The Powerful Man Show cover art

The Powerful Man Show

The Powerful Man Show

By: Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
Listen for free

About this listen

The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information. Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
Episodes
  • Navigating Comparisons in Marriage: Finding Connection and Growth
    Dec 16 2025

    Episode #1071

    If you've ever wondered whether your wife is comparing you to other men, coworkers, friends' husbands, or even her dad, you're not crazy. She probably is. And while it's uncomfortable to think about, it doesn't mean she's a bad partner. It usually means she's hurting, disconnected, or missing something that used to be there. In this episode, Doug and Erin break down exactly why these comparisons happen, what they actually mean, and how to shift the dynamic without playing the blame game.

    Erin shares the raw truth about how women experience disconnection and why bitterness and criticism are often just cover-ups for sadness and longing. Doug opens up about the patterns he's seen in men who unknowingly slip into the nice guy trap, and what it takes to rebuild trust, respect, and attraction without begging or forcing conversations that go nowhere.

    If you're feeling like something's off but can't quite name it, this episode will help you see it clearly. Sometimes the issue isn't that she's changed, it's that you've lost connection with yourself. And when that happens, she feels it. Your energy matters more than you think, and when you're checked out, she checks out too. The good news is, there's a way to turn this around that doesn't involve chasing or convincing her to talk.

    Want a proven way to start leading in your marriage again without long talks or therapy?
    Get the free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales
    It's simple, actionable, and gets straight to the point. No fluff. Just a clear path forward.

    Show More Show Less
    18 mins
  • A Woman's Perspective: Bridging Disconnection in Marriage
    Dec 13 2025

    Episode #1070

    If your marriage feels more like a business arrangement than a real partnership, you're not imagining it and you're definitely not alone. In this episode, Doug sits down with his wife Erin to unpack what disconnection looks and feels like from a woman's perspective.

    They get real about how so many couples slowly drift apart, even when everything looks fine on the outside. Erin shares what's happening under the surface when a woman pulls away, why she might seem cold, distant, or buried in her phone, and what she's actually craving instead.

    This isn't theory. It's not a lecture. It's two people sharing what it's really like when the spark fades, and what can help bring it back. They talk about the quiet resentment that builds over time, how to spot the signs that things are slipping, and how to approach your partner in a way that opens the door to real connection again, not more conflict or shutdown.

    If you're feeling stuck, or you just know you're capable of more than a "meh" marriage, this is your starting point. You'll hear the small things that make a big difference, like how your energy impacts her more than your words. They also talk about what most men miss during postpartum and perimenopause that can quietly break the bond.


    It's honest, raw, and grounded in real experience, not fluff or surface-level tips. There's no sugarcoating, just clarity on what it takes to shift from surviving to actually enjoying your relationship again. And if you're tired of guessing or walking on eggshells, this episode gives you a clearer way forward.

    Want to fix the disconnection without long talks or dragging her to therapy?

    Get the free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales
    It's practical, direct, and gives you real steps to shift things now, no waiting around.

    Show More Show Less
    35 mins
  • Revisit: A Balanced Approach to Health: Fitness, Business, and Lifestyle
    Dec 11 2025

    Episode #1069

    In this revisit episode, Doug sits down with former gym owner and coach David Sherban to talk about what actually works when it comes to building a healthy lifestyle, especially for busy business owners and dads who've let fitness slide. This isn't about hacks or crash diets. It's about taking small, doable steps that actually stick.

    David shares how to make health and fitness a part of your life without giving up the things you enjoy. They cover simple strategies for building momentum, getting out of pain, managing stress, and making food choices that feel normal, not restrictive. If your back hurts, your energy's low, or you've just lost that drive you used to have, this episode will help you get back on track without overcomplicating it.

    You'll hear why trying to go hard out of the gate usually backfires and how building a solid foundation, just like in business, is the real key. Doug and David also unpack how things like sleep, inflammation, and even peptides play into your overall vitality. It's a laid-back but focused conversation for guys who want results without needing to overhaul their whole life overnight.

    If you want to feel strong, clear-headed, and like yourself again, this one's worth a listen.

    If your marriage has taken a backseat while you've been working on everything else, check out the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It walks you through exactly how to spot what's off and how to start turning things around without needing to talk everything to death.

    Show More Show Less
    39 mins
No reviews yet
In the spirit of reconciliation, Audible acknowledges the Traditional Custodians of country throughout Australia and their connections to land, sea and community. We pay our respect to their elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples today.