Episodes

  • Sensual Abundance Podcast #010: Should You Pay For Help Getting Started?

    Sensual Abundance Podcast #010: Should You Pay For Help Getting Started?
    Nov 3 2024
    Welcome to episode ten of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. In this episode, I dive into the intricacies of becoming a thriving spicy creator and the importance of bringing your whole self—mind, body, creativity, and self-love—to the table to achieve abundance. Guidance from an experienced sex operator friend helped me swiftly navigate the NiteFlirt platform and while I am all about getting help if you need it, I urge caution… listen in for more details! Highlights:
    • [00:03:45] – Seasoned (for close to 12 years now!) spicy creator friend helped me get started.
    • 00:06:49] – Verify expertise before paying for guidance.
    • [00:08:17] – Prioritize yourself for future passive income.
    • [00:08:57] – Be careful about these people.

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    11 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #009: Be Your Own Number One Customer

    Sensual Abundance #009: Be Your Own Number One Customer
    Oct 14 2024
    Welcome to episode nine of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. Drawing from my 20 years of experience in the content creation space, I'll discuss how prioritizing your own projects and passive income streams can lead to both personal satisfaction and financial success in your spicy work. I'll share personal anecdotes about balancing client work with creative pursuits, and how this shift in mindset helped me achieve a nearly $1,000 day when earlier that day I had told a friend it wasn’t usually a busy day for me. Tune in to explore how you can be your own best customer and create lasting income for yourself. Highlights:
    • [00:04:23] – Prioritizing creativity over Niteflirt fast money.
    • [00:07:42] – A day I said isn’t usually busy turned into a $1,000 day.
    • [00:08:17] – Prioritize yourself for future passive income.

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    11 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #008: Price Comparisons Can Bring Down Your Mindset

    Sensual Abundance #008: Price Comparisons Can Bring Down Your Mindset
    Sep 29 2024
    Welcome to episode eight of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. I highly recommend listening to the first seven episodes 💕 Today, I’m diving into a hot topic many spicy creators face — price comparisons in the adult content industry. Whether you're just starting or a seasoned pro, you've probably encountered discussions on how pricing affects us all. I'll share some of my journey on NiteFlirt, insights from over two decades in the online marketing space, and why I believe that someone else's low prices shouldn't impact your mindset or your success. Highlights:
    • [00:04:43] – Price competition didn't affect my consistent client base.
    • [00:11:01] – The way we think about prices, there's a lot that goes into it for every single individual.
    • [00:16:22] – Success isn't determined by others' pricing strategies.

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    23 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #007: Principle Seven

    Sensual Abundance #007: Principle Seven
    Aug 23 2024
    I’m sharing principle six of 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance with you! I highly recommend listening to the first seven episodes in order, so if you haven’t listened to Episode One, Episode Two, Episode Three, Episode Four, Episode Five or Episode Six, please do! Principle #7: I keep my focus on the unfailing flow of Abundance. I decline the ever-present invitation to focus on negative news and perspectives. Please know, I’m not judging anybody that shares their personal experiences and perspectives when they share negative things like thinking this industry is dead, I’m not making money anymore, men don’t call sex workers anymore, etc. That is their experience/perspective, not mine – I’m having a totally different experience. This principle is so important because it can be easy to get caught up in negativity and let that affect your mood/creativity, etc. but if you keep a positive mindset it’ll be easier to decline that invitation (to get caught up in negative perspectives/news). This principle boils down to managing your input. Don’t let someone else’s negative perspective taint your experience. Suggestions/invitations for making the most of this podcast and the principles I share:
    • Ask simply “What if this IS true?’
    • Play with the principle in your thoughts through the day.
    • Bring your own style of spirituality to the topic.
    • Be open and curious.
    • There’s no right or wrong or good or bad about how you respond.

