In episode 42 of The Real Talk, Raquel Ramirez interviews Claudia Pernudi, a family and matrimonial attorney, as they delve into the complexities of divorce, discussing the importance of legal expertise in navigating divorce proceedings. From financial implications to the emotional impact on children, they explore real-life cases and offer valuable insights on how to handle divorce with grace and understanding.

Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of the legal intricacies of divorce and how to approach it with empathy and clarity.

TIMESTAMPS

[00:02:22] Unique Challenges in Divorce.

[00:04:32] Misconceptions in Divorce Agreements.

[00:07:20] Understanding Divorce Entitlements and Rights.

[00:12:01] The Depth of Legal Knowledge.

[00:15:38] Friendly Divorce Misunderstandings.

[00:20:45] Importance of Detailed Agreements.

[00:22:19] Alimony and Gender Neutrality.

[00:27:32] Adult Children Involvement in Divorce.

[00:30:29] Parental Alienation in Divorces.

[00:35:18] Acting in Your Child's Best Interest.

[00:37:38] Fighting for More Time.

[00:42:39] Dividing Time with Children.

[00:44:23] Financial Planning during Divorce.

[00:48:14] Calculating Income in Family Law.

[00:53:11] Legal Advice on Marriage Deals.

[01:02:47] Social Media Challenges and Strategies.

[01:07:36] Personal Privacy.

QUOTES

• "Once you get married, it doesn't matter that you keep separate accounts because from the day you get married until the day you file for divorce, whatever you have accumulated in those accounts is divided 50-50. So if you don't know that and you're making a deal with your spouse, one of you is going to get the short end of the stick." - Claudia Pernudi
• "You feel all these things because if you think you're going to get a certain amount of money and then you come to find out that you're not in fact getting that money and that you actually have to pay out double that amount, you're not going to be happy." - Claudia Pernudi
• “But this is more, beware parents. Don't involve your children. It's nothing to do with them. Don't put them in that situation where they have to choose who's going to make more money or who's going to make less. Even if it's down 50-50, that's not your business. It's not your problem. Whatever you stand to inherit should not even be a topic of conversation. You need to let it be.” - Raquel Ramirez

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Raquel Ramirez

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/raquel-ramirez/

Claudia Pernudi

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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/claudia.pernudi

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/claudia-l-pernudi-06bb4b1b/

WEBSITES:

The Real Talk: https://www.therealtalkpodcast.net/

Featured Properties International: https://msha.ke/featuredre

Pernudi Law: https://www.pernudilaw.com/

In episode 41 of The Real Talk, Raquel Ramirez interviews Retired Judge Lester Langer as he shares insights from his extensive legal career, including experiences in family law, domestic violence cases, and the complexities of the judicial system. From the evolution of domestic violence laws to the challenges of resolving disputes through mediation and arbitration, Judge Langer provides a unique perspective on the legal system.

Tune in for a fascinating discussion on law, mediation, and personal experiences in the legal field.

TIMESTAMPS

[00:01:23] Lawyer with a Bright Perspective.

[00:05:36] Running for Circuit Court Judge.

[00:11:04] Hurricane Andrew in 1992.

[00:13:56] Domestic Violence Court Beginnings.

[00:19:33] Juvenile Justice and Rehabilitation.

[00:24:46] Alternative Dispute Resolutions.

[00:27:50] Appeals in the Legal System.

[00:33:43] Labor-Intensive AppellateCourt Process.

[00:36:42] Florida Homestead Law.

[00:39:15] The Legal Process Intricacies.

[00:44:33] Domestic violence Cases Origins.

[00:47:29] Elderly Abuse in Nursing Homes.

[00:54:42] Domestic Violence and Mental Abuse.

[00:57:39] Mediation and Arbitration Differences.

[01:02:19] Arbitration Rules and Procedures.

[01:04:46] Arbitrators in Construction Projects.

[01:10:37] Types of Arbitration.

[01:16:06] Managing People's Expectations.

[01:21:04] AI vs. Human Dynamics.

[01:22:07] Timing is Crucial in Divorce.

[01:25:34] Importance of Choosing the Right Professional.

[01:30:25] Lawyers' Willingness to Explain.

[01:34:43] Legal Contributions and Career Insights.

QUOTES

• “You know, if you got to the kids early enough, if you got to families early enough, yours. You could kind of change the trajectory of somebody's life. You can't do that in a lot of other places where you practice law. I mean, you can represent them, you can do the best for them, But you can't always change the direction people are heading in.” - Judge Lester Langer
• “There are ways of helping people deal with negotiation. If there's a history of domestic violence, either by keeping them separated, zooms the perfect you know, medium for allowing people to discuss things and they're not in the same place in the same. Not even in the same city or the same county, you know, but you can then have that negotiation where somebody is not under threat.” - Judge Lester Langer
• “So now mediation serves to help prevent you having to get to litigation. Mediation affords you the opportunity to try and settle your differences, and your problems outside of court so that you don't have to drag yourself, your family, or whoever else might be involved through this whole process and spend all this money trying to get someone else to decide or preside over your situation.” - Raquel Ramirez

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Raquel Ramirez

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Lester Langer

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lester.langer/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lesterlanger/

WEBSITES:

The Real Talk: https://www.therealtalkpodcast.net/

Featured Properties International: https://msha.ke/featuredre

Salmon & Dulberg Dispute Resolution: https://sd-adr.com/attorney/lester-langer/

In episode 40 of The Real Talk, Raquel Ramirez interviews Michelle Suarez, a divorce broker and attorney with 20 years of experience in various legal areas. Michelle shares her personal journey through divorce and how it inspired her to create a unique service to help women navigate the divorce process with confidence and clarity.

Tune in to learn more about Michelle's unique approach to supporting women through divorce.

TIMESTAMPS

[00:01:57] Women in Divorce Process.

[00:06:29] Navigating Financial Complexities Post-Divorce.

[00:09:48] Divorce and Helping Others.

[00:12:40] The Importance of Child Therapy.

[00:15:33] The Impact of Childhood Experiences.

[00:18:43] Coping with Challenging Divorces.

[00:23:41] Building a Support Network.

[00:26:55] Getting to Know Spouse After Divorce.

[00:30:03] Amicable Divorce Processes.

[00:33:42] Estate Plan Oversight After Divorce.

[00:37:25] Divorce Process Services.

[00:39:40] The Challenges of Divorce.

[00:43:00] Importance of Hiring Right Professionals.

QUOTES

• "You need to look at it almost as a business because if now you get caught up in the emotions that just leads to a lot of issues." - Michelle Suarez
• "These women are empowered and can make decisions because now they have knowledge of what their options are." - Michelle Suarez
• "I don't think they have any form of memorization. I don't think they can actually store anything in their memories. But past that, you're really never too young to start dealing with your trauma. Don't let your kids carry that on into their 30s and 40s." - Raquel Ramirez
• "We think we know who we sleep with, but at the end of the day, you really only get to know your spouse when you get a divorce." - Raquel Ramirez

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Raquel Ramirez

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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/featuredre

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/raquel-ramirez/

Michelle Suarez

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcebrokerofficial

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-suarez-01328270/

WEBSITES:

The Real Talk: https://www.therealtalkpodcast.net/

Featured Properties International: https://msha.ke/featuredre

The Divorce Broker: https://thedivorcebroker.com/