Soft life doesn't mean no difficulties friend

In this no-fluff, kick-in-the-pants episode of The Pleasure Priority Podcast, Amber breaks down the real reason you need to do hard things—and how resilience is a skill, not a personality trait. From the secret sexism of city trees to the misunderstood "soft life" trend, we explore why challenges are inevitable, but suffering doesn't have to be.If you’ve ever told yourself “this is too hard,” this episode will lovingly call you in—and remind you that you’re stronger (and more capable) than you think.

We cover:

💪 Why you’re not too fragile for hard things

🔁 How resilience actually works

🌱 The difference between safety and stagnation

✨The only way out is through. Let’s go.

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Welcome and Introduction

00:19 The Hidden Causes of Allergies

02:53 The Importance of Resilience

15:25 Building Confidence Through Action

27:24 Final Thoughts and Announcements

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In this episode, host Coach Amber shares a self-trust and embodiment hack that shatters imposter syndrome. She shares her own struggles with other methods including the future you exercises and how she edited them to resonate and actually be helpful for her now. She explains this process and shows you how to make it your own. Amber shares insights from one of her own recent sessions and how unresolved emotions and past experiences, including feelings of guilt, unworthiness, and hopelessness, have blocked her progress and how this hack has impacted them. Listen and learn to how you too can overcome imposter syndrome by building self-trust through timeline skips

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 Welcome to The Pleasure Priority Podcast

00:12 The Future You Exercise

00:48 Struggles with Embodying Future Self

02:24 Connecting with Past and Future Selves

03:19 Energy Healing Session Insights

03:35 Unresolved Emotions and Heart Walls

05:56 Lessons from Childhood and Guilt

13:03 Sending Trust through the Timeline

16:46 Manifestation and Transformation

18:16 Conclusion and Next Steps

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In this episode, Amber delves into the realities and implications of reality TV dating shows, specifically focusing on the latest season of 'Temptation Island.' She critiques the show for capitalizing on entertainment over everything by promoting harmful stereotypes and predatory tropes, such as the 'boys will be boys' mentality, the double standards between men and women and how these shows are particularly detrimental to black women, who are often marginalized and fetishized. Amber analyzes the behavior of various participants exploring themes of infidelity, emotional intelligence manipulation, and societal expectations, as well as the producers involvement and intention in manipulating situations for drama and ratings. While the show and shows like it are incredibly entertaining, they also serve to normalize a continuous lowering of the bar when it comes to expectations of romantic relationships. Amber concludes by reflecting on the broader implications of seeking love through reality TV and advises listeners on healthier alternatives for finding meaningful relationships.

TIMESTAMPS:00:00 Welcome to The Pleasure Priority Podcast

00:11 The Reality of Reality TV: Temptation Island

01:43 Boys Will Be Boys: Gender Expectations

02:52 Double Standards in Relationships

03:25 The Role of Producers in Reality TV

08:21 Toxic Masculinity and Emotional Manipulation

20:53 The Struggles of Black Women on Reality TV

30:29 Final Thoughts and Advice

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