Say it Sister...

By: Lucy Barkas & Karen Heras Kelly
  • Summary

  • Lucy and Karen, two 40-somethings, are always chatting about life, and all that it has to throw at them, and now want to share their raw, honest conversations with you. Their journey of self-discovery and healing is something many of us can relate to. We all possess a unique power within us, but life’s trials often knock us off course. They have the tools, the courage to speak up and simply say it as it is, so you might feel seen, and understood and gain practical tools and techniques for self-discovery and personal growth during the changes we experience.

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Episodes
  • Asking for what you need part 2: Overcoming Fear and Embracing Assertiveness
    Nov 22 2024

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    Ever found yourself holding back on what you truly need? Many of us have faced that hurdle, especially in a world that often silences women’s voices. We kick things off with personal stories of overcoming the fear of voicing our desires and the beauty of co-creating solutions through open dialogue. By confronting the societal norms that keep us from expressing our needs, we uncover how self-reflection and prioritizing our desires can lead to fulfilling our dreams, no matter the size.

    But what about those pesky negative beliefs that tell us we can't have what we want? We dig into the power of inner dialogue and the transformational support of coaches and therapists. It's all about shedding those deeply ingrained tendencies to say yes when we really mean no. By tuning into our authentic selves, we uncover the magic of making choices that truly serve our well-being and align with our deepest desires. We explore how understanding our genuine needs allows us to make more intentional and satisfying decisions.

    Communication is another key theme, where we reveal the art of asking for what truly matters. Dive into the tactics of assertiveness in professional settings and the courage it takes to stand up for oneself. From mastering the art of framing requests to the necessity of setting boundaries, we share empowering insights on how to navigate conversations with confidence. By the end, you'll see how embracing assertiveness and clarity can transform interactions, leading to more meaningful and rewarding exchanges in both personal and professional realms.

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    39 mins
  • Rediscovering Desires: Navigating Self-Expression and Empowerment
    Nov 15 2024

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    Have you ever felt like your desires have taken a backseat to the demands of life? As women, we often find ourselves navigating a complex web of societal expectations and biological inclinations, which can lead us to prioritize others' needs over our own. On this episode, we share Karen's heartfelt journey of losing touch with her personal desires amid the responsibilities of motherhood, alongside Lucy's reflections on her evolving aspirations as her children grow more independent. Together, we take a closer look at how personal desires related to freedom, sexuality, money, and power transform throughout different stages of life, underscoring the crucial role of self-awareness and inner strength.

    Rediscovering and healing our relationship with sexual power and identity is no easy feat. Our conversation takes a deep dive into the profound impact trauma, motherhood, and life changes have on our sexual desires. We highlight the struggle of balancing societal expectations with personal self-expression and the importance of maintaining intuition and safety by not shutting down parts of our bodies. Discover how embracing sexual energy can catalyze creativity and abundance in other areas of life, and how self-exploration and understanding one's sexual power are invaluable tools on this intricate journey.

    We also unravel the intricate dynamics between intimacy, power, and money in relationships. Financial issues often mask deeper concerns about respect, roles, and appreciation, and we uncover the ways money serves as a currency of power rather than the root problem itself. Through insightful discussions about communication and clarity in partnerships, we emphasize the importance of articulating desires and needs to foster understanding and mutual growth. Join us as we explore how past experiences shape our ability to ask for what we need and how overcoming these barriers can lead to fulfilling and balanced relationships.

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    38 mins
  • Asking for help Pt 2: Embracing Help for a Balanced Life
    Nov 8 2024

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    What happens when we shift from a life of survival to a life of thriving? Join us, Lucy and Karen, as we share our deeply personal journeys, examining the delicate dance between asking for help and truly receiving it. Karen opens up about the transformative effects of requesting support in her family, leading to a more joyful and balanced home life. Meanwhile, Lucy reflects on her corporate career, where asking for help was easy, but accepting it was a different story. Together, we explore how embracing both sides of this equation can prevent loneliness and burnout, fostering gratitude and deeper connections.

    Step into a world where teamwork and personal growth are no longer at odds. We invite you to explore the evolution from a "can do" mindset to a "can be" approach, where shared responsibility and interdependence create stronger communities. Discover the rituals and practices that can guide you toward personal empowerment, allowing you to express your needs while considering others. As we move from merely surviving to truly thriving, learn how assertiveness can unlock new levels of personal development, helping you align with your highest potential and live a life filled with resilience and fulfillment.

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    34 mins

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