Episodes

  • The Unfinished Man with Lair Torrent (Part 1): What We’ve Learned About Relationships)

    The Unfinished Man with Lair Torrent (Part 1): What We’ve Learned About Relationships)
    Dec 20 2024
    In this first episode of a five-part series, John and Lair Torrent (LMFT) explore the foundations of healthy relationships, the evolving role of men, and the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships. They also discuss the importance of vulnerability, expressing emotional needs, reconnecting with one's authentic self, healing your inner child, and more. Find out more about Lair HERE Follow Lair on Instagram HERE Buy Lair's book The Practice of Love: Break Old Patterns, Rebuild Trust, and Create a Connection That Lasts HERE You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    57 mins
  • Uninitiated Men, Male Friendships, and Father Wounds with Bryan Reeves

    Uninitiated Men, Male Friendships, and Father Wounds with Bryan Reeves
    Dec 18 2024
    Today, John and Brian Reeves do a deep dive into the depths of men's work. They discuss the impact of fatherhood on masculinity, the significance of rites of passage, men seeking connection, retreats, and more. Join Bryan's biweekly classes just for men in the SOP app HERE Find out more about Bryan HERE Follow Bryan on Instagram HERE Find out more about Elevate 2025 (An Initiation Journey For Men) HERE You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    53 mins
  • Reducing Anxiety Around Relationship Ruptures & What is Love Truly About?

    Reducing Anxiety Around Relationship Ruptures & What is Love Truly About?
    Dec 16 2024
    Today, John talks about the necessity of repairing ruptures in relationships and how anxiety can serve as a marker for personal growth. He also discusses the importance of openness in relationships, particularly when addressing issues like intimacy and connection, and more. You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    23 mins
  • How to Get Closure & Actionable Steps to Take

    How to Get Closure & Actionable Steps to Take
    Dec 13 2024
    Today, John explores the concept of closure, challenging the traditional view that it is a definitive end. He emphasizes the importance of acceptance over resolution, self-generated closure, the messy, non-linear nature of healing, and provides actionable steps to take. You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    16 mins
  • From Ashes To Us: Why Relationships Must Die To Live

    From Ashes To Us: Why Relationships Must Die To Live
    Dec 11 2024
    Today, John shares a client story about a couple, Kayla and Mark, who faced a stagnant marriage. John explores themes of transformation, co-creation, and the cyclical nature of relationships, emphasizing that allowing a relationship to 'die' can lead to a stronger, more authentic partnership. You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    20 mins
  • How Do I Not Get Discouraged While Single?

    How Do I Not Get Discouraged While Single?
    Dec 9 2024
    Today, John addresses two significant questions from his Single On Purpose community regarding dating and relationships. He discusses the challenges of putting oneself out there after a long period of being single, the anxiety that often arises in relationships, particularly around the six-month mark, and emphasizes the importance of self-connection and personal growth while single. You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    21 mins
  • How To Co-Create a Relationship (The New Model)

    How To Co-Create a Relationship (The New Model)
    Dec 6 2024
    Today, John explores the concept of co-creation in relationships, emphasizing the importance of collaboration, mutual respect, and adaptability. He critiques traditional relationship models that rely on outdated dynamics and predefined roles, and concludes that the best relationships are built through intentional co-creation, rather than simply found. You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    37 mins
  • Love is a Drug

    Love is a Drug
    Dec 4 2024
    Today, John explores the concepts of healthy and unhealthy love, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, communication, and personal growth in relationships. He also discusses the evolving nature of love and the complexities involved in navigating relationships, ultimately highlighting that love can be both challenging and healing. You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    21 mins