“I feel so ordinary except when you’re around me”, “I can't keep no conflict with you boy, can we just rub it out?” If you wonder if I hate you, I don’t. These are just some of the lyrics. She ain’t really hate that man and we are talking about it! Plus, we have questions because there is a lot going on in this song. Join Jasmine and Charmaine as we discuss conflicting feelings in relationships, using someone to make you feel different about yourself, coping with sex, changing during a relationship, leaving your healing in someone else’s hands and so much more. The episode is loaded and you do not want to miss it.

Time stamps:

00:00 intro

01:00 SZA don’t really hate that man

4:38 Issues communicating in relationships

10:20 using other things (sex, distraction) to work through conflict instead of communication

12:38 How people get to wild behavior during conflict or why you really need to allow breaks during conflict

17:05 Blaming your partner for your feelings

21:00 only remembering good things after a breakup

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