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    12 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #006: Principle Six

    Sensual Abundance #006: Principle Six
    Aug 23 2024
    I’m sharing principle six of 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance with you! I highly recommend listening to the first seven episodes in order, so if you haven’t listened to Episode One, Episode Two, Episode Three, Episode Four or Episode Five yet, please do! Principle #6: My creativity and unique execution of the ideas I feel drawn to open the door to abundance. We're not meant to be copycats. We all have natural creativity. When it comes to spicy work, we see what other creators are doing and it’s normal to be inspired by it. Lean into your creativity about it, though – what would you do differently that they’re not doing? Run with that idea. I also want to inspire you – don’t think that you can’t create more content around something you’ve already done! Our customers like specific things and they like hearing us say them/do them over and over. So why not revisit content you’ve already created but come at it from a fresh creative perspective? See what you can create this time around. Suggestions/invitations for making the most of this podcast and the principles I share:
    • Ask simply “What if this IS true?’
    • Play with the principle in your thoughts through the day.
    • Bring your own style of spirituality to the topic.
    • Be open and curious.
    • There’s no right or wrong or good or bad about how you respond.

    Want a printable of the 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance for a visual reminder? Grab your copy here.
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    6 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #005: Principle Five

    Sensual Abundance #005: Principle Five
    Aug 23 2024
    I’m sharing principle five of 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance with you! I highly recommend listening to the first seven episodes in order, so if you haven’t listened to Episode One, Episode Two, Episode Three, or Episode Four yet, please do! Principle #5: No one customer is my abundance, though every customer opens the door to more flow. It's so amazing when a “whale” shows up for us. They spend lots of money on tributes, gifts, calls, and more. It’s exciting. It’s yummy. But what happens when they move on? I’ve seen a lot of conversation around this – the pure devastation it brings to spicy workers. It's important to acknowledge the abundance a big spender brings to us and to be grateful for it, but not get caught up in becoming overly dependent on that ONE customer. This can create issues like giving in and doing anything to please them (in hopes they’ll stick around) even if it means not sticking to your boundaries. I want to remind you that when a “whale” moves on, it’s nothing personal. You didn’t do anything wrong! Suggestions/invitations for making the most of this podcast and the principles I share:
    • Ask simply “What if this IS true?’
    • Play with the principle in your thoughts through the day.
    • Bring your own style of spirituality to the topic.
    • Be open and curious.
    • There’s no right or wrong or good or bad about how you respond.

    Want a printable of the 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance for a visual reminder? Grab your copy here.
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    14 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #004: Principle Four

    Sensual Abundance #004: Principle Four
    Aug 23 2024
    I’m sharing principle four of 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance with you! I highly recommend listening to the first seven episodes in order, so if you haven’t listened to Episode One, Episode Two, or Episode Three yet, please do! Principle #4: Knowing what I want matters. The truer I am to my yes, the better I'll create more of what I want. Ooh boy, I can feel your resistance to this principle from afar ;-) I get it. I get you! I’ve been a content creator for over 20 years in the “vanilla” world and know it’s about figuring out what our customers want and then designing something they want. But in the spicy world, we as content creators get to also create what we want. But without knowing what you want, what your YES is, you can’t do this. If you do things you don’t want to do, it's an invitation to attract more experiences like this. And I don’t want that for you! What if it's possible that you could do more of what you want and be as profitable or even more profitable just because you're having so much fun? Suggestions/invitations for making the most of this podcast and the principles I share:
    • Ask simply “What if this IS true?’
    • Play with the principle in your thoughts through the day.
    • Bring your own style of spirituality to the topic.
    • Be open and curious.
    • There’s no right or wrong or good or bad about how you respond.

    Want a printable of the 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance for a visual reminder? Grab your copy here.
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    15 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #003: Principle Three

    Sensual Abundance #003: Principle Three
    Aug 23 2024
    I’m sharing principle three of 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance with you! I highly recommend listening to the first seven episodes in order, so if you haven’t listened to Episode One or Episode Two yet, please do! Principle #3: My unique sensual energy is the perfect match for someone's desired experience. When it comes to spicy work, thank goodness we come in different shapes, sizes, ages, flavors, kinks and fetishes because men are looking for something specific for their desired experience. But it isn’t just about body types. This is about our attitudes, life experiences, and more, as well. Suggestions/invitations for making the most of this podcast and the principles I share:
    • Ask simply “What if this IS true?’
    • Play with the principle in your thoughts through the day.
    • Bring your own style of spirituality to the topic.
    • Be open and curious.
    • There’s no right or wrong or good or bad about how you respond.

    Want a printable of the 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance for a visual reminder? Grab your copy here.
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    11 mins