In the fourth episode of The BLC Pod: After Dark Edition, Nic Nice, S.N.M Jones, and guest, Delvin The Expert engage in a lively discussion about the intersection of sex, politics, and relationships. They start the show exploring the recent rise in the 4B Movement, where women are reportedly withholding sex as a political statement following the recent election (00:05:13). The conversation delves into the implications of using sex as a weapon in relationships, the dynamics of withholding intimacy, and the broader societal context surrounding these actions. The hosts share their perspectives on the motivations behind these behaviors and the potential consequences for both men and women. In light of a recent conversation with Iyanla Vanzant on the Breakfast Club and her being open to polygamy, the crew asks should the Black Community be more open to alternative relationships (00:37:19)? They delve into the complexities of non-traditional relationships, particularly focusing on polyamory, cheating, and the dynamics of open relationships. In light of recent revelations that Cam Newton cheated on his girlfriend Jasmin Brown and she’s repeatedly accepted him back, they discuss the implications of emotional honesty, the societal perceptions of side relationships, and the importance of communication in navigating these alternative lifestyles (01:01:30). The conversation also touches on cautionary tales, particularly one involving Lil Scrappy and having a threesome baby (01:18:55). While having a threesome started out as a good idea, it came with a consequence, a child. While it is important to be able to have these conversations and talk about the positive things, it’s also important that we talk about their potential consequences, emphasizing the need for clarity and consent in all relationship dynamics. Tune in for a fresh perspective and thought-provoking discussion that doesn’t shy away from difficult conversations. Be sure to Like, Subscribe, Follow, and Engage with us!

On this special third episode of The BLC Pod: After Dark Edition, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Kim Jones, and Just J break the show’s usual format to dig into the outcome of the 2024 U.S. Election (00:06:30). With Nic’s unique take on Kamala Harris’s loss to Donald Trump, the panel examines how voter demographics and social issues like misogyny and racism played into the result, debating whether the race was ever as close as it appeared. They question the state of the American electorate, and Nic suggests Trump may be the president “America deserves.” Shifting gears, the team tackles dating dynamics, asking when the “right time” to get intimate is (00:51:33). They explore dating strategies and setting personal boundaries. Wrapping up, they dive into a lighter but lively debate on “Does size really matter?”—covering everything from technique to personal preferences in this unfiltered, candid episode (01:20:24). Tune in for a fresh perspective and thought-provoking discussion that doesn’t shy away from difficult conversations. Be sure to like, subscribe, follow, and engage with us!

In the second episode of The BLC Pod: After Dark Edition, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Kim Jones, and Just J dive into a range of taboo and hilarious topics. They kick off with a lighthearted chat on Halloween traditions—are they dressing up this year, and is the “sexy costume” thing still alive? Things take a spicy turn as they talk politics, touching on whether objectifying a female candidate holds up as “equality” when figures like Barack Obama have been subject to the same. Of course, they remind viewers of the real importance: exercising their right to vote. In the first big topic of the night, SNM raises a question we all think about but rarely discuss: Is everyone having mediocre sex? And if so, are people faking it? The hosts share their perspectives, debating why mediocrity in the bedroom may be more common than we realize and whether faking it is ever justified. Next, the crew explores the 50-50 relationship debate with a twist: If both partners are carrying equal weight in life, does that mean splitting intimacy equally? Can work, kids, and daily life impact expectations around sex? They dive deep into whether prioritizing each other’s needs can overcome the challenges of a busy life. And finally, they tackle a classic question—Is oral sex a dealbreaker? Some say it’s essential, while others think it’s negotiable. As always, the hosts bring the laughs and the real talk, serving up yet another episode full of bold conversations. Don’t miss this episode! Hit like, subscribe, and share if you’re ready for more from The BLC Pod: After Dark Edition.

In this episode of Off-Season Conversation, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Kim Jones, & Just J discuss the recent arrest of Sean “Puffy” Combs on charges of racketeering, trafficking and more. The gang get into the details of the accusations, the alleged victims, enablers, co-conspirators, the process, the likely outcomes and implications. The dive head first (pause) into the Freak Off conversation and the implications that will have on this case and how it's perceived, as well as whether some of the laws claimed to be broken should be laws in the first place. The group acknowledges the conspiracy theories, whether there’s some validity to the concerns, who may be implicated, guilt by association, etc. They also discuss the equity, or lack thereof, in the criminal justice system, presumed guilt vs. innocent, prosecutorial misconduct, due process and so much more. Tune in for a different perspective and thought-provoking discussion that doesn't shy away from the tough questions and conversation. Be sure to Like, Subscribe, Follow and Engage!

On this special episode of #saidNICEly, Nic Nice highlights the overuse of the phrase, "Standing on business" and its various cousins, "I stand on that”, “I stand ten toes down”, etc. He starts with appreciate the concept of having morals, values, and core principles that should be immovable. He then points out how people are using these phrases for trivial and trite situations and conversations with the goal of seeming solid. He cautions against the rigidity that comes with standing on things and not being open to new information. Lastly, he discusses the importance of being open to change while holding core beliefs, urging viewers to be selective about what they truly stand for. Let's redefine solidarity and growth together. Join the conversation and let's communicate respectfully! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share, and all that good stuff!