Episodes

  • Sensual Abundance #030: Niteflirt Let's Us Change Chat Rates!

    Sensual Abundance #030: Niteflirt Let's Us Change Chat Rates!
    Mar 30 2026
    Welcome to episode thirty of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. In today’s episode, Mari is joined by Mia, and they chat about the exciting new feature that Nite Flirt finally rolled out – the option for creators to set their own chat rates! Highlights:
    • [00:05:24] – Raising rates and client reactions.
    • [00:07:51] – Setting boundaries for communication.
    • [00:11:01] – Handling client feedback.
    • [00:13:43] – Playing raise the rate in chat.

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    18 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #029: Tapping Into Mia's Goddess Vibes

    Sensual Abundance #029: Tapping Into Mia's Goddess Vibes
    Mar 30 2026
    Welcome to episode twenty-nine of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. In today’s episode, Mari is joined by Mia, and they chat about feeling themselves… in the sense of confident Goddess energy. Mia shares how a recent night out and getting gussied up helped her tap into some Goddess’ energy. The takeaway from today’s episode to think about: does looking great make you feel more abundant? Highlights:
    • [00:01:58] – Some spicy creators are tired of this, but Mari and Mia don’t know if they ever will be.
    • [00:04:10] – Mia’s night out & feeling empowered through appearance.
    • [00:08:01] – Mari’s nails and pedicures and how posting about them attracts the subs that want to pay for the next ones.
    • [00:10:34] – Mari shares about her experience with NiteFlirt’s recent update and how flirts can now change the price of the chat volleys.

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    12 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #028: Can You Be Okay With Taking Their Money?

    Sensual Abundance #028: Can You Be Okay With Taking Their Money?
    Mar 29 2026
    Welcome to episode twenty-eight of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. In today’s episode, Mari is joined by Mia and they talk about the mindset blocks that can arise for spicy creators when it comes to accepting financial contributions from clients - especially when those contributions tap into the world of financial domination and submissive relationships. They also chat about how past experiences can create resistance to receiving abundance, and challenge the idea of “protecting” clients from their own willingness to pay for attention and service. Highlights:
    • [00:00:53] – Mari’s new pet & Mia’s interaction with him.
    • [00:05:00] – Mari’s piggy – his devotion & sacrifice.
    • [00:10:59] – Overcoming financial projection.
    • [00:15:47] – Navigating guilt around payment.
    • [00:19:03] – When something feels “off” there’s a few reasons why.
    • [00:28:18] – Today’s takeaway – honor your values.

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    31 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #027: What Do You Want More Of From Clients?

    Sensual Abundance #027: What Do You Want More Of From Clients?
    Mar 9 2026
    Welcome to episode twenty-seven of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. In today’s episode, Mari is joined by Mia and they chat about creating abundance by tapping into your unique sensual energy – which is principle #3 of the seven principles of sensual abundance; find all 7 principles here. If you’re looking to attract clients who resonate with your unique style, or just want to hear honest, empowering chat about aligning your business with your sensuality, this episode will inspire you to update your profiles, claim your desires, and let abundance flow. Highlights:
    • [00:01:47] – Quick run through of the 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance.
    • [00:03:36] – Today’s topic of conversation: what do you want more of in your spicy business?
    • [00:04:07] – Mari’s crazy long calls with a customer.
    • [00:07:20] – Mia answers the question of what she wants more of in her spicy work.
    • [00:15:05] – Mari’s new listing she can’t wait to start playing with.
    • [00:25:09] – Manifestation and self-reflection insights.
    • [00:28:52] – Embrace your unique sensual abundance energy!

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  • Sensual Abundance #026: Haggling Is Not My Thing

    Sensual Abundance #026: Haggling Is Not My Thing
    Jan 23 2026
    Welcome to episode twenty-six of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari. In today’s episode, Mari talks about probably one of the boundaries in her work as a spicy creator: her firm stance against haggling over prices. She shares her experiences across various platforms - NiteFlirt, OnlyFans, and her own website - and explains how clear pricing and holding boundaries not only preserve her energy but also help weed out time-wasters and freebie seekers. Highlights:
    • [00:03:12] – “Haggling is not my thing.”
    • [00:06:02] – Not uncommon for a few men to try and haggle my prices.
    • [00:08:35] – Isn’t NOT haggling leaving money on the table?
    • [00:09:43] – Payment timing and customer choices.
    • [00:15:13] – Boundaries on time and negotiation.
    • [00:34:41] – Gratitude over resentment – an invitation for you!

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    20 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #025: Whining About Costs Is Not Abundant Thinking

    Sensual Abundance #025: Whining About Costs Is Not Abundant Thinking
    Jan 23 2026
    Welcome to episode twenty-five of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari and her friend Mia. In today’s episode, Mari brings an important topic to the table – the cost of doing business as a spicy creator. From the not-so-glamorous side of self-employment (like paying taxes and managing platform fees) they get candid about the financial side of content creation. Highlights:
    • [00:04:02] – NiteFlirt and their fee for using their platform.
    • [00:08:33] –Fees: cost of doing business.
    • [00:10:58] – Reddit thread about one platform that takes 70%.
    • [00:14:08] – Pricing and abundance mindset.
    • [00:27:05] – Value of platform costs.
    • [00:34:41] – Gratitude over resentment – an invitation for you!

    If you've gotten caught up in whining about costs, may this be an invitation to change your mindset around them! Want a printable of the 7 Principles of Sensual Abundance? Grab your copy here.
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    38 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #024: What Are You Getting Paid For?

    Sensual Abundance #024: What Are You Getting Paid For?
    Nov 18 2025
    Welcome to episode twenty-four of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari and her friend Mia. This episode is a juicy one! Listen in as Mari and Mia chat about a big myth in the world of spicy work: is it really your job as a phone sex operator or performer to “get someone off”? Or is the real value your attentive, curious, and engaging presence? This episode picks up where Mari and Mia left off on episode 23. If you haven’t listened to that episode, you’ll find it here. Highlights:
    • [00:04:03] – Curiosity sparks connection.
    • [00:05:11] – Not here to get anyone off.
    • [00:09:06] – The ‘promise’ of attention.
    • [00:10:56] – The customer that told Mari it was her job to get him off… and why he’s no longer a customer.

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    17 mins
  • Sensual Abundance #023: We Have To Show Up

    Sensual Abundance #023: We Have To Show Up
    Nov 4 2025
    Welcome to episode twenty-three of the Sensual Abundance Podcast with your host Mari and her friend Mia. Listen in as Mari and Mia talk about the art of attracting abundance in the spicy world. This episode is packed with reflections and inspiring anecdotes, including Mari’s story of manifesting a thousand dollars from a new customer because she decided to show up and just go for it. Highlights:
    • [00:06:25] – Showing up, going for it & bam! $1,000 from a new customer.
    • [00:09:12] – Showed up, got paid!
    • [00:11:05] – Showing up attracts connection.
    • [00:14:59] – Struggle of showing up when not feeling good in your body.

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    26 mins