Episodes

  • Sensual Abundance #034: An Anonymous Chat With A Real Life FinSub / FinCuck

    Sensual Abundance #034: An Anonymous Chat With A Real Life FinSub / FinCuck
    May 24 2026
    Welcome to episode thirty-four of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. Today’s episode is special and exciting because Mari is joined by a special guest – “D” – who is a real life financial submissive (Finsub) and Mia joins the conversation too. “D” has over 15 years of BDSM experience and candidly shares about a recent experience that led to a Reddit post (and how Mari found him) and why it was highly disappointing to him. “D” also shares some other experiences he’s had as a Fin Sub. Highlights:
    • [00:02:53] – What sparked “D’s” Reddit post.
    • [00:08:27] – Mari shares two Finsub experiences she has.
    • [00:11:41] – “D” is currently in a Finsub relationship and shares about it.
    • [00:16:53] – “D” answers Mari’s question about liking it when it hurts financially.
    • [00:20:53] – “D” answers Mia’s question about how he got started as a in the realm of financial submission.
    • [00:22:57] – “D” shares about some of his debt contracts he’s done as a Finsub.
    • [00:32:47] - Reflecting on financial sacrifices.
    • [00:36:14] – Understanding the Finsub's needs.

    Thank you "D' for your wonderful act of service. Your time and experience will certainly support many FinDommes in better connecting with the right Finsubs and FinCucks! Want a printable of the 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance? Grab your copy here.
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    42 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #033: The "Let Me Coach You" Messages We Get

    Sensual Abundance #033: The "Let Me Coach You" Messages We Get
    May 22 2026
    Welcome to episode thirty-three of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. Mari is flying solo today to talk about a common experience for new spicy creators: unsolicited coaching offers. Listen in as Mari talks about the different types of so-called coaching approaches that show up in the world of online adult content—from spammy management pitches and "helpful" DMs to the customer-turned-coach who pays for the privilege of sharing advice. Highlights:
    • [00:04:46] – Coaching from experienced clients.
    • [00:09:20] – Handling unsolicited advice.
    • [00:13:28] – The coach-client dynamic.
    • [00:17:21] – One of the learning environments Mari likes and recommends.
    • [00:23:34] – Defying expectations with confidence.
    • [00:26:39] – Why this podcast was started.

    Want a printable of the 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance? Grab your copy here.
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    30 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #032: Will You Let Men Just Give You Money?

    Sensual Abundance #032: Will You Let Men Just Give You Money?
    May 19 2026
    Welcome to episode thirty-two of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. In today’s episode, Mari and Mia do something a little different - listen in as Mari does a coaching session with Mia. The topic of this session is mindset and money – how Mia’s mindset about money affects her spicy work. Highlights:
    • [00:05:12] – Questioning personal belief origins.
    • [00:12:25] – Understanding financial submissives.
    • [00:15:25] – Exploring inner resistance/feelings.
    • [00:19:33] – Money and judgment around money.
    • [00:28:01] – Understanding client’s financial signals.

    Want a printable of the 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance? Grab your copy here.
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    32 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #031: Shannon's Domme Sabbatical Has Her Refreshed & Ready

    Sensual Abundance #031: Shannon's Domme Sabbatical Has Her Refreshed & Ready
    Apr 15 2026
    Welcome to episode thirty-one of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. In today’s episode, Mari is joined by her spicy friend Shannon; the person that got Mari started in spicy work! After taking an eight-month sabbatical – yes, you read that right, eight months! – Shannon is back and they’re chatting about how she was able to take that much time off and how she was able to come back and jump right back into it. Highlights:
    • [00:05:02] – Building a loyal client base.
    • [00:08:34] – Managing client availability.
    • [00:11:48] – Living off investments and savings. (Love that "Fuck You Money"!)
    • [00:19:18] – Talking about self-confidence and sharing images.
    • [00:27:44] – Setting dynamic pricing for services.

    Want a printable of the 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance? Grab your copy here.
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    29 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #030: Niteflirt Let's Us Change Chat Rates!

    Sensual Abundance #030: Niteflirt Let's Us Change Chat Rates!
    Mar 30 2026
    Welcome to episode thirty of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. In today’s episode, Mari is joined by Mia, and they chat about the exciting new feature that Nite Flirt finally rolled out – the option for creators to set their own chat rates! Highlights:
    • [00:05:24] – Raising rates and client reactions.
    • [00:07:51] – Setting boundaries for communication.
    • [00:11:01] – Handling client feedback.
    • [00:13:43] – Playing raise the rate in chat.

    Want a printable of the 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance? Grab your copy here.
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    18 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #029: Tapping Into Mia's Goddess Vibes

    Sensual Abundance #029: Tapping Into Mia's Goddess Vibes
    Mar 30 2026
    Welcome to episode twenty-nine of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. In today’s episode, Mari is joined by Mia, and they chat about feeling themselves… in the sense of confident Goddess energy. Mia shares how a recent night out and getting gussied up helped her tap into some Goddess’ energy. The takeaway from today’s episode to think about: does looking great make you feel more abundant? Highlights:
    • [00:01:58] – Some spicy creators are tired of this, but Mari and Mia don’t know if they ever will be.
    • [00:04:10] – Mia’s night out & feeling empowered through appearance.
    • [00:08:01] – Mari’s nails and pedicures and how posting about them attracts the subs that want to pay for the next ones.
    • [00:10:34] – Mari shares about her experience with NiteFlirt’s recent update and how flirts can now change the price of the chat volleys.

    Want a printable of the 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance? Grab your copy here.
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    12 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #028: Can You Be Okay With Taking Their Money?

    Sensual Abundance #028: Can You Be Okay With Taking Their Money?
    Mar 29 2026
    Welcome to episode twenty-eight of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. In today’s episode, Mari is joined by Mia and they talk about the mindset blocks that can arise for spicy creators when it comes to accepting financial contributions from clients - especially when those contributions tap into the world of financial domination and submissive relationships. They also chat about how past experiences can create resistance to receiving abundance, and challenge the idea of “protecting” clients from their own willingness to pay for attention and service. Highlights:
    • [00:00:53] – Mari’s new pet & Mia’s interaction with him.
    • [00:05:00] – Mari’s piggy – his devotion & sacrifice.
    • [00:10:59] – Overcoming financial projection.
    • [00:15:47] – Navigating guilt around payment.
    • [00:19:03] – When something feels “off” there’s a few reasons why.
    • [00:28:18] – Today’s takeaway – honor your values.

    Want a printable of the 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance? Grab your copy here.
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    31 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #027: What Do You Want More Of From Clients?

    Sensual Abundance #027: What Do You Want More Of From Clients?
    Mar 9 2026
    Welcome to episode twenty-seven of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. In today’s episode, Mari is joined by Mia and they chat about creating abundance by tapping into your unique sensual energy – which is principle #3 of the seven principles of sensual abundance; find all 7 principles here. If you’re looking to attract clients who resonate with your unique style, or just want to hear honest, empowering chat about aligning your business with your sensuality, this episode will inspire you to update your profiles, claim your desires, and let abundance flow. Highlights:
    • [00:01:47] – Quick run through of the 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance.
    • [00:03:36] – Today’s topic of conversation: what do you want more of in your spicy business?
    • [00:04:07] – Mari’s crazy long calls with a customer.
    • [00:07:20] – Mia answers the question of what she wants more of in her spicy work.
    • [00:15:05] – Mari’s new listing she can’t wait to start playing with.
    • [00:25:09] – Manifestation and self-reflection insights.
    • [00:28:52] – Embrace your unique sensual abundance energy!

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