• Keeping outside influences out of your marriage helps protect and strengthen the relationship.
• A strong marriage is built on mutual respect, communication, and a willingness to adapt and grow together.

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What’s a moment in your life that changed how you see the world?

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In this episode, we dive into the powerful and sometimes dangerous influence of social media and digital platforms on democracy, free speech, and how we perceive truth. Richard, Beki, and Shannon discuss the role of media in shaping our perspectives and emotions, from the content we consume to the algorithms that guide our feeds. We explore the fine line between empowering voices and spreading misinformation, and how critical thinking is essential to navigating today's fast-paced media landscape. Join us as we examine the impact of social media on our world, from TikTok to Twitter/X, and why it's crucial to be mindful of the information we consume.

Key Points Covered This Episode

• The impact of social media algorithms on our perceptions of truth
• The fine line between free speech and misinformation
• How media can empower voices or fuel division
• The importance of critical thinking in an age of instant information
• The dangers of consuming content without questioning its source
• Exploring the balance between connection and manipulation on platforms like TikTok and Twitter/X
• Why the speed of media and news dissemination make us more susceptible to misinformation

Takeaways

• Media and social platforms have a profound influence on how we see the world, often shaping our beliefs and emotions without us realizing it.
• While social media can empower voices, it also amplifies misinformation, requiring us to be vigilant about what we consume.
• Critical thinking is crucial when navigating the vast sea of information on the internet, especially with the rise of AI and deepfakes.
• Balance is key: use social media thoughtfully, be aware of your information sources, and always question what you see and hear.
• As media evolves, it’s essential to stay informed, question narratives, and ensure that we're not passively accepting the information being presented to us.

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Original theme music by The Dj Blue.

What’s a moment in your life that changed how you see the world?

Episode Summary
In this episode of Unlearning the World: Through the Looking Glass, Beki, Shannon, and Richard explore the complexities of resilience. From Beki’s story of escaping a toxic relationship to Shannon’s drive to prove doubters wrong, and Richard’s reflections on the innate resilience needed in marginalized communities, the hosts share how resilience has shaped their lives. Together, they discuss how resilience can be a tool for growth, a response to hardship, and even a way to challenge societal expectations.

Key Points Covered This Episode

• How resilience is often born out of hardship and personal challenges.
• The role of resilience in overcoming societal and workplace biases.
• The difference between healthy resilience and toxic persistence.
• Why resilience often requires redefining failure as a stepping stone.
• How systemic challenges impact the ability to develop and use resilience.
• The importance of balancing resilience with self-care and stability.
• Resilience as a skill that can be nurtured, not just an innate trait.
• The unique ways resilience manifests in different people and contexts.

Takeaways

• Resilience is not just about pushing through; it’s about learning, adapting, and growing.
• Failure is not the end—it’s an opportunity to learn and try again.
• Recognizing your own limits and prioritizing self-care are key to sustainable resilience.

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Original theme music by The Dj Blue.

What’s a moment in your life that changed how you see the world?

Episode Summary
In this heartfelt episode of Unlearning the World: Through the Looking Glass, Shannon, Richard, and Beki explore the transformative journey of parenting. Shannon reflects on how becoming a mother reshaped her understanding of what it means to raise a child, while Richard and Beki share their unique perspectives on parenthood, from preparing for a new baby to embracing nontraditional parenting roles. Together, they discuss the challenges, joys, and evolving expectations of raising children in today’s world.

Key Points Covered This Episode

• How parenting shifts your perspective on responsibility and personal growth.
• The impact of generational lessons and how they influence modern parenting styles.
• Balancing tradition and innovation in raising emotionally intelligent children.
• The importance of teaching children to identify and express their emotions.
• Navigating societal pressures, technology, and screen time in today’s parenting landscape.
• The role of a supportive village and the challenges of building one.
• Managing guilt and anxiety as a parent while fostering independence and boundaries.

Takeaways

• Parenting is less about perfection and more about adapting to your child’s needs and the world they’re growing up in.
• Teaching emotional intelligence early can help children navigate their feelings and build stronger relationships.
• It’s essential to create a safe environment where children feel heard, valued, and supported.

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Links to Mentioned Episodes:

White Parents, Black Kids
https://www.buzzsprout.com/1869977/episodes/11298506

Mothers of Black Sons Series: Shannon
https://www.buzzsprout.com/1869977/episodes/10039650

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Unlearning the World: Through the Looking Glass is produced by Crowned Culture Media LLC.

Original theme music by The Dj Blue.