First, Talk to Them

The third rule of toeles: try giving tochacha first. Lashon Hara isn’t permitted if direct, caring conversation can correct the problem.

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Looks Can Be Deceiving

Even eyewitness accounts can mislead. The second rule of toeles reminds us: interpret with care before assuming an aveira occurred.

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Don’t Act on Rumors

The first rule of toeles requires firsthand knowledge. Lashon Hara is only permitted if you saw it yourself or fully verified its truth.

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When Lashon Hara Helps

If speaking will help a victim recover stolen money or damages, it may be l’toeles. But halacha requires strict conditions—good intent alone isn’t enough.

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Teach Children Early

Children copy what they see. If parents reject Lashon Hara clearly and consistently, kids absorb that as the norm—and carry it for life.

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Trapped? Don’t Be Mekabel

If you can’t speak up or leave, protect yourself: block out the Lashon Hara or focus elsewhere. But never accept it in your heart.

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Speak Up or Walk Away

If rebuke fails, distance yourself from those who harm with words. And when stuck in Lashon Hara situations, steer the conversation away—subtly but firmly.

